Looking for an online Dom

shyzoey

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Thanks to everyone that took the time to reply to the original post. I decided to remove it because in hind sight I feel like I was jumping too quickly ahead of myself. I especially want to say thanks to those offering kind words of advice on how to investigate this arena.
 
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I am new to literotica and am looking for an online Dom. I am in my early 40s and newly discovering my submissive nature. I know that I need a Dom who can intellectually engage my mind, challenge me and who won't become a tedious bore. For those of you who find it relevant, I am 5'6", a bit curvy, but getting back into running and hiking so I would say somewhat fit, brown hair, brown eyes. At this point I don't send pictures or do camera, but would consider it for the right person.

Please reply only to this thread, as I will not be accepting PMs at this point.

You sound lovely 37 dom
 
Experience Online Dom

Looking for some new pets. I am 39 and pretty fit but have a bit of a belly 6' 200 lbs. I am notlooking to meet irl just online fun. I would ask for one pic thea shows the real you (not nude...yet) just something that shows you are a female, and not using a pic from the internet aqnd I will respond in kind. et me know if you wanna chat more. I will send you my email if and when you want to go further.
 
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you sound pretty demanding for a submissive, are you sure you wont try to top from the bottom lol
you sound interesting, however
 
You sound like you are more of a "switch" type gal to me. Good to hear that you are looking for fun and a lil discipline!
 
you sound pretty demanding for a submissive, are you sure you wont try to top from the bottom lol
you sound interesting, however

Does a sub that knows her mind scare you? Of course, there are pieces of me that evolve as I learn, so I can't fully say my opinion today won't change tomorrow. But for now I'm submissive and don't mean to be demanding, just picky. Thanks for the reply, though.
 
You sound like you are more of a "switch" type gal to me. Good to hear that you are looking for fun and a lil discipline!

I don't think I'm a switch, nor any other words that rhyme with switch...unfortunately other bad names might apply. Or is that fortunately? Thanks for the reply!
 
Zoey,
Presuming you are real, I cannot imagine why you chose public discourse over PMs if you are seriously seeking a Dom. You are articulate as to your needs, and seem to have a good idea as to the type of person you seek. Wouldn't it be better to filter through some PM's and answer only those that seem promising? Difficult to see how you would ever progress to any relationship involving exchanging photos or going to cam by restricting yourself to public discourse.
 
Zoey,
Presuming you are real, I cannot imagine why you chose public discourse over PMs if you are seriously seeking a Dom. You are articulate as to your needs, and seem to have a good idea as to the type of person you seek. Wouldn't it be better to filter through some PM's and answer only those that seem promising? Difficult to see how you would ever progress to any relationship involving exchanging photos or going to cam by restricting yourself to public discourse.

I'm guessing she doesn't want to get flooded with idiot PMs from guys who believe submissive = doormat and who think that if they call themselves her Master that she should immediate bow to their whims.

I'm further guessing that she'd want to move the conversation private at some point, but maybe not at first.
 
I'm guessing she doesn't want to get flooded with idiot PMs from guys who believe submissive = doormat and who think that if they call themselves her Master that she should immediate bow to their whims.

I'm further guessing that she'd want to move the conversation private at some point, but maybe not at first.

RawHumor you are correct. For the right person, I would be willing to talk more elsewhere. I might even be interested in hours long chat conversations, as long as they weren't one sided and I could get to know the other person, too. Thanks for speaking out on my behalf and getting it right.
 
RawHumor you are correct. For the right person, I would be willing to talk more elsewhere. I might even be interested in hours long chat conversations, as long as they weren't one sided and I could get to know the other person, too. Thanks for speaking out on my behalf and getting it right.

Of course you should conduct your business in any way you see fit. Please understand that I was only trying to be helpful. Good luck with your search.
 
Here Are My Thoughts

Zoey,

I can understand your desire not to be bombarded with lots of PM's and any Dom who is truly interested in getting to know you better should be willing to invest some of their time and be comfortable putting their thoughts into a post and adding to your thread.

In my past experiences as as Dom it was always important to take time to get to know a woman as a person before launching into something more sexual. In my opinion getting to know each other and building trust are the most important building blocks to having a successful relationship of this type. Also you need to feel like there is a real connection between yourself and the Dom you choose. As someone else mentioned you will feel this connection and it will pull you towards this Dom. You will think about him so many times each day and you will feel this deep emotional bond start to form. You will want to do everything you possibly can to please your Dom and marvel at how his touch reaches inside of you and touches your deepest places, some that you may not even know existed inside of you.

As your relationship grows with your Dom you will feel an ecstasy that you never thought could be possible in an online relationship, and the intimacy the two of you share will be beyond your wildest dreams. You will long for his touch and you will feel an ache and hunger when you are apart from him that you never knew before as a woman.

Of course all of this will take some time and can only happen if you are truly determined to take this path in life and give of yourself as fully and completely as you possibly can.

If you would like to discuss any of my thoughts in more detail I would be happy to take the time and share what I've learned during my journey through this other world.

Gary
 
RawHumor you are correct. For the right person, I would be willing to talk more elsewhere. I might even be interested in hours long chat conversations, as long as they weren't one sided and I could get to know the other person, too. Thanks for speaking out on my behalf and getting it right.

You're welcome.

We do have our share of morons out there. Take your time.
 
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