Kinky People

[sub2femdom]

I know you're out there.

I'm just so curious to know just how many of us are out there hiding in a vanilla world with a secret most people wouldn't understand. How many people do we come across in our daily lives that live for those cathartic moments of kinky fuckery. I am out there, very type A, confident and gracious in all my public interactions. What would the teller at the credit union say if she knew I was going tie my wife up tonight and not cum until she cries? Could she be doing the same thing tonight? Do you think the lady standing in front of me at the grocery store, quiet and reserved, comes out of the bathroom ready to peg her lover until his prostate milks precum in volume, and he begs her to let him cum? Is that husband and wife behind me in target going to go home and play a CNC scene she's been wanting to do all day?

I'm sure just a small fraction of us have time for munches and involvement in the BDSM Community leaving the VAST majority of us to hide in plain sight. The point is I know you are out there. I just wish I could see you better. If every fucking wrangler driver has to wave to another, why cant we have our own little thing. I know there are day collars and some anklets have hidden meaning, but wouldn't it be fun if we had an identifier?

Imagine if the vail was lifted and you could magically see what goes on behind closed doors of our kinky brethren. I'd like to think there are more of us out there than one would think. No doubt there would be some shockers you didn't even see coming. I'm looking at you church piano lady, and you kendergarten teacher! Suffice to say the though crosses my mind all the time.

I know you're out there, I just wish I could see you better.

Every attractive person or couple I see in public, I daydream about them doing something sexual. Depending on the look, the daydream takes on many different kinks and acts. I sometimes masturbate to a fantasy I had earlier in the day.

I know how quagmire feels

 

[Sunnyade]

I have a triskelion anklet and a necklace I wear at times. Of course I don't wear both at the same time.

I had to google "triskelion" to find out what it was. Curious to know why not necklace and anklet at the same time?

 

[LauraWilling]

I had to google "triskelion" to find out what it was. Curious to know why not necklace and anklet at the same time?

No real reason other than over doing what should be a subtle way of saying what I am open to and enjoy. I think I wear the anklet more as I usually wear a string of pearls or a gold necklace when I go out. I like more simple jewelry to accent the solid colors I lean towards in my wardrobe.

Threadbare42, thank you for that link! I was aware there are similar symbols often Asian and sometimes Greek and Italian versions (I'm Italian ) Mine are like the real BDSM one. The dots are actually small holes. Both of mine are gold with black inserts.

 

[Snowbunnie12]

If only people knew beneath the prim and proper exterior what we are really like at home lol! If the poor cashier new what the items were for or who was actually “shopping” at the VS semi annual sale.

 

[shewantsmore]

It's a good job people dont know,that's why we all have secrets,everyone of us.

 

[JustbeingRandy]

I'd be so terrible at this, have never really hidden my kinky dark desires. When I was younger, was lifetime military and never married so life was very good. After retiring and finishing up some schooling. Here I was the older guy surrounded by younger females, yes it was a dream come true. And around people my own age, I was just me. Who when asked when am I going to settle down would openly reply, when I find a woman who's as kinky as I am and wants to just fuck and to hell with this getting married BS. Just live in sin, and smile.

 

[Snowbunnie12]

I'd be so terrible at this, have never really hidden my kinky dark desires. When I was younger, was lifetime military and never married so life was very good. After retiring and finishing up some schooling. Here I was the older guy surrounded by younger females, yes it was a dream come true. And around people my own age, I was just me. Who when asked when am I going to settle down would openly reply, when I find a woman who's as kinky as I am and wants to just fuck and to hell with this getting married BS. Just live in sin, and smile.

I “settled down” years ago but that doesn’t change a thing. Find the right guy are woman and it only gets better and better trust me

 

[JustbeingRandy]

I “settled down” years ago but that doesn’t change a thing. Find the right guy are woman and it only gets better and better trust me

Oh I believe you. Just seems that when I do think I've found possibly the right one. Things start to change, and the conversation usually starts with I don't really like that anymore, oh that was fun but only once.

So I do keep looking, but seems I just have some fun times on a somewhat rotational group.

 

[Erosfan]

Oh oh we could all do a “wink wink nudge nudge say no more say no more”!

You nailed it.
Our friends and my coworkers would be shocked if they were to discover what goes on at our house and so many other places. The best part is the, so many other places.

