Kissing after a blowjob

I have never become so jaded that I'm not appreciative for a blow job. If you give me one, the least I can do is kiss you afterward. Funny thought, though--I've known a few women who didn't want to kiss me after I'd gone down on them. They didn't like the taste of themselves. Different strokes for different folks.
 
I am fine with it...in fact the thought of swallowing a bit of my own cum kinda makes me hot:)
 
I've been with men who refused to kiss me immediately after giving them a blowjob and letting them finish in my mouth, and there's rarely been a second blowjob with them. If your cum is so disgusting, then why would you expect me to take it in my mouth? I've been with guys who did kiss me afterwards, but it was obviously reluctantly. I gave them a "B" for effort, and our relationships, including an occasional blowjob to completion, usually continued. The best for me, however, were those men who not only did it, but did so enthusiastically and without hesitation. I considered them open, giving, and confident in their own sexuality, and to me, that's very hot & sexy.
 
I've been with men who refused to kiss me immediately after giving them a blowjob and letting them finish in my mouth, and there's rarely been a second blowjob with them. If your cum is so disgusting, then why would you expect me to take it in my mouth? I've been with guys who did kiss me afterwards, but it was obviously reluctantly. I gave them a "B" for effort, and our relationships, including an occasional blowjob to completion, usually continued. The best for me, however, were those men who not only did it, but did so enthusiastically and without hesitation. I considered them open, giving, and confident in their own sexuality, and to me, that's very hot & sexy.

Those kisses always lead to a quicker round 2 for me:cattail:
 
I've been with men who refused to kiss me immediately after giving them a blowjob and letting them finish in my mouth, and there's rarely been a second blowjob with them. If your cum is so disgusting, then why would you expect me to take it in my mouth? I've been with guys who did kiss me afterwards, but it was obviously reluctantly. I gave them a "B" for effort, and our relationships, including an occasional blowjob to completion, usually continued. The best for me, however, were those men who not only did it, but did so enthusiastically and without hesitation. I considered them open, giving, and confident in their own sexuality, and to me, that's very hot & sexy.

Yeah, it's bullshit when guys do that, it's totally selfish on their part. If they're going to blow their nuts, and expect you to take their load into your mouth, the very mouth they were likely kissing just brief moments before, what is the problem. It's okay for me to taste and swallow his jiz but not him? If he thinks his cream is so foul and disgusting, why the fuck should I even consider letting it even close to my mouth?
 
I've been with men who refused to kiss me immediately after giving them a blowjob and letting them finish in my mouth, and there's rarely been a second blowjob with them. If your cum is so disgusting, then why would you expect me to take it in my mouth? I've been with guys who did kiss me afterwards, but it was obviously reluctantly. I gave them a "B" for effort, and our relationships, including an occasional blowjob to completion, usually continued. The best for me, however, were those men who not only did it, but did so enthusiastically and without hesitation. I considered them open, giving, and confident in their own sexuality, and to me, that's very hot & sexy.

What were the ages of those guys?

When I was younger, while I really didn't get the opportunity to kiss a girl after a blowjob to completion, I doubt I would have kissed her.

These days, there's no question that I'd kiss her (my wife) and I LOVE doing so.

I think it's a maturity issue and getting over the feeling that tasting your own cum is somehow gay.
 
Yeah, it's bullshit when guys do that, it's totally selfish on their part. If they're going to blow their nuts, and expect you to take their load into your mouth, the very mouth they were likely kissing just brief moments before, what is the problem. It's okay for me to taste and swallow his jiz but not him? If he thinks his cream is so foul and disgusting, why the fuck should I even consider letting it even close to my mouth?

This all makes sense, and I have no idea of the statistics, but I've pretty frequently had new partners be surprised I wanted to kiss afterward. So these guys must at least be semi-common.
 
Seriously Confused

Is this really an issue with anyone? I'm a 52 year old man, many lovers over this past half decade. lol

This has never been an issue either way. Woman love to taste themselves on my cock and I would have NO PROBLEM tasting myself inside their deflowered pussy.

What's the issue here?

If either partner can't except their own fluids - OMG move on quickly!
 
Is this really an issue with anyone? I'm a 52 year old man, many lovers over this past half decade. lol

This has never been an issue either way. Woman love to taste themselves on my cock and I would have NO PROBLEM tasting myself inside their deflowered pussy.

What's the issue here?

If either partner can't except their own fluids - OMG move on quickly!

