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peterpan said:The wife is seduced against her consent? That doesn't count, does it?
Chicklet said:I think of it as "slippery consent" ever since SirHugs brought that topic up in one of his threads.
Saying no but meaning yes...it's still nonconsent, officially, but the character is hoping that the other person is going to take what they want. The character *wants* to be forced.
Chicklet
I just can’t see it this way, either your forced, which means against your will, or you consent. Wouldn’t it be better to say, "The character appears to *want* to be forced."Chicklet said:Saying no but meaning yes...it's still nonconsent, officially, but the character is hoping that the other person is going to take what they want. The character *wants* to be forced.
Chicklet
Diane Marie said:I just can’t see it this way, either your forced, which means against your will, or you consent. Wouldn’t it be better to say, "The character appears to *want* to be forced."
In what way would her honor(morals) be unhealthy or unworthy. Suppose she’s married, suppose the man is her husband’s best friend. She’s been attracted to this man since she first met him. We can be both physically and mentally attracted to men other then our husbands, while never intending to act on those feelings. In my opinion being attracted to men other then our husbands is the norm.peterpan said:I have a very specific take on this: the nonconsenting character is only nonconsenting for some reason of honor. Also, her honor is in some way unhealthy or unworthy. (eg a girl brought up to be a virgin sacrifice)
Diane Marie said:...I don’t see her honor as unhealthy or unworthy!
This, of course, is not rape, but rape would be rather uninteresting to write about, grab her, throw her on the floor, then rape her. That is what rape is all about, it’s not erotic, a real rape makes a very poor story.
Just my take on life!
Diane Marie said:I just can’t see it this way, either your forced, which means against your will, or you consent. Wouldn’t it be better to say, "The character appears to *want* to be forced."
I guess it’s all in how you see things. You want to be forced, you in essence force your boy friend into forcing you, but your still having consensual sex. I would say your not being forced, at least not in the same way a woman who is raped is forced to have sex.Chicklet said:i get off, and i mean it sends me over the edges of pleasure, to be forced sexually. i go to great lengths to give my boyfriend the hardest time so that he will force me. i tell you, there are people out there that *want* to be forced, not "appear to want to be forced"
Chicklet
Chicklet, lesbian sex, being forced but knowing the forcing turns her on. I simple mean that is a turn on. Even more of a turn on if she’s open to the idea of sex with another woman but has not yet experienced the ecstasy of making love this way.peterpan said:Not sure if you meant that quite the way I read it Diane. Those quiet ones that protest to much are always the ones to watch