 

[Guns44]

This post may have been made for me. Hiding my desires all around. At work at home everywhere. My wife and her family are beyond vanilla, and my thoughts and desires would definitely not be accepted in my professional line of work. And I do not have a very good feel for other people who may be sexually open like myself. Just wish I could meet the right sexually free woman or couple to explore with..

 

[one_love]

This post may have been made for me. Hiding my desires all around. At work at home everywhere. My wife and her family are beyond vanilla, and my thoughts and desires would definitely not be accepted in my professional line of work. And I do not have a very good feel for other people who may be sexually open like myself. Just wish I could meet the right sexually free woman or couple to explore with..

I love all the fun responses to this thread. It really is a fun discussion. Since I learned about the Triskelion I find myself jonesing to get it tattooed somewhere on me.

I'm mostly in the same boat as this fella here. Most people that know me including my family would be SHOCKED to learn what conspires behind my closed doors.

I know you kinky freaks are out there. I just wish I could see you better... and thanks to all the awesome responses I can. *wink wink, nudge nudge*

 

[asus013]

I know you're out there.

I'm just so curious to know just how many of us are out there hiding in a vanilla world with a secret most people wouldn't understand. How many people do we come across in our daily lives that live for those cathartic moments of kinky fuckery. I am out there, very type A, confident and gracious in all my public interactions. What would the teller at the credit union say if she knew I was going tie my wife up tonight and not cum until she cries? Could she be doing the same thing tonight? Do you think the lady standing in front of me at the grocery store, quiet and reserved, comes out of the bathroom ready to peg her lover until his prostate milks precum in volume, and he begs her to let him cum? Is that husband and wife behind me in target going to go home and play a CNC scene she's been wanting to do all day?

I'm sure just a small fraction of us have time for munches and involvement in the BDSM Community leaving the VAST majority of us to hide in plain sight. The point is I know you are out there. I just wish I could see you better. If every fucking wrangler driver has to wave to another, why cant we have our own little thing. I know there are day collars and some anklets have hidden meaning, but wouldn't it be fun if we had an identifier?

Imagine if the vail was lifted and you could magically see what goes on behind closed doors of our kinky brethren. I'd like to think there are more of us out there than one would think. No doubt there would be some shockers you didn't even see coming. I'm looking at you church piano lady, and you kendergarten teacher! Suffice to say the though crosses my mind all the time.

I know you're out there, I just wish I could see you better.

Hell yeah! I would love to do things to my wife that are just down right deviant and wish her to do the same. We are inching closer and closer as our relationship goes on. But its emotionally hard when I ask her if she is up for trying a spreader bar or pegging and she is like, maybe.

 

[DrDick125]

I am a health care professional and have to maintain a professional public image
second, kink is a pretty broad term and more than BDSM
lastly

 

[Blase]

^^ That *did* make me laugh out loud!

 

[Erosfan]

We are all kinky in our own way. I love learning of other peoples kinks. It makes me feel normal.

 

[DVS]

Kinky people are more sexually satisfied. We have fewer hangups, fewer social problems and are more able to talk openly about things of a sexual nature. I've tried to meet women saying I'm very open sexually, but they tend to clam up and don't feel able to share.

While I know that might mean I'm being too open, I prefer a woman who can at least tell me what she likes and doesn't like. I don't like having to read her mind and have her get frustrated because I don't seem to "understand her needs".

If we just communicate our desires, our sexual satisfaction comes sooner and we don't waste time with doing the wrong things or doing them the wrong way. How many times have we met a partner only to end up sexually unsatisfied, because of a lack of communication?

 

[LauraWilling]

Kinky people are more sexually satisfied. We have fewer hangups, fewer social problems and are more able to talk openly about things of a sexual nature. I've tried to meet women saying I'm very open sexually, but they tend to clam up and don't feel able to share.

While I know that might mean I'm being too open, I prefer a woman who can at least tell me what she likes and doesn't like. I don't like having to read her mind and have her get frustrated because I don't seem to "understand her needs".

If we just communicate our desires, our sexual satisfaction comes sooner and we don't waste time with doing the wrong things or doing them the wrong way. How many times have we met a partner only to end up sexually unsatisfied, because of a lack of communication?

OH WOW! You said this so well! I wish I could say it so well! Honest open communication is so important and all should do it. They will be so much more satisfied and enjoy so much more, whatever their thing is! Thanks DVS!

