RecordScratch78
Virgin
- Joined
- Jan 18, 2026
- Posts
- 3
...Last night was the straw that broke the camel's back. I am not here as a knee jerk reaction to a disagreement with my wife, but as a culmination of years of attempting to pull from something that is just not there. Years.
My wife and I are otherwise happy. We're successful, get to live the lifestyle we want, but have absolutely zero connection any longer sexually. I am at a place in life where I want to explore, go outside of the norm, and really do so with my partner. I have the space in my life, and the want in my soul to push forward and share/explore down the filthiest of avenues. The issue is that the chemistry with my wife is gone in that respect. I have given it time, effort, and really wanted to have that be my path forward. I've thought about coming here for a connection for years, and have a bit here and there (mostly lurking), but this is different.
Me - 48, well educated, work from home, professional. I am average physically (I could use more treadmill time, to be honest, but can't we all?), but I have been told I am very charming, smart, and engaging (how to quantify any of that in this realm, I don't know). Honest, loyal (I know that is weird to say given me being here, but it is the truth) and I think a good partner in many ways. I am sharp, creative, and very sexually open. There are not many doors at all that I have closed off, and I would love to know the ones that you are curious to peek in to.
Here seeking generally the same - a woman (age is unimportant) who is craving for the same connection, want, and exploration I am. Ideally you are highly cerebral, highly sexual, and ready to dive in with the right one. My preference is something long term, but again, I realize there are many ways in which two adults here can have a fucking fantastic connection. As I work from home, I am typically available to chat, but also love voice (and open to more down the line). For someone who may be married/taken like me, I also understand the need to be discreet.
Thanks for reading this far. I know from lurking my message is not a unique one, and similar ones flow in constantly. I am of the belief though that the right person is out there to potentially be the fitting piece I am looking for. If you think there is even the slightest chance that could be you - let's connect and see, I think the reward on that could be absolutely amazing.
My wife and I are otherwise happy. We're successful, get to live the lifestyle we want, but have absolutely zero connection any longer sexually. I am at a place in life where I want to explore, go outside of the norm, and really do so with my partner. I have the space in my life, and the want in my soul to push forward and share/explore down the filthiest of avenues. The issue is that the chemistry with my wife is gone in that respect. I have given it time, effort, and really wanted to have that be my path forward. I've thought about coming here for a connection for years, and have a bit here and there (mostly lurking), but this is different.
Me - 48, well educated, work from home, professional. I am average physically (I could use more treadmill time, to be honest, but can't we all?), but I have been told I am very charming, smart, and engaging (how to quantify any of that in this realm, I don't know). Honest, loyal (I know that is weird to say given me being here, but it is the truth) and I think a good partner in many ways. I am sharp, creative, and very sexually open. There are not many doors at all that I have closed off, and I would love to know the ones that you are curious to peek in to.
Here seeking generally the same - a woman (age is unimportant) who is craving for the same connection, want, and exploration I am. Ideally you are highly cerebral, highly sexual, and ready to dive in with the right one. My preference is something long term, but again, I realize there are many ways in which two adults here can have a fucking fantastic connection. As I work from home, I am typically available to chat, but also love voice (and open to more down the line). For someone who may be married/taken like me, I also understand the need to be discreet.
Thanks for reading this far. I know from lurking my message is not a unique one, and similar ones flow in constantly. I am of the belief though that the right person is out there to potentially be the fitting piece I am looking for. If you think there is even the slightest chance that could be you - let's connect and see, I think the reward on that could be absolutely amazing.
