Literotica Chat - Experiences?

StrongMaster7

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I go to the Lit chat almost every day. I like the Women Who Like Porn room best. Of course, as everywhere else online, it’s 90% men and a few of the ‘women’ are dudes hoping to chat with women as ‘lesbians’. But there are some very nice people there and in all the rooms I have visited. And I have, from time to time, had some sexy chats with what I believe to be actual women! I’d love to encourage more women to try the Lit Chat.

What experiences have others had?
 
I used to go to live chat often, 5 years ago....
I kept getting booted from a room, but not permanently.. It kept glitching..

I just stick to the forums now
 
I visit the general chat, stroke to my pics, and women watching men cum on cam the most. Full of dudes, a few fake women, and mostly nothing happens. Every now and then a real woman pops up, and the chat can get very interesting.

Most of the women who do share have a very common album set up that never gets updated. That likely means it isn't a woman so get out of you see it.

That said, forums are better in my opinion.
 
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The few times I have popped into Lit Chat, the number of men who PM me instantly with “Hi” “hey” and the ever-popular “what will you do to please me” sucks. My desire to avoid the barrage of messages because my username and avatar shout female keeps me out of chat. I guess there are women who are looking to cyber with random guys, but I’m not one of them (and I haven’t met women who are). The forum is much more suitable for connecting with people, in my experience.
 
The few times I have popped into Lit Chat, the number of men who PM me instantly with “Hi” “hey” and the ever-popular “what will you do to please me” sucks. My desire to avoid the barrage of messages because my username and avatar shout female keeps me out of chat. I guess there are women who are looking to cyber with random guys, but I’m not one of them (and I haven’t met women who are). The forum is much more suitable for connecting with people, in my experience.
I agree. I like to just go in, greet the room, and dm anyone who appears interested in a chat. That said, I don't spend much time in the chatrooms either because the quality of conversation is so low.
 
What an interesting range of reactions!

I do feel bad for the women in chat anywhere online. The ratio of men to women is overwhelming. That said, like a patient fisherman, I do regularly have very nice chats with what I perceive to be real women. They can be as hot as any chats I’ve ever had online. But there is a lot of BS to sort through to get to the good stuff.
 
I agree of course with the consensus here that Lit Chat offers few opportunities to chat with (real) women. But I still love it, because, as a basically straight man (more on that below) I have found it so rewarding to chat with men. My strongest kink is wife sharing, so my go-to room is ‘fuck my wife’ and ‘cuckoldry’ , but I often look into ’UK’, ‘Over 60’ and a few others. I have discovered how interesting, companionable, and arousing it is to share and explore my intimate thoughts and experiences with other men.

Of course some chat partners are better than others, but I have been surprised and delighted at how often one finds a really good conversation, and how arousing it is to chat away with another man as we both masturbate, enjoying one another’s arousal as we share the things that turn us on. In fact I have generally found it more enjoyable to chat with men than with women. And in the process I have slowly begun to develop a distinct strand of bicuriosity which is new to me and which I very much enjoy. Does that ring any bells with people.
 
New member here although I've checking the story section for about 20 years.

My experience so far in the chat room goes from boring to bad:

The white color doesn't help my eyes in the chat room and the forum. I need a dark option badly!

Even though I'd prefer to connect with women, chatting with women has been rare. I don't RP, I realized most people want to RP.

Most men have no social skills. There are rude men that believe they can say anything to a woman just because she is in an adult chat room. There are those who ask how my day/week goes, what I ate, what I did in the morning, how I slept and the list goes on. This isn't a dating site, at least for me. A simple hi and being polite is enough. The most important is for you to be interesting, A R T I C U L A T E and don't get bored typing!

The worse of all are those that say hi and expect an answer. I take it back...the worse are those who say hi, they haven't read my profile and theirs is blank!

Finally the most irritating question: "What brings you here?" I logged in to talk about aerospace technology...
 
Ten plus years ago I enjoyed the chat rooms and had a lot of fun . Sadly most of those people are long gone from the site. At that time I was using a desktop computer and now I'm using my phone and I have found the chat rooms don't work well with phones or at least my phone.
 
I enjoy the chat rooms here at Lit. The quality of the chats are usually not the greatest, but I like showing off pics of my wife or myself to others and making them cum. I get off on them getting off.

I typically will sign into about 8 rooms at once and scan the replies in the room and find someone interesting to talk to, with similar kinks. And I almost always get dm's totally unsolicited...Some of them turn out really hot!
 
Chat can be hit or miss...there are plenty of low-effort, off-putting openers, but every once in a while I find someone who can hold up their end. :)

Admittedly, I am not usually looking for a long drawn-out experience - if I am in Chat, I'm typically looking for something more...to the point. 🤭
 
Never had any luck with chat here on Lit, never seems to be animated enough. If messages go far, and ends up going to a Kik, Discord, etc. That's when it's good....
 
I haven’t been on Lit chat long but I’ve met a lot of really nice people in the BBC chat. Everyone was super nice and wanted to chat but overall a great time (I think as a guy I had a nicer experience because my DMs weren’t flooded with horny guys looking to cyber)
 
I go to the Lit chat almost every day. I like the Women Who Like Porn room best. Of course, as everywhere else online, it’s 90% men and a few of the ‘women’ are dudes hoping to chat with women as ‘lesbians’. But there are some very nice people there and in all the rooms I have visited. And I have, from time to time, had some sexy chats with what I believe to be actual women! I’d love to encourage more women to try the Lit Chat.

What experiences have others had?

When I go to the chat, not much recently, I go to the women who like porn room.
 
When I go to the chat, not much recently, I go to the women who like porn room.
Same here - it's definitely one of the better rooms :)

Unfortunately, I've come to the conclusion that the chat is basically unusable due to the constant barrage of new requests. It's impossible to keep up or even sort through them to find the few good matches
 
Chat rooms are okay but I get bombarded with guys way out of my age limits and usually lead in with pervy, nasty lines!! 😂
 
Same here - it's definitely one of the better rooms :)

Unfortunately, I've come to the conclusion that the chat is basically unusable due to the constant barrage of new requests. It's impossible to keep up or even sort through them to find the few good matches
Pretty lady!
 
I go to the Lit chat almost every day. I like the Women Who Like Porn room best. Of course, as everywhere else online, it’s 90% men and a few of the ‘women’ are dudes hoping to chat with women as ‘lesbians’. But there are some very nice people there and in all the rooms I have visited. And I have, from time to time, had some sexy chats with what I believe to be actual women! I’d love to encourage more women to try the Lit Chat.

What experiences have others had?
Sorry, where is this chat?
 
Over my years of online chatting, I realized early on that the women were overly popular and bombarded with chats. There was a spell after that when I would pretend to be female. As time went on I moved more towards cuck and gay chats and had many fun and intense chats. I don’t know I still find it so fun and stimulating to get into that sexy imaginative zone with someone, when it clicks. And the real time interaction of the chat is always way superior to me than the stilted stalled dm way.
 
The chat rooms are overall pretty good despite the glitches and booting.
I’ve had some incredibly hot sessions with men in chat and on audio chat. Multiple orgasms.
And I’ve had some gross and revolting interactions. :(
I’ve had a few good starts, but get booted in the middle of the action, maybe it’s cause I’m on phone. Just tried again recently and now I’m done
 
Stumbled on the chat rooms after finding this site for the stories, many years ago. I used to frequent them often as I WFH all the time.
There are many fakes, including men pretending to be women, but there are some genuine people in them.
Sometimes you get lucky but a lot of the time you don't and it has got worse.
Tried others but as glitchy as it is, still about the best I have found.
 
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