Let's clear the air a bit, shall we?

[RawHumor]

I adore you, you manipulative bastard!! (You wanna come provide the meat in a Nala/Luna sandwich..there is plenty of room...)

I'll just choose to watch... at least at first.

 

[RawHumor]

All I can say is lol

I'd like to thank you for your deep, inciteful, meaningful and thought-provoking reply.

 

[Kajira Callista]

I'd like to thank you for your deep, inciteful, meaningful and thought-provoking reply.

You are welcome *bats lashes*

 

[catalina_francisco]

SWEET! Is she planning to something for her birthday? I will be working. I took my mum's bday off instead so I could go grave side early this morning.

Not sure what she is planning...she will probably be working as she went to a masquerade party last weekend...I will have to celebrate with her in January when I visit, and hopefully have another photo session with her.

Catalina

 

[RawHumor]

Not sure what she is planning...she will probably be working as she went to a masquerade party last weekend...I will have to celebrate with her in January when I visit, and hopefully have another photo session with her.

Catalina

A photo session with your daughter? *perk*

 

[NALA CAYENNE]

I'll just choose to watch... at least at first.

Mmmm. I love to be watched...but then you know that already

 

[intothewoods]

Nice post, Raw.

For what it's worth, I didn't think of you as a "love 'em and leave 'em" type. If we're talking about online play here, I don't think that phrase even applies. You're married, and you have been open about that here.

I don't have a personal beef with you, as I don't really know you, but I do generally advise people against having an online relationship that is hidden from your spouse, or with someone who's hiding it from their spouse. I'm not sure if that's you or not, but I throw that out there, just in case.

Is it probably more complicated than that? Of course. And as I've posted before, I've done it, and I regret it. (Hence my being a pain in the ass about throwing it out there now - if I can save anyone the grief, I will).

Anyway, I don't know if this is your situation, but I won't say anything behind your back that I wouldn't say to your face. So if newlitsubgirlx were to PM me and say, what's up with that RH guy? I would say, well, he's married. Is he being honest with his wife about being here? If not, why?

Am I the boss of you? Hell no (well, we could negotiate that if you want to try bottoming ). You can think, fuck that. She doesn't know me or my situation. And I don't. It's just my opinion. But my point is, it's not "behind the scenes." I'm saying it here. And I don't have any other "beef" (not that it's really a beef, as it's not particular to you). Well, except that choke-fucking my sister thing. Perv.

 

[intothewoods]

Uh, sorry, didn't mean to put a damper on the thread.

 

[NALA CAYENNE]

Ok. As my name is out in reference to being in a relationship with Raw in this post, I'm gonna respond to this. Since Raw and I have known each other, he has been upfront AND honest about everything going on in his life- even the relationships outside of he and I.

Never once has there been something that I have asked him, after hearing about it, that he has not given me complete details on even if I may have only wanted a yes or no. Never once has he gone so far as to hide something from me- he has even told me stuff that I didn't know before he told me. For this, I respect him more than anyone could ever know- even him.

The reference to him being a "love 'em and leave 'em" guy was told to me, when someone chose to try to break up a relationship that I had already ended because I got too emotionally involved with Raw. I ended it not because he did anything wrong, but because I felt that my being too emotionally involved was something that would hurt the dynamic between us later.

Thankfully enough, Raw and I have gone back to where we started, as friends, never missing a beat. The funny thing is that the facts that were presented to support the accusations, were facts that Raw had already told me. The funnier thing is that I will always have a piece of him, a constant reminder of who he is in my life without all the emotional baggage, bullshit and mumbo jumbo, as he is the inspiration behind my mask tattoo.

I applaud Raw for being big enough to admit whatever wrong he did, apologize for it, and remember the facts well enough that no one got hurt in the process of him redeeming himself.

 

[Luna_Wolf72]

I applaud Raw for being big enough to admit whatever wrong he did, apologize for it, and remember the facts well enough that no one got hurt in the process of him redeeming himself.

Say it again, lady, say it again.

 

[intothewoods]

Ok. As my name is out in reference to being in a relationship with Raw in this post, I'm gonna respond to this. Since Raw and I have known each other, he has been upfront AND honest about everything going on in his life- even the relationships outside of he and I.

Never once has there been something that I have asked him, after hearing about it, that he has not given me complete details on even if I may have only wanted a yes or no. Never once has he gone so far as to hide something from me- he has even told me stuff that I didn't know before he told me. For this, I respect him more than anyone could ever know- even him.

The reference to him being a "love 'em and leave 'em" guy was told to me, when someone chose to try to break up a relationship that I had already ended because I got too emotionally involved with Raw. I ended it not because he did anything wrong, but because I felt that my being too emotionally involved was something that would hurt the dynamic between us later.

Thankfully enough, Raw and I have gone back to where we started, never missing a beat. The funny thing is that the facts that were presented to support the accusations, were facts that Raw had already told me.

