Kinky Self Love

[welshman]

Hands Free?

Hands free?: you don't mean you can come with no physical contact? or do you mean your hands are not bound

to be able to 'talk' a woman to orgasm is the ultimate or is the pleasure of being bound so strong as to enable orgasm without direct genital stimulation?.... an awed 'outsider' bows his head in admiration

 

[MissTaken]

Re: Hands Free?

Hands free?: you don't mean you can come with no physical contact? or do you mean your hands are not bound

to be able to 'talk' a woman to orgasm is the ultimate or is the pleasure of being bound so strong as to enable orgasm without direct genital stimulation?.... an awed 'outsider' bows his head in admiration

*blushing*

Yes, I can be talked through climax.

 

[welshman]

Re: Re: Hands Free?

*blushing*

Yes, I can be talked through climax.

I'd really like you to write a paragraph or two or three about that

 

[MissTaken]

Re: Re: Re: Hands Free?

I'd really like you to write a paragraph or two or three about that

Perhaps later. I must get ready for work.

 

[RoughPlay]

Re: Re: Hands Free?

*blushing*

Yes, I can be talked through climax.

For a sub to have orgasms from spanking alone would be truly amazing
but for her to cum by words alone is just out this world. A sub with
this ability deserves to be very highly prized.

 

[welshman]

Re: Re: Re: Re: Hands Free?

Perhaps later. I must get ready for work.

I'm keeping you to that a binding agreement Is it known here at Lit what kind of work you do? Did I miss that?

 

[bunny bondage]

i guess i can proudly admit that i'm among those who can cum from words alone. i have been talked to orgasm countless times by Him, and it really is an experience. i didn't even masturbate for the longest time, i could just sort of "fantasize intensely" till i came. but hell, rubbin' the nubbin' is quicker, and (in my experience) gives more satisfying orgasms. often on the ride home, He'll tell me the most dirty things, just to get me all worked up and wet for things to come.

 

[welshman]

i guess i can proudly admit that i'm among those who can cum from words alone. i have been talked to orgasm countless times by Him, and it really is an experience. i didn't even masturbate for the longest time, i could just sort of "fantasize intensely" till i came. but hell, rubbin' the nubbin' is quicker, and (in my experience) gives more satisfying orgasms. often on the ride home, He'll tell me the most dirty things, just to get me all worked up and wet for things to come.

there's something so sexy about talking a woman to an orgasm, I can imagine it, its so powerful.

 

[welshman]

i guess i can proudly admit that i'm among those who can cum from words alone. i have been talked to orgasm countless times by Him, and it really is an experience. i didn't even masturbate for the longest time, i could just sort of "fantasize intensely" till i came. but hell, rubbin' the nubbin' is quicker, and (in my experience) gives more satisfying orgasms. often on the ride home, He'll tell me the most dirty things, just to get me all worked up and wet for things to come.

can you explain what goes on in your mind and how that affects your body?

 

[Maleslutforsex]

Had to reply new to this forum

I normaly write a erotic story for each session with me and my hand

sometimes working for two hours on the story before i even start to masturbate



now I cant seem to masturbate without the story

 

[Ebonyfire]

Skills

Some of you may have read that I became a Domme through the back door so to speak.

I started as a submissive. I was not a very good one by the way, cause I found I rather liked being on the other side of the flogger. To me it was more blessed to give than to receive.

One particular trick I learned was to cum on command. A very good parlor trick, that has helped me as a Domme believe it or not. How has it helped?

Well since the principle is one of Pavlovian conditioning, it really requires a lot of concentration, which helps when I am tormenting my subby boys.

Eb

 

[Desdemona]

To be able to cum on command is quite amazing and a relatively new thing for me. It is a wholly different orgasm for me than one that is achieved through direct physical stimulation.

Imagine if you will, the phone rings and I answer. I hear one word that brings me to my knees, quivering and moaning as the pleasure screams through my body. That word, spoken quietly but firmly is: "Cum".

 

[RoughPlay]

Re: Skills

One particular trick I learned was to cum on command. A very good parlor trick, that has helped me as a Domme believe it or not. How has it helped?

Well since the principle is one of Pavlovian conditioning, it really requires a lot of concentration, which helps when I am tormenting my subby boys.

I wonder if Pavlov ever managed to get his dog to cum on command.
Now that would have been impressive. Perhaps if he had used
biscuits instead of a bell!

 

[gomeade]

It's mostly all self-dom for me. I like to take a STEAMING hot, soapy shower with one of those rough coral shower brushes on a long wooden handle and run it over every inch of my body. I set the bathroom up so that the only light is from two small votive candles (I think I'm still a little afraid of the dark when I'm alone.) Then I dry and blindfold myself and insert ice cubes in my ass. I walk from the shower to the bedroom (also darkened.) I spin around (please don't laugh) till I'm dizzy and then have to find the bed with my hands behind my back. Once to the bed, I apply a selection of clothes pins and then use a riding crop all over my body. Sometimes I can ejaculate from the crop. If not, I have a cock-shaped vibrator that I worship while crying out as I remove the clothes pins. I then insert another vibe in my ass and ride that one while vibeing my cock to ecstasy.

