Litiquette

[wyshes]

It's hard to find!! Most of mine have an orange tint, hard to find the ones with a purple tint, if that makes sense.

Went to a make up artist...that is how i found the color

 

[ChainedUp]

Okay late and/or early morningers - Litiquette topic to discuss amongst yourselves - we've all been there, innocent exchanges on the threads, then a PM cute & funny, which turns to many and then for some reason it just doesn't click. Do you tell the person all the whys with a good chance there'll be drama or do you just let it drift off, not responding as fast, then slower, then not at all..... My hunch is the approaches are at best evenly split but if not, skew toward the drift away approach.

Alright, discuss, I'm off to bed, can't be as pretty as I am and stay up all night

 

[vavavaVoom]

Okay late and/or early morningers - Litiquette topic to discuss amongst yourselves - we've all been there, innocent exchanges on the threads, then a PM cute & funny, which turns to many and then for some reason it just doesn't click. Do you tell the person all the whys with a good chance there'll be drama or do you just let it drift off, not responding as fast, then slower, then not at all..... My hunch is the approaches are at best evenly split but if not, skew toward the drift away approach.

Alright, discuss, I'm off to bed, can't be as pretty as I am and stay up all night

I received a message once regarding this very topic. It was succinct. He chose to invest his time elsewhere. Personally I prefer it straight down the barrel. I'm on the other side of the planet. It makes sense. For whatever reason, honesty takes some gumption in these types of situations when really honesty should be easy. It's by far preferable to all hot and heavy, then silence. I always like to know where I stand.

Interestingly enough he came back after remaking himself. For some weird reason, they all do. Go figure... That's my tuppence worth

 

[may_I_please]

Drifting away is a coward's approach

What's wrong with saying "I'm sorry this isn't doing it for me" adding an optional "any more" if it has already gone places.

Unless you have invested emotions in which case wo/man the fuck up and say it straight.

 

[jack80]

I will admit that I tried to start one, but as I got the response PMs, I simply said, "sorry, my bad. I screwed up, my head isn't in this."

But I do agree, if things aren't working, might be best to just say so and step out. Though for some reason I will take the blame, and I don't know why

 

[wyshes]

Drifting away is a coward's approach

What's wrong with saying "I'm sorry this isn't doing it for me" adding an optional "any more" if it has already gone places.

Unless you have invested emotions in which case wo/man the fuck up and say it straight.

Here here!! Totally agree with you.

I will admit that I tried to start one, but as I got the response PMs, I simply said, "sorry, my bad. I screwed up, my head isn't in this."

But I do agree, if things aren't working, might be best to just say so and step out. Though for some reason I will take the blame, and I don't know why

Why take the blame for something that isn't Your fault??

 

[jack80]

Here here!! Totally agree with you.



Why take the blame for something that isn't Your fault??

I am wired weird. I guess. That and I try to be the gentleman. Lame, I know, but I that is what I do.

 

[may_I_please]

I will admit that I tried to start one, but as I got the response PMs, I simply said, "sorry, my bad. I screwed up, my head isn't in this."

But I do agree, if things aren't working, might be best to just say so and step out. Though for some reason I will take the blame, and I don't know why

Jack, as a girl, I wonder if we expect this? If this is the way we were raised to believe that men take the blame.

As an intelligent adult, fuck it, it isn't always your fault.

 

[wyshes]

I am wired weird. I guess. That and I try to be the gentleman. Lame, I know, but I that is what I do.

If she is a grown up ,she can put on the big girl panties too. Take responsibility for our own action.

 

[jack80]

Jack, as a girl, I wonder if we expect this? If this is the way we were raised to believe that men take the blame.

As an intelligent adult, fuck it, it isn't always your fault.

If she is a grown up ,she can put on the big girl panties too. Take responsibility for our own action.

Appreciate it. Even at 33 I still have to fight this. Heh, I remember this the next time something goes wrong.

 

[may_I_please]

If she is a grown up ,she can put on the big girl panties too. Take responsibility for our own action.

Our lips look cool juxtaposed like that

 

[jack80]

Our lips look cool juxtaposed like that

I was just thinking something like that. The red vs black... DAMN!

 

[wyshes]

I was just thinking something like that. The red vs black... DAMN!

And You want to be in between the two

 

[jack80]

And You want to be in between the two

This would be a given. But yeah. If more people just said what was on their mind, I think the world would be... well interesting to say the least.

 

[wyshes]

This would be a given. But yeah. If more people just said what was on their mind, I think the world would be... well interesting to say the least.

Me saying what is on my mind is scarey sometimes...have to censor myself

 

[jack80]

Me saying what is on my mind is scarey sometimes...have to censor myself

In public my filter usually works. But among my friends... it just goes off and I say the darnest of things.

 

[emma_the_librarian]

I've been told that I'm blunt, but I think it gives freedom to the other person to seek elsewhere.
Some do slip away though, not always by intent, but by timing and distractions.

 

[wyshes]

In public my filter usually works. But among my friends... it just goes off and I say the darnest of things.

But when your eyes talk too...you get into lots of trouble!!!!

 

[jack80]

But when your eyes talk too...you get into lots of trouble!!!!

Hey, there are parts of the woman's body that just draw my eyes to them. Breasts... butt.... sexy legs... lips... pretty eyes! I will not apology for admiring the female body!

 

[jack80]

I've been told that I'm blunt, but I think it gives freedom to the other person to seek elsewhere.
Some do slip away though, not always by intent, but by timing and distractions.

This is usually the case for me too. I will almost always try to shoot a pm later about it. But they are usually gone by then too. But sometimes they pm back the next day ;p If it was interesting, you can always expect a response later.

 

[ydahecnot]

I find that if a conversation goes a couple of occasions with you the last to make a reply and then you have to restart the conversation, that's usually a sign that the other is not into you. No harm, no foul, life goes on.

 

[wyshes]

Ok Sunshine ....
Question for You. What's up with all the jersey bois up so late??

 

[ydahecnot]

Guild rules; can't go to bed before 3

 

[wyshes]

Guild rules; can't go to bed before 3

That that was only summer rules

 

[ydahecnot]

Bylaws committee reconsidered it