Ladies, how long does it take you to cum?

[WriterDom]

Dr. Phil had some graph one day saying the average woman needs something like 40 minutes of foreplay to cum, but I know so many that can easily cum 3 times in 15 minutes or less. How about you?

 

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[Yellow_Kite]

Much too long! It takes long enough just when masturbating, I have only had one orgasm with my SO at this point, and that sure took long time.

 

[WriterDom]

The ones that cum hard and fast seem to masturbate a lot, like almost twice a day.

 

[bobsgirl]

When I do orgasm it takes less time than 40 minutes. But sometimes, I want to make love for other reasons than reaching a climax. At those times it would take longer than 40 minutes and probably wouldn't happen at all.

 

[A Desert Rose]

When I do orgasm it takes less time than 40 minutes. But sometimes, I want to make love for other reasons than reaching a climax. At those times it would take longer than 40 minutes and probably wouldn't happen at all.

Yes. What she said. I don't have to, nor do I always want to have an orgasm to enjoy sex.

But usually, I cum fast and more than once.

 

[PrincessHoney]

i can cum within seconds of the first stroke...........

its all to do with the mind..... there are sometimes when its just not going to happen and i could rub away for hours!!


but when i'm wet an horny a few squeezes of my thighs on my clit and i'm there!

 

[sheath]

Hmmm. Depends on just how badly he wants it to happen?

Once he learns those buttons to push, orgasms can happen quickly or slowly, single or multiple...just depends on what he is doing to my body and my mind.

S.

 

[ventress69]

i have alot to say on this actually,
ok so if i am really really turned on before we even hit the bed (married with children so has to be the bed in the locked room) it will only take about 10 mins. but if we just go to bed and then start up it takes about 30 mins. if i masterbate and already aroused (usually from the awsome stories here) i can do it in 3 min.

 

[ethicalslut]

I can get myself off with less than a minute of good, concentrated work.

With a partner takes longer because there are two people's needs/wants to take into account.

 

[lovechild27]

Wow...I come way sooner than 40 minutes...usually its pretty quick and I keep coming for a while...

 

[77Cobra]

I guess I am lucky my wife usually cums at least twice during foreplay and maybe two three times as we actually are doing it,depending on a lot of factors such as how long since the last time we made love,whether I am in her pussy or ass.Hell she even cums when she blows me.Usually start to finish of our sex sessions lasts 45 minutes to an hour or so,but she cums several times during that time the first time probably after the first five minutes.

 

[AvaAdore]

once i start concentrating on it, it takes about 15 minutes. though sometimes it's just not going to happen.

during sex, it usually starts feeling really good and i come in a couple of minutes.

 

[sadunai]

Back when I was still mastubating to climax, anything from a couple of minutes to 30 min, most of the time having multiples. 5-6 times a day. These days, any time he says so. *sigh* And he does not say so just as often ...

 

[curvacious]

40 minutes of foreplay, not 40 minutes of sex ----so that does make some sense then. If you consider thinking about sex before you decide to have sex, you're already setting the idea up in your mind. Around here foreplay is usually not 40 minutes (more like 10 or less). When we start having sex I usually have a g-spot orgasm immediately (and then another, and another . . .). The clit orgasm is way more difficult for me though. Doesn't usually happen through oral and he gets a little rough sometimes with his fingers so I usually end up doing it and it takes 5-10 minutes on average.

 

[pw27]

On average I can come in about 10-15 min depends on how aroused or if I'm tired. Most of the time I can have at least two orgasms. Thank God my man takes a long time to come!

 

[Luna_Wolf72]

I can catch a really long one in about 5 minutes..with a few small ones thrown in for good measure every few minutes thereafter. I have noticed that it's much easier for me with my girl and it takes much longer with a guy. (but that could be my brain telling me I don't really wanna be there with the guy).

I think if it would take me 40 minutes, I would probably be asleep long before I actually got off!!!

 

[Imi]

I've been known to take 40 minutes or longer. I count myself lucky if I can go in 15 with my hubby. Sometimes, I'm really horny, I can go in 5 but that's a rarity.

Now, when I do cum, I'm like the energizer bunny. I just keep going and going and going...

 

[sexi*kittie]

It usually takes me about ten minutes, average, unless I'm really turned on, then it takes about three minutes, maybe even two. There have been a few times where it didnt happen at all, I agree with PrincessHoney, alot of it is in your mind.

 

[carrie-on]

Once he learns those buttons to push, orgasms can happen quickly or slowly, single or multiple...just depends on what he is doing to my body and my mind.

S.

Sheath...this was exactly my thought when I first saw the title of this thread.

There have been times when i have cum within seconds of his touch. Other times,depending on His wants,i may not cum for hours. It's really hard to say which one is the most intense...the instant release or the long drawn out release.

 

[white_mage_goddess]

Generally it takes me 10-15 min...and I tend to have multiples. I've been known to have an orgasm every 2 minutes when I'm turned on enough! It just depends on my mood and what we're doing.

 

[michie]

It takes a long time for me to cum, more than 40 min. I can cum easier when I masturbate. It is just hard for me to cum with someone else. Sometimes I cum and the sex is really good, but it is still good if only he cums. I don't always want to have sex for over an hour so I don't mind. And I have never cum from intercourse and most men don't like too much foreplay. Also I have masturbated after being fucked when I really want to orgasam.

 

[xeros_girl]

I can go less than a minute if I'm really turned on. If it takes me longer than 15 I know it's not going to happen and I stop. Period. I can't work at it for longer than that without getting sore.

 

[Owlz]

Hmmm. Depends on just how badly he wants it to happen?

Once he learns those buttons to push, orgasms can happen quickly or slowly, single or multiple...just depends on what he is doing to my body and my mind.

S.

Damn lucky guy, to be strumming your strings, sheath! Color me more than a little jealous.

 

[Owlz]

Sheath...this was exactly my thought when I first saw the title of this thread.

There have been times when i have cum within seconds of his touch. Other times,depending on His wants,i may not cum for hours. It's really hard to say which one is the most intense...the instant release or the long drawn out release.

Lucky guy, carrie...and by the capitalization you use, would I be correct in saying he's your Dom?