Those are my kinks. I hope I don't sound ridiculous, but it's tough when you don't have a dom/domme in R/T.

Love to all.

 

[Ebonyfire]

Re: Re: Skills

I wonder if Pavlov ever managed to get his dog to cum on command.
Now that would have been impressive. Perhaps if he had used
biscuits instead of a bell!

Well dog training was a Pavlovian exercise at one point in time, but who knows. Maybe he just got his wife to do it!

 

[bunny bondage]

can you explain what goes on in your mind and how that affects your body?

well, for one thing, His voice is VERY sexy. ever since the first time i heard it, i have been simply enthralled by it, straining to hear every soft spoken word. mmm...but i digress. He's very articulate (being an english prof and all) and can hold discussions about kafka, nietzche, yeats, keats, blake, so on and so on. to hear this man who holds such highly intelligent conversations say incredibly dirty and vulgar things is in and of itself a turn on. and having spent time getting to know me, He knows just what i like, what to say, what things make me uncomfortable in that delightful way, what things to make me say that i find embarrasing. that commanding tone just melts me right down to my soul. it is, however, hard to drive while He does it because i get involved and entranced in what He's saying. so it's not that just anyone can make me cum from words alone, but only someone who has made the effort to learn exactly what it takes. hope this is helpful! ^_^

 

[Bondagebunni]

does anyone else get incredible worked up by reading this?

God i wish i could be talked to orgasm...that sounds like the most amazing experience...ooh...drool...i'm really horny now...i think i maybe have to go play with my toys...

 

[lark sparrow]

Those are my kinks. I hope I don't sound ridiculous, but it's tough when you don't have a dom/domme in R/T.

Love to all.

Hardly - it sounds very creative actually.

 

[welshman]

well, for one thing, His voice is VERY sexy. ever since the first time i heard it, i have been simply enthralled by it, straining to hear every soft spoken word. mmm...but i digress. He's very articulate (being an english prof and all) and can hold discussions about kafka, nietzche, yeats, keats, blake, so on and so on. to hear this man who holds such highly intelligent conversations say incredibly dirty and vulgar things is in and of itself a turn on. and having spent time getting to know me, He knows just what i like, what to say, what things make me uncomfortable in that delightful way, what things to make me say that i find embarrasing. that commanding tone just melts me right down to my soul. it is, however, hard to drive while He does it because i get involved and entranced in what He's saying. so it's not that just anyone can make me cum from words alone, but only someone who has made the effort to learn exactly what it takes. hope this is helpful! ^_^

Yes that was helpful. I understand that it would be with a particular individual someone could be made to come like this, it's still remarkable. I suppose it's really suggestion, like if someone was hypnotised, the power of suggestion is very strong particularly if the 'subject' is amenable to it and I think some people are more so than others which is how hypnotists get 'the right people' onto the stage to start with. I'm not trying to lessen the impressiveness of one person having such a sexy effect on another, just trying to understand it. I'm a bit analytical minded I think of my stories having a similar effect, at least in arousing but not to climax, not without the help of the reader's hands anyway

 

[welshman]

*Taps fingers impatiently waiting for post*

...which seems not to be forthcoming, therefore a suitable punishment must be imparted and the punishment is.... NO punishment, NO smackings on the botty, not even being bound constrained over a table powerless to resist, the anticipation of punishment, even, is too good for non-posters! Patricularly the one who hinted, who all but promised, (she knows who she is ) I have 'special' plans for her, once I have finished welding the cage and the transporter I bought from the Ferengi is in working order, I wouldn't want her molecules floating about my cellar, my dirty dark damp cellar. *evil laugh*

 

[MissTaken]

A form of self hypnosis, perhaps?

For me, chanting or counting will take me to the head space where my body can release without any physical touch, whatsoever.

I have done this while standing in the corner and being told to repeat a certain phrase, which has been particularly effective. Now, that phrase could be "You are my Master." or "Humpty Dumpty sat on a wall, the stupid egg." Words, repeated over and over as directed does it for me.

From that point, cumming on command was made easier.

 

[welshman]

Ok, you have an orgasm but do you have physical um, symptoms?
Is it a mental release or does your clit throb, wetness etc.?

 

[MissTaken]

Ok, you have an orgasm but do you have physical um, symptoms?
Is it a mental release or does your clit throb, wetness etc.?

It is a physical orgasm, complete with muscle tension, moans, shouts and full release.

 

[welshman]

It is a physical orgasm, complete with muscle tension, moans, shouts and full release.

Mmmmm, nice

 

[FungiUg]

Cumming on command

I have always wanted to train a submissive to cum on command. Perhaps I will yet do so! Can anyone share what was effective in training to be able to do this?

One of the submissives I played with has involuntary orgasms every day for the space of about an hour in the afternoons. No joke! She says she has no control over them. It seems at this period of the day she's a little more relaxed, her thoughts wander, and wham... away she goes!

Of course, she tells me it's both wonderful and scary, especially when she is at work!