I applaud Raw for being big enough to admit whatever wrong he did, apologize for it, and remember the facts well enough that no one got hurt in the process of him redeeming himself.

Just so we're clear, I only quoted love 'em and leave 'em because Raw used the term. I don't know any of the details about the relationship you two had except what's been posted here.

The rest of my post was not to suggest Raw isn't an honest person, but that in general, if I encounter a married person (here or in real life) who isn't honest with their spouse about a relationship outside the marriage, if asked or if it comes up, I will state my opinion on these relationships.

Really, I was just trying to say, hey Raw, don't worry about me talking about you behind the scenes, I'll just say it to your face!

 

[wayfarm]

The funnier thing is that I will always have a piece of him, a constant reminder of who he is in my life without all the emotional baggage, bullshit and mumbo jumbo, as he is the inspiration behind my mask tattoo. QUOTE]

Just out of curiousity..

You have a tatoo of RH's mask? This mark that you will wear for the rest of your life. That potentially another guy will see, and you leave yourself marked?

Care to expand?

 

[BiaTcHiNFiRe]

The funnier thing is that I will always have a piece of him, a constant reminder of who he is in my life without all the emotional baggage, bullshit and mumbo jumbo, as he is the inspiration behind my mask tattoo. QUOTE]

Just out of curiousity..

You have a tatoo of RH's mask? This mark that you will wear for the rest of your life. That potentially another guy will see, and you leave yourself marked?

Care to expand?

*smiles*

 

[intothewoods]

The funnier thing is that I will always have a piece of him, a constant reminder of who he is in my life without all the emotional baggage, bullshit and mumbo jumbo, as he is the inspiration behind my mask tattoo. QUOTE]

Just out of curiousity..

You have a tatoo of RH's mask? This mark that you will wear for the rest of your life. That potentially another guy will see, and you leave yourself marked?

Care to expand?

She said inspiration. It's not like that chick Heather on Rock of Love, who got "Brett" tatooed on her neck.

 

[wayfarm]

She said inspiration. It's not like that chick Heather on Rock of Love, who got "Brett" tatooed on her neck.

Ahh, curious all the same.

 

[NALA CAYENNE]

The funnier thing is that I will always have a piece of him, a constant reminder of who he is in my life without all the emotional baggage, bullshit and mumbo jumbo, as he is the inspiration behind my mask tattoo. QUOTE]

Just out of curiousity..

You have a tatoo of RH's mask? This mark that you will wear for the rest of your life. That potentially another guy will see, and you leave yourself marked?

Care to expand?

Wayfarm must you take everything I say out of context you lovable man? I don't have his exact mask.

Story for those that want to know (and those in the back row):

I wanted to get a mask tattoo to represent the fact of spending so many years of hiding who I am to conform to society. I talked to Raw about it, made sure that it wouldn't make him uncomfortable knowing I had it, and when I explained the reasoning behind it, he was quite flattered.

It is a mask, like a theatre mask, that has ribbons, torn and coming undone, because it was Raw that encouraged me to be who I am and don't give a damn what society says a "lady" should be. The artist is THROBBS (from Lit), who did an excellent job of bringing to life what I described to him through PM's.

And just so everything is clear, I was proud to be Raw's sub/mentee so even if the mask was FOR him, instead of INSPIRED BY HIM, it wouldn't bother me none who saw it and when- I have my husband's name tattooed on my forearm and men brand themselves with the names of their wives, girlfriends, mothers and mistresses all the time- why can't I bestow that honor on someone?

While this is not the actual tattoo, this is the actual drawing:

http://img189.imagevenue.com/img.php?image=35990_MASKshaded72dpi_122_418lo.jpg

 

[NALA CAYENNE]

Just so we're clear, I only quoted love 'em and leave 'em because Raw used the term. I don't know any of the details about the relationship you two had except what's been posted here.

The rest of my post was not to suggest Raw isn't an honest person, but that in general, if I encounter a married person (here or in real life) who isn't honest with their spouse about a relationship outside the marriage, if asked or if it comes up, I will state my opinion on these relationships.

Really, I was just trying to say, hey Raw, don't worry about me talking about you behind the scenes, I'll just say it to your face!

I know Sweets. I was throwing that out there for those that decided they wanted to take his post and sling mud at it because of what it could or may imply, without them knowing all the details.

 

[HottieMama]

Wayfarm must you take everything I say out of context you lovable man? I don't have his exact mask.

Story for those that want to know (and those in the back row):

I wanted to get a mask tattoo to represent the fact of spending so many years of hiding who I am to conform to society. I talked to Raw about it, made sure that it wouldn't make him uncomfortable knowing I had it, and when I explained the reasoning behind it, he was quite flattered.