I’m with you all the way. My wife’s attitude is we share everything. She takes a bj (my own or another guys) she shares it with me. This goes to cream pies and now cocks. It works very well for us
 
I've been with men who refused to kiss me immediately after giving them a blowjob and letting them finish in my mouth, and there's rarely been a second blowjob with them. If your cum is so disgusting, then why would you expect me to take it in my mouth? I've been with guys who did kiss me afterwards, but it was obviously reluctantly. I gave them a "B" for effort, and our relationships, including an occasional blowjob to completion, usually continued. The best for me, however, were those men who not only did it, but did so enthusiastically and without hesitation. I considered them open, giving, and confident in their own sexuality, and to me, that's very hot & sexy.

Maureen,

I so agree with you! Some women, I think especially the younger ones, think of a blowjob as less intimate and more casual than allowing a man to cum deep inside them. I think both are equally intimate.

I know some women claim they love the taste of cum. But, is that a physical affinity or a psychological one? Regardless, Moet et Chandon it is not, right?

A woman allowing a man to finish in their mouth is being generous and unselfish at the least. Any man who doesn't return the favor via long, passionate kisses is a pig.

So, I say yes! Men, show your gratitude with passionate, tender and wet kisses! Else, you are not worthy of your lover.

BT
 
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Goes both ways. I will not date a woman that does not let me kiss her after me going down on her or me kissing her after her going down on me.

My wife seems to think that her pussy stinks and therefore doesn't like the smell or taste. I have run into the refusal to kiss me directly that is for sure!!!!
 
I'm surprised at there are some on here stating if their partner doesnt like it, then it's a deal breaker and move on. There is a lot of different ways to enjoy sex. That is just one little piece. If you'd move on just because of that.......
 
What were the ages of those guys?

When I was younger, while I really didn't get the opportunity to kiss a girl after a blowjob to completion, I doubt I would have kissed her.

These days, there's no question that I'd kiss her (my wife) and I LOVE doing so.

I think it's a maturity issue and getting over the feeling that tasting your own cum is somehow gay.

IN my experience, the ages of the guys who refused to kiss afterward varied considerably, from young to mature, so I don't think that's the issue, If anything, I think it relates much more to the association of it with the "gay" feeling you raised. IMO, if a man is confident in his own sexuality, no matter what his sexual orientation might be, then he shouldn't have a problem with it.
 
Yesterday, she took me out of her mouth, licked precum off her lips, slid up my body and kissed me passionately before climbing onto my cock.

I see no issues with this
 
Maureen,

I so agree with you! Some women, I think especially the younger ones, think of a blowjob as less intimate and more casual than allowing a man to cum deep inside them. I think both are equally intimate.

I know some women claim they love the taste of cum. But, is that a physical affinity or a psychological one? Regardless, Moet et Chandon it is not, right?

A woman allowing a man to finish in their mouth is being generous and unselfish at the least. Any man who doesn't return the favor via long, passionate kisses is a pig.

So, I say yes! Men, show your gratitude with passionate, tender and wet kisses! Else, you are not worthy of your lover.

BT
I couldn’t agree with you more. Men who refuse to kiss 💋 their partner after her giving him a BJ should never get another one. My advice to the ladies involved dump him he’s a selfish pig and
 
odd but true

i will eat her out after i cum in her, but i wont kiss her after bj if i have cum in her mouth.
 
I think if Tom ever tried to kiss me after he'd given a blowjob, i'd kick him right in the vagina.

Seriously, he doesn't give a shit. We're usually too into it to notice. On the other hand... I really don't like the kiss after going down thing. Not sure why.
 
I think if Tom ever tried to kiss me after he'd given a blowjob, i'd kick him right in the vagina.

Seriously, he doesn't give a shit. We're usually too into it to notice. On the other hand... I really don't like the kiss after going down thing. Not sure why.

That is a peculiar thing. I've known women who liked the taste of their own selves and the taste of other women. On the other hand, I've known women who didn't want to kiss me after me going down on them. It's a personal preference that I can't account for.
 
That is a peculiar thing. I've known women who liked the taste of their own selves and the taste of other women. On the other hand, I've known women who didn't want to kiss me after me going down on them. It's a personal preference that I can't account for.

I know what i taste like. I just want to taste him, not me all over his face.
 
I know what i taste like. I just want to taste him, not me all over his face.

I'm not sure how to feel about that. I don't feel like I've done my job properly unless you're all over my face. But if that isn't something you care for, I have to adjust for that. It's a sloppy, complicated dance trying to please people. But worth it, I guess.
 
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