Lactating/ nursing as a kink -- what motivates it?

[1stonie3]

I miss the days my wife lactated. So amazing and sweet. I think the attraction is this intimate experience of enjoying her fluids for a change. It’s privet it’s not shared with others. There are so many reasons.

She knows I miss it and we’re done having kids. I sometimes fantasize that knowing my desire that she’s ask a lactating friend to let me nurse me while she watched or enjoyed me. Like a milking FMF threesome.

I’d love this

 

[Tallcajun]

Replying to the original poster here's a brief quote:

Originally from The Lactation Wiki.

Additionally for those in the Houston, TX area there is a group of people into the ANR lifestyle.

Thanks for the link!

 

[DeepAchingNeed]

I'm really curious about the mindset/psychology behind someone wanting to nurse from their partner's breasts. Is it an act of submission or domination? Or it can be both?































































































































































































































































































































































































































































































































Why do you think you like it (either receiving or giving)?































































































































































































































































































































































































































































































































Have you ever considered inducing it if you never have had kids?































































































































































































































































































































































































































































































































I'm really curious about the mindset/psychology behind someone wanting to nurse from their partner's breasts. Is it an act of submission or domination? Or it can be both?































































































































































































































































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I absolutely LOVED being lusciously milky. I was self-induced and maintained for over 4 years. It is extremely erotic, grounding in femininity, and magical. Having the RIGHT partner - I would happily consider it again.







































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I'm really curious about the mindset/psychology behind someone wanting to nurse from their partner's breasts. Is it an act of submission or domination? Or it can be both?







Why do you think you like it (either receiving or giving)?







Have you ever considered inducing it if you never have had kids?

From age 36-43 I induced and maintained lactation. At the time, I was single - it was something I did entirely for myself. There are few experiences which tap into femininity so powerfully.
There are a couple of sights for ANR and lactation loving dating... realistically, it is not unlike any other "alternative" interest, craving, passion, or desire. It has as many ways to be perceived and defined as there are people to have such perceptions and designs.
I am entirely aware that the cacophony of hormonal implications within my own biological clock were greatly responsible for my passion for it and dedication to it. It became too much to maintain strictly for myself. (Though I would have milked it a lot longer through the establishment of an Only Fans if I had it do over again.) It is interesting to note that even postmenopausal women (not one of those yet... my time will arrive, undoubtedly) can lactate. (No age restrictions or limitations.)
Since I can only briefly engage in such thought experiments, because living in the NOW is how I remain sane, it is a tremendously delicious and delectable memory for me. Also, while I am certain that not everyone had the experience that I did... it is worth sharing that it felt like there was a direct connection between my nipple and my clit.
Not having enjoyed anyone lactating aside from myself (they were big enough for me to self-suckle)- I would love to entertain a woman and feast upon her whole body, including milky breasts. If I allow myself to imagine the possibilities within an expansive and yet tightly connected polyamorous representation of potential, that there might be an appreciation and shared reality around it is titillating. Had it not been such work solitarily, I would never have ceased. Additionally, it became a somewhat painful reminder for my own depth and capacity for love, with no recipient or outlet for it...
There are very few (hardly any, if at all, frankly) things that I would love to turn back the clock for... this ties into such considerations, completely. It really is magical and amazing.

 

[Tayloroc]

I'm really curious about the mindset/psychology behind someone wanting to nurse from their partner's breasts. Is it an act of submission or domination? Or it can be both?
Why do you think you like it (either receiving or giving)?
Have you ever considered inducing it if you never have had kids?

I don’t know why I like it, but I crave it!!

 

[DeepAchingNeed]

I don’t know why I like it, but I crave it!!

Nothing wrong with that! We don't really need to know the why to figure out the reality of what is...

 

[nutoseen]

I'm really curious about the mindset/psychology behind someone wanting to nurse from their partner's breasts. Is it an act of submission or domination? Or it can be both?
Why do you think you like it (either receiving or giving)?
Have you ever considered inducing it if you never have had kids?

i have had a partner or two that when they are masturbating if i suck on their nipples like i am nursing they cum very hard. and interestingly enough they like me to alternate between nipples/breasts between orgasms.

 

[2tallpaul]

My lady friend is really in into it. Seeing her first grandchild being breastfed has makes her so aroused that our sex life has picked up. I think the whole household has.

 

[NancyPan]

Although I have never suckled a lactating breast, I would love to do so. I am submissive, and my wife offers me her breast to suck as a reward. We both use the term “nurse” to refer to this behavior, as in my thanking her for allowing me to nurse at her beautiful breast, or her inviting me to nurse “because you”be been such a good boy.” Most of the time it is not part of foreplay, simply something that relaxes us both. I usually nurse for 15-20 minutes.

I find it profoundly relaxing, submissive, and intimate. I generally have an erection (which she ignores) the entire time, but I do not find it to be a primarily sexual experience — more of a reassurance and comfort. I do go into a “dream-like” state where my mind is essentially only focused on the most basic suckling sensation. It is wonderful. I tell her that, and she enjoys the sensations also.

 

[BackwoodsMama]

The other night my husband worshiped my nipples. He was rough and sweet… flicked them, pinched them and sucked them until it almost hurt. OMG I almost died. I want to keep him sucking to see if my milk will come back at all. Even just a little dribble would turn my pussy into a messy puddle.

 

[NancyPan]

Nipples deserve worship!

 

[funguy4u100]

The other night my husband worshiped my nipples. He was rough and sweet… flicked them, pinched them and sucked them until it almost hurt. OMG I almost died. I want to keep him sucking to see if my milk will come back at all. Even just a little dribble would turn my pussy into a messy puddle.

I'd love to help you start lactating again. Nursing is a huge fetish.

 

[Spongo]

When my wife was breastfeeding sometimes they became blocked. Nothing seemed to help until I suggested sucking them. I would get so turned on when doing it that she would play with my cock as I did it. Sometimes she would have to push me off as she thought I would suck her dry. Not sure if it turned her on but I did cum every time.

 

[AnnieLit]

As a woman and a mother, I don't think about it as either D or S by itself. If there is a D/s dynamic between the partners, it will continue through this experience as well with the same roles the partners had before the pregnancy. If they are a vanilla couple or if they switch, then it can be just an intimacy, neither dominant, nor submissive.

 

[Christina_submission]

For me Lactating Nursing .....was a little taboo for me as it was quite some time ago but i found i orgasmed every time i nursed i would only nurse in a private room because of this till my partner made the connection and used it to his advantage for me it was def a submissive trait ....but that just me

 

[cornred58]

During the time my wife was lactating, one of our favorite activities was to spray my cock and balls then blow job/ball sucking. We still love it 40 years later fantasizing about the milk.

 

[BackwoodsMama]

During the time my wife was lactatin, one of our favorite activities was to spray my cock and balls then blow job/ball sucking. We still love it 40 years later fantasizing about the milk.

That is sexy!!!

 

[SPARTAN047]

I think it's probably the aspect of being gently cared for, loved, cuddled, and feeling safe when you nurse gently for hours on mama's big, soft, milky tits. Rub your face into them, squeeze, pull, lick her nipples, let her stroke your cock in return, latch on to her nipples very gently and drain all her milk dry.

Anyone can imagine this with any gender.

 

[Lingerie_Dreams]

My $0.02. I find it incredibly submissive but I think about it as per of a Mommy/sissy relationship. Im 42, male, but was in a relationship a few years ago where I was Mommy’s little panty boy, where I would cuddle into her and suckle her. Extremely erotic for us in that headspace.

Yes with you on that 100%