It is a mask, like a theatre mask, that has ribbons, torn and coming undone, because it was Raw that encouraged me to be who I am and don't give a damn what society says a "lady" should be. The artist is THROBBS (from Lit), who did an excellent job of bringing to life what I described to him through PM's.

And just so everything is clear, I was proud to be Raw's sub/mentee so even if the mask was FOR him, instead of INSPIRED BY HIM, it wouldn't bother me none who saw it and when- I have my husband's name tattooed on my forearm and men brand themselves with the names of their wives, girlfriends, mothers and mistresses all the time- why can't I bestow that honor on someone?

While this is not the actual tattoo, this is the actual drawing:

http://img189.imagevenue.com/img.php?image=35990_MASKshaded72dpi_122_418lo.jpg

Great drawing..would love to see the finished tat.

i understand your reasoning very well. i have a tattoo on my right upper arm that i got for/with my first girlfriend. (She has the same one with the colors reversed.) It doesn't matter that we "broke up"...All that matters is that it is a sweet reminder of an entire new world that she opened to me.

 

[intothewoods]

I know Sweets. I was throwing that out there for those that decided they wanted to take his post and sling mud at it because of what it could or may imply, without them knowing all the details.

Cool.

 

[wayfarm]

Wayfarm must you take everything I say out of context you lovable man? I don't have his exact mask.

Story for those that want to know (and those in the back row):

I wanted to get a mask tattoo to represent the fact of spending so many years of hiding who I am to conform to society. I talked to Raw about it, made sure that it wouldn't make him uncomfortable knowing I had it, and when I explained the reasoning behind it, he was quite flattered.

It is a mask, like a theatre mask, that has ribbons, torn and coming undone, because it was Raw that encouraged me to be who I am and don't give a damn what society says a "lady" should be. The artist is THROBBS (from Lit), who did an excellent job of bringing to life what I described to him through PM's.

And just so everything is clear, I was proud to be Raw's sub/mentee so even if the mask was FOR him, instead of INSPIRED BY HIM, it wouldn't bother me none who saw it and when- I have my husband's name tattooed on my forearm and men brand themselves with the names of their wives, girlfriends, mothers and mistresses all the time- why can't I bestow that honor on someone?

While this is not the actual tattoo, this is the actual drawing:

http://img189.imagevenue.com/img.php?image=35990_MASKshaded72dpi_122_418lo.jpg

Im unaware of anything else that I have taken out of context. However, I'm proud to be considered lovable by you and others in this community.

There is a lot that I don't get, and sometimes I ask. In this case, I asked, and I appreciate your response.

The drawing looks great.

 

[Evil_Geoff]

[hijack mode on]

Dadgum... I flirt like crazy mad with almost everyone...

No asshats...

No drama...

No gossip...

No invites to Nala/Luna sammiches...

*sighs heavily*

What am I doing wrong? [/hijack mode off]

RH, until Homburg posted his "RH wasn't involved - stop giving him shit about it" post I was one of the blissfully ignorant. Shows you how deep in the gossip loop _I_ am! *chuckles* Having been the target of bs gossip and innuendo within our local BDSM community though, I do understand the desire to "clear the air" so to speak. It takes courage to step up and out of the shadows and speak out.

I tend to believe our private lives should be left in private... Gossip tells me more about the one(s) spreading the gossip than the one(s) being gossipped about...

Nuff said, bro.

 

[NALA CAYENNE]

Im unaware of anything else that I have taken out of context. However, I'm proud to be considered lovable by you and others in this community.

There is a lot that I don't get, and sometimes I ask. In this case, I asked, and I appreciate your response.

The drawing looks great.

You don't remember a conversation you started about me being married and having a Dom?

OH! How soon they forget

 

[NALA CAYENNE]

Having been the target of bs gossip and innuendo within our local BDSM community though, I do understand the desire to "clear the air" so to speak. It takes courage to step up and out of the shadows and speak out.

I tend to believe our private lives should be left in private... Gossip tells me more about the one(s) spreading the gossip than the one(s) being gossipped about...

Nuff said, bro.

Love this EG and as far as I'm concerned, you can be the meat in the Nala/Luna sammich anytime

 

[wayfarm]

You don't remember a conversation you started about me being married and having a Dom?

OH! How soon they forget

Ahh great memory. I had forgotten that. I'm not going to go digging for the thread, but I hope that you didn't think I was rude.

I had thought to create a thread on sexual activities outside of marriage. Just so that I could understand. But in the end I realized, that likely it was not for me.

 

[NALA CAYENNE]

Ahh great memory. I had forgotten that. I'm not going to go digging for the thread, but I hope that you didn't think I was rude.

I had thought to create a thread on sexual activities outside of marriage. Just so that I could understand. But in the end I realized, that likely it was not for me.

If I thought you rude, the tone of my reply would have indicated that even though I was answering you- I can't remember my answer, and it's not important.

I was just teasing you about taking things out of context because of that post and this one