Looking for Dom or Domme

[kellyw36]

WHO I AM:
My name is Kelly. I’m a 20 year old in my sophomore year at college. I’m majoring in computer science (more girls take it than you would think! Not a lot, but I’m not the only one like I expected!). I consider myself a very quiet, but passionate, woman. I’m bisexual, so I’m open to either a master or a mistress.

WHAT YOU HAVE TO WORK WITH:
I’m trained lightly in the way of BDSM, not much. I live in an apartment by myself (after my roommate last year... well... we just didn’t get along at all and I didn’t want to repeat that). I go to classes about 4-6 hours each day, and study anywhere from 1 hour to 14 hours, depending on how rough the courses currently are (though it’s mostly closer to the later, I’m in college after all).

BEFORE I GO FURTHER:
I will not reveal my location, last name, or any photo at all to you. If not for the reason of safety, it just makes me uncomfortable as hell to reveal anything like that to you. If I would be able to trace it back to myself, I’m not going to tell or show you, and believe me when I say that I know much more about how to trace a photo back than you think is possible. I’m just very paranoid about this, so I’m sorry for any inconvenience. So no cell phone #, no address, no credit card # (idk why you would need this anyways), no pics, nothing.

THE KIND OF EXPERIENCE I AM LOOKING FOR:
I want wanting to be controlled completely, my thoughts, actions, attire, everything about me. I want to be pushed to my limits of humiliation. I was in a BDSM relationship before, but it lasted only a month and ended poorly (which is where I get my paranoia from). Anyways, I want to explore new ground, be ordered to do humiliating and degrading things.

WHO I AM LOOKING FOR:
A strong, dominant man or woman who will respect my hard limits but push me to take as much pain and pleasure as I can possibly take. I want someone experienced, since I’m less experienced. I don’t care how old you are, as long as you are under 50.

HOW WE WILL COMMUNICATE:
I have a yahoo account (which I can share with you when I pick a master). We will mostly communicate by email, because of my busy schedule, and possibly on IM on days I’m really not busy.

LIMITS:
Something that would permanently harm or kill me
Pictures or cam of any kind
Anything where someone else in public could tell what’s going on
Anything illegal
Inability to be flexible to how busy I am

LIKES:
Bondage
Orgasm Denial
Chasity
Public
Humiliation
Downgrading (calling me slut, whore, bitch, cunt, etc.)
Trying new things


PM me with any questions, or if you feel like you and I would work well together.

 

[kellyw36]

still looking....

 

[Theman92]

look your inbox please!

 

[Noira]

Gotta say it, you'll have one hell of a time finding someone to tie you up and make you experience pain and pleasure on an online site if you won't share any location details. It's difficult, for example, to give someone a good spanking while they're tied up when there's only the internet between you. Or maybe I just don't have a good interest in a relationship based only on writing, but I just don't see how anyone could have a fulfilling sadistic, bondage relationship via mostly email... and I don't even like chatting, and won't cam so it would seem we'd almost mesh. It to me feels sort of like a go-nowhere relationship where I'd be sending off task lists and that's it. I kind of feel like you could get the same effect from reading kinky stories that match your kinks and then doing what they say, or picking random dares from dare sites with a kinky focus. No way anyone could trace you down if there's no person behind it. Kink is a scary thing that takes some trust, but not everyone will be like the one that burned you.

Alternatively, because I understand the kinky itch is strong, I would try to meet someone for safe play in real life. I would suggest that even a professional might be your best bet, because there won't be any relationship to burn you then, just a transaction. Best of luck.

 

[kellyw36]

Gotta say it, you'll have one hell of a time finding someone to tie you up and make you experience pain and pleasure on an online site if you won't share any location details. It's difficult, for example, to give someone a good spanking while they're tied up when there's only the internet between you. Or maybe I just don't have a good interest in a relationship based only on writing, but I just don't see how anyone could have a fulfilling sadistic, bondage relationship via mostly email... and I don't even like chatting, and won't cam so it would seem we'd almost mesh. It to me feels sort of like a go-nowhere relationship where I'd be sending off task lists and that's it. I kind of feel like you could get the same effect from reading kinky stories that match your kinks and then doing what they say, or picking random dares from dare sites with a kinky focus. No way anyone could trace you down if there's no person behind it. Kink is a scary thing that takes some trust, but not everyone will be like the one that burned you.

Alternatively, because I understand the kinky itch is strong, I would try to meet someone for safe play in real life. I would suggest that even a professional might be your best bet, because there won't be any relationship to burn you then, just a transaction. Best of luck.

When I say this, I mean no disrespect, but did you even read my post? In all honesty, it looks like you looked at my limits and said she does not understand.

If you had read my post, you would know that I have been burned in the past. That includes location details. So you'll excuse me if I am a bit paranoid about giving out location details. I would have to trust the person completely; That kind of trust is earned as most on this website should know. With that said, I think I'll stick with my original plan, thanks.

PS: who said I wanted pain and to be spanked? I'm one of those weird people that would find no humiliation a worse punishment than actually getting spanked or going through pain.

 

[Him15]

Pm sent

 

[kellyw36]

After much thought I'm looking again...

 

[Fersure]

Pm sent, kelly

 

[Theman92]

PM sent...