How do you please your woman? I've fucked a lot of women, and I want to learn something new for the next one. She's a special one and I want to keep her coming back for more...no pun intended.
The thing to remember is that the largest sexual organ is the brain, the second largest, skin. Don't just head for the genitals and pool all your attention there. The entire body is full of erogenous zones. Light some lovely scented candles, massage her, explore her body and don't rush the experience. Personally, knowing that he's enjoying all of me, is a bigger turn on than a specific technique.
So I guess what it boils down to, is make love to the woman, don't just fuck her.
When I first started, I specifically did to my first girlfriends what I thought would feel good if they did it to me. So I'd spend loads of time stroking and kissing them on places like the thighs and stomach as well as more obvious places like the neck. I've learn a lot more since then of course, but it was valuable advice in the beggining.
Well let’s see, where do I begin. Being of the same gender, I wonder what goes on in minds of men. The woman’s body is only a sacred ground and should be treated that way. There have been some great posts already, and the skin is the #1 thing. You want to treat that skin like it’s lined with gold, light touches, nuzzles, light licks, and kisses are the thing that makes it go smoother, you have to want to be that worshiper to her. Start at the neck and ears and work down, don’t go fast, take your time, think with the big head on your shoulders, and not the one at your crotch. Some time it’s nice to stand her there in the middle of the room and you just let her stand, removing her clothes slowly you kiss or lightly lick that skin that starts to show with the removal of it. Big thing to think “Hmm…make her happy, and I be happy.” It is not a race, to see how fast you can get her off, it’s the quality of it, and now many she can have, let her be the one that orgasms first, or many times before she gives you a gift. Just remember, take your time, enjoy it, and she will enjoy you even more. Oral arts are not a job, it’s an adventure.