Looking to spice things up in the bed

[sweetkcake]

Give me new and fun ideas of things to do in bed ready set go!

 

[j769]

Have you ever done it on an inflatable bed? Don't put any sheets on it, instead put some massage oil. From there, grind in each other and have fun! Turning me on just thinking about it

 

[silverwhisper]

sweetcake, i see that you're kinda new here. giving us some idea of: 1) what you guys consider old hat, and 2) what's completely out of the question will help give you vastly more useful responses from folks.

for example:
some couples, bringing a 3rd person into the bed might be old hat, or it might be way too much. for some, bondage is old hat while for others, way too much. for still others, molten wax, strap-ons dildoes and crops are the norm.

most of us don't really know you, and have no idea how to gauge things. if you give us a little context, folks will be very happy to offer you suggestions.

ed

 

[sweetkcake]

I have tried threesomes and light bondage i just want something totally random that is hot and very kinky

 

[j769]

You know what's very challenging and totally random? Having sex on a temperpedic bed. That's all athletic ability right there

 

[Run_8]

I have tried threesomes and light bondage i just want something totally random that is hot and very kinky

We're a pretty boring couple really, but are branching out a bit-Found out through dirty talk that the wife really likes role play type stuff, with a little light bondage thrown in. Surprised her with a letter in the mail, instructing her that she would be receiving a txt in the future, and she was to follow all instructions to the letter-Txt comes, she's told she's being watched and cannot escape-She is to tell no one where she is going, look under her bed, and put on the body stocking she finds. Then directed to dress over it, and drive to an address (Holiday Inn Express...) and given a room number. When she enters she is to put on an eye mask...then, she is tied up and interrogated-She purports to NOT be a slut...the "evaluator" determines from a series of questions about her past, and her present desire, whether or not she is lying. A little spanking as punishment for incorrect or suspected wrong answers. Some light tying up, spanking, and teasing, until she is allowed any contact..that kind of thing. Was a blast for us!

Also, I found by accident once, that on occasion, I kinda get off on watersports-Had a girl pee on me by accident once during sex, and was kinda turned on by it-Wife has reluctantly tried it a few times, but isn't really into that-But, I find it very kinky and erotic, even though most people probably find it pretty gross....I don't know, I just know it feels good, and is just, well, dirty! -Just a few thoughts.

 

[silverwhisper]

while tastes vary widely, anal can be either a buzzkill or the best thing since sliced bread--and it's indisputably kinky. sex toys, ditto. actual sex toys are always going to be kinkier than improvising based on what's at hand.

good pillow talk almost always adds to the mood--but what people want to hear varies tremendously, so that's a tough one to advocate. what turns off one person is a complete aphrodisiac for another--i find "daddy" talk completely fucking disgusting, for instance, but i know at least one person who can't get enough of it.

maybe some heavy bondage--with actual handcuffs that require a key--might be in order, or perhaps a mask?

or is all of this too tame?

ed

 

[sweetkcake]

too tame

 

[silverwhisper]

OK, what's too far, then?

ed

 

[sweetkcake]

lol idk name things and ill let you know

 

[silverwhisper]

no, that's OK: i'm done here.

ed

 

[Eilan]

Threesome with a goat?

Scat play with your brother?

Meh--that's all the wank fodder I have for now.

 

[bailadora]

Give me new and fun ideas of things to do in bed ready set go!

lol idk name things and ill let you know

Here's a couple ideas: Learn some manners and learn to provide enough information so people can give accurate information/suggestions. If you can't be arsed to put the work into your OP, why should we strain our brains to help you?

 

[Ellafun]

Well, gee, since you're not giving us any direction, I'll just jump in here with some random ideas:

1) Call out the wrong name. that should spice things up a bit.
2) Invite a brother/sister/mom/dad. The whole "incest" topic seems to be popping up quite a bit around here lately.
3) Stay completely clothed. Dry hump each other until you pass out.
4) Inflatable baby pool filled with jello. Always a party!
5) Edible body paints. Or, if that's too tame, you can always fill up balloons with the paint and throw them at each other.

There. I sure hope you find these ideas useful. If not, I'm sure there are other lit members out there who will happily hijack your thread and do something useful with it.

el.

Oh, and p.s.: Don't piss off ed or bailadora. they happen to be two of my favorite people, and I'm getting sick of newbies not reading the "how to behave like decent Lit members" and coming on the boards and being fucktards. (((hugs))))

 

[SkAoUt]

I have tried threesomes and light bondage i just want something totally random that is hot and very kinky

You were onto something with your title and you mention hot so...

What about sprinkling dry cayenne pepper between the sheets.

Or some ginger figging. Look here

 

[SweetErika]

lol idk name things and ill let you know

If you don't even know what your interests and limits are, how are we supposed to know?

Have you read through The Blank Manual sticky yet? How about the BDSM Library sticky in the BDSM Talk forum? There are tons of ideas in both of those. Do yourself, and us, a favor by doing some research, then come back if you have more specific questions.

 

[sweetkcake]

Well i was thinking more along the lines of bringing a camera into the bedroom, any advice there guys?

 

[Nasty_Deeds]

Well i was thinking more along the lines of bringing a camera into the bedroom, any advice there guys?

A camera is good, but you would need a king-size waterbed, a banana and a goat.

Oh, and I forgot, you will need a swing too.

 

[Nasty_Deeds]

Another thing that you can do is suspend a big basket from the ceiling in the bedroom with a strong rope, then cut a hole in the center of the bottom of the basket. Then you crawl in the basket and sit down over the hole, and have someone lower the basket down over his cock. When his cock is securely inside you, have someone spin the basket.

 

[Nasty_Deeds]

Well i was thinking more along the lines of bringing a camera into the bedroom, any advice there guys?

On the serious side: Be careful of who you let take pictures of you. Some guys get their jollies by posting their conquests on the Internet, and what may seem fun today, may not be so funny to your family or future boyfriend.

 

[Nasty_Deeds]

Another thing that's fun on a rainy Sunday afternoon is cock dead-lifts. Take two guys in the bedroom and suspend a weight on the end of their cock, then lick their cock-head. Whichever one can lift the most weight with his erection can have you in bed, while the loser has to holds his balls up off the mattress.

 

[TypicalDeviant]

Well i was thinking more along the lines of bringing a camera into the bedroom, any advice there guys?

too tame

 

[Nasty_Deeds]

A camera is good, but you would need a king-size waterbed, a banana and a goat.

Oh, and I forgot, you will need a swing too.

If you have never heard the joke before: when someone asks what the goat is for, tell them you make love on the waterbed, save the bananas until you are hungry, and the goat is there to eat the banana peels. Then ask them what they thought the goat was for?

 

[Nasty_Deeds]

Another thing that you can do is suspend a big basket from the ceiling in the bedroom with a strong rope, then cut a hole in the center of the bottom of the basket. Then you crawl in the basket and sit down over the hole, and have someone lower the basket down over his cock. When his cock is securely inside you, have someone spin the basket.

I noticed that I said use a basket. Using baskets is obsolete; you can buy a swing for this now on the Internet. The woman sits in the swing with her bottom exposed, and her feet in kind a rope/stirrup affair. The man lies underneath, and fucks her while slowly rotating the swing.

If you want to spice things up, you have to use your imagination.

 

[Shagmad71]

I'm local. If you're interested in bringing a camera into the bedroom, I can be a third party taking pictures or a participant. ENTIRELY up to you, haha.