Dear Santa dude.
Please help me to make sure that my boys are happy and healthy and that they grow up to be strong young men and contributing members of our society in whatever it is they choose to do.
Help me to let my partner understand that she is going to be okay and that she will be happy and healthy and lead a full life.
Let my friends know just how much they have meant to me and how much i have cherished our time together.
I would be happy then Santa.