 

[Erosfan]

Kinky people are more sexually satisfied. We have fewer hangups, fewer social problems and are more able to talk openly about things of a sexual nature. I've tried to meet women saying I'm very open sexually, but they tend to clam up and don't feel able to share.

While I know that might mean I'm being too open, I prefer a woman who can at least tell me what she likes and doesn't like. I don't like having to read her mind and have her get frustrated because I don't seem to "understand her needs".

If we just communicate our desires, our sexual satisfaction comes sooner and we don't waste time with doing the wrong things or doing them the wrong way. How many times have we met a partner only to end up sexually unsatisfied, because of a lack of communication?

You nailed it. I wish we could all be as honest, sexually, as you suggest. Life would be so much easier.

 

[anniebaby10]

I am not sure what is "kinky" any more. My husband and I love sex in all its forms and have explored new things all the time. Yet our professional lives require a very modest style of dress, behavior and that side stays with us. If we want to go to a sex club we have to be at least 100 miles or more away. If we explore sex in public places, again, gotta be far away from the hometown. Too many cameras and online ways to exploit others so we only go to clubs where they do not allow cameras. And we don't skype or text nude pics or even keep them on our devices in case they are hacked. So it has become harder to be a very sexual person in the US as we have too many hangups and people that want to blackmail you in some way. Love the Euro way of having sex and being naked. The beaches, the clubs, and their way of life is non threatening and sensual. Some of our best sexual adventures have been there.

 

[GidgetsCorner]

This thread so describes me!!!

In life I have always been CUTE & ADORABLE! Such a GOOD GIRL! She wouldn't do that she is much to good for that! Viewed as prim and proper! The perfect wife and mom that doesn't walk on the wild side... I admit I don't help it some times in that I don't use swears or coarse rough language except around hubby...

In reality I love my kinks and explore them as much as possible... I want to be viewed as sexy and over the top!

Not your cute or your adorable! I would love if people could read my little bent halo above my head saying "Exhibitionist, Kinkster, Submissive, Big toy lover, Anal Lover" well there's more but how big could the halo be???

I agree we have to hide who we are way to much... Among adults if the topics are brought up we shouldn't be afraid to say who we are and what we like... I still hide my face in my pics after all...

I just want to be the Kinky Sexy woman I am and not have to worry about what others say... Don't want to force my likes on others but shouldn't have to be afraid to let it out that I cum from kinky not vanilla...

 

[Dreamer110]

This thread so describes me!!!

In life I have always been CUTE & ADORABLE! Such a GOOD GIRL! She wouldn't do that she is much to good for that! Viewed as prim and proper! The perfect wife and mom that doesn't walk on the wild side... I admit I don't help it some times in that I don't use swears or coarse rough language except around hubby...

In reality I love my kinks and explore them as much as possible... I want to be viewed as sexy and over the top!

Not your cute or your adorable! I would love if people could read my little bent halo above my head saying "Exhibitionist, Kinkster, Submissive, Big toy lover, Anal Lover" well there's more but how big could the halo be???

I agree we have to hide who we are way to much... Among adults if the topics are brought up we shouldn't be afraid to say who we are and what we like... I still hide my face in my pics after all...

I just want to be the Kinky Sexy woman I am and not have to worry about what others say... Don't want to force my likes on others but shouldn't have to be afraid to let it out that I cum from kinky not vanilla...

I personally think your the best kind of woman. Nobody would suspect my wife has and done many of her kinks.

 

[GidgetsCorner]

I personally think your the best kind of woman. Nobody would suspect my wife has and done many of her kinks.

Thanks Dreamer!

I know, I know.... I get that guys like my type... But I just want to be viewed as Sexy... Erotic... A Vixen... Once in awhile!

 

[Dreamer110]

Thanks Dreamer!

I know, I know.... I get that guys like my type... But I just want to be viewed as Sexy... Erotic... A Vixen... Once in awhile!

Lol. Exactly. That's how she feels. And of course I love it when she does.

 

[GidgetsCorner]

Lol. Exactly. That's how she feels. And of course I love it when she does.

I guess I'll just have to keep on trying... LOL!

I do wish that as others have stated things were more acceptable!

 

[Dreamer110]

I guess I'll just have to keep on trying... LOL!

I do wish that as others have stated things were more acceptable!

Normally she's a very helpful woman. Her other side is hidden. Mostly. Being unacceptable is what makes it kinky. She's very good at that. Lol