Our emotions rarely listen to our logic or reasoning. The heart desires what it does, regardless of what we want or need. It can be a hard and confusing thing to deal with, but I wish you the best and hope that you can find happiness in this life.
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Our emotions rarely listen to our logic or reasoning. The heart desires what it does, regardless of what we want or need. It can be a hard and confusing thing to deal with, but I wish you the best and hope that you can find happiness in this life.
teacher561611
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hi
Why are you online and not setting at the feet of your man.
Why are you online and not setting at the feet of your man.
MsDeanne
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that is s good question..
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How long were you with this Dom? It can be harder sometimes to say goodbye when things are still in their new rosy stage and everything seems happy and perfect than when things settle down to the more mundane and everyday and annoying little habits etc start to sneak in.
I am a big believer in people are bought into your life for a reason and sometimes you just need to figure out that reason, learn from it and move on hard as that may seem at the time.
I am a big believer in people are bought into your life for a reason and sometimes you just need to figure out that reason, learn from it and move on hard as that may seem at the time.
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i wouldn't have called it rosie..but we did chat on and off for over a year....and were just in the process of deepening our relationship i suppose though...
To where i was taking instruction and presenting...etc
So no not long...and a first...
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*Found......
Sir...truly..this grateful ...humbled....slut of a girl....
had found her soft,gentle, yet firm and controlling..guiding hand... *blushes with pleasure*
no other could know what she craves...how she craves....on the inside ...and pluck such a fine tender..resonating melody across them all.
this little one.....tramp....slut...whore... greedy fuck bitch....cock worshiping cunt...kneels unabashed ..shivering at Your feet..hands behind her back..poised proudly before You...*.timid smile on her lips..eyes on Your toes...body slightly tense..awaiting ....*remembering to breath* and surrenders herself to Your willing, guidance and control.
yes Sir...You have found me..
It didn't take you long to go from one love-of-your-life-personal-savior to another love-of-your-life-personal-savior. Regardless, I hope it works out for you.
And speaking of regardless, you need to leave your husband like immediately. Unless you have an open marriage or poly situation going on with him, I don't think you should be bounding around to various loves/Masters/saviors. If you're not into your husband, just leave him.
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Poly Relationships
a Poly relationship in whatever form takes 2 or 3 times the communication skills and honesty as a Vanilla relationship does.
To expect one person to be a omega to your alpha is not fair to them nor yourself. A poly relationship scares people who aren't open to being in love with someone else at the same time, yet think about it, How many people are having affairs, yet the dishonesty of the affair is more comfortable for most people in and out of that relationship then then honesty of a poly relationship.
just my two nickels worth on the topic.
a Poly relationship in whatever form takes 2 or 3 times the communication skills and honesty as a Vanilla relationship does.
To expect one person to be a omega to your alpha is not fair to them nor yourself. A poly relationship scares people who aren't open to being in love with someone else at the same time, yet think about it, How many people are having affairs, yet the dishonesty of the affair is more comfortable for most people in and out of that relationship then then honesty of a poly relationship.
just my two nickels worth on the topic.
I for one am glad this little one has found someone that can fulfill the need that is craved.
someone that is able to give the control that is craved
I would rather have you find someone to be able to help and allow the marriage to grow healthy and keep everyone happy . rather then jumping around , hiding , worrying every move you make is the wrong one.
I'm new here but have learned there are a lot of people here and out in the net world that don't care about the other half of the marriage or relationship . getting hammered with messages at all hours . telling you to leave the husband , go for a walk , call me ect ect .
moving from a vanilla marriage to a poly/dom marriage won't be the easiest thing but is it workable , if there is communication , open understanding of all party's involved.
Speaking as a friend , i'm happy for you ,
speaking as a husband i'm happy you have found someone that understands your situation and that can help you grow in your online submissive and your marriage.
this is just my two cent
someone that is able to give the control that is craved
I would rather have you find someone to be able to help and allow the marriage to grow healthy and keep everyone happy . rather then jumping around , hiding , worrying every move you make is the wrong one.
I'm new here but have learned there are a lot of people here and out in the net world that don't care about the other half of the marriage or relationship . getting hammered with messages at all hours . telling you to leave the husband , go for a walk , call me ect ect .
moving from a vanilla marriage to a poly/dom marriage won't be the easiest thing but is it workable , if there is communication , open understanding of all party's involved.
Speaking as a friend , i'm happy for you ,
speaking as a husband i'm happy you have found someone that understands your situation and that can help you grow in your online submissive and your marriage.
this is just my two cent
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I think your perspective is refreshing.. and communication is key...open..totally unhindered .or things can be uncomfortable or even hurtful...no matter the intentions.
And though we haven't reached that point exactly..we arw coming to terms with new desires...needs and dealing with them as best we can...even through awkard...umm what do we do now moments..lol..
i would rather be open..honest..brutally if I have to than lie to someone I love and respect...guilt of cheating no matter how thrilling ...can eat at me...and I get no pleasure from it ...and that was our starting point as it is...to know our understanding..want of a relationship..love/friendship with each other...has been elevated to mutual respect and play even...has..released alot of guilt..stress and...fear. We learn we grown..trust and love as we will...when it is reciprocated..?!!..a truly transcended moment in an existing relationship I think...
I find this thread very helpful and do thank ALL who have added..responded..and add their 2 cents....oxox..please...we are still learning and growing..all thoughts...advice...comments are welcomed..
Nordic man
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some places to look
here are some links that might help you in your voyage into poly life:
www.worldpolyamoryassociation.org
www.polyamorysociety.org
www.polyamory.org
www.xeromag.com/fvpoly.html
www.lovemore.com
www.polyamory.com
I don't earn any money from any of these links, not affiated with any of these links, but have read articles in the past from these and many others..
here are some links that might help you in your voyage into poly life:
www.worldpolyamoryassociation.org
www.polyamorysociety.org
www.polyamory.org
www.xeromag.com/fvpoly.html
www.lovemore.com
www.polyamory.com
I don't earn any money from any of these links, not affiated with any of these links, but have read articles in the past from these and many others..
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Now that's a christmas topic.
And he agreed that fast that you have an online dom you strip for and do other naughty things?
MsDeanne
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This is not something that has just jumped up in a few weeks..but has built over years..and manifested more so in the last say...2 yrs?...and he has agreed...yes...and did think about it..not jump to say yes and they have briefly made contact as well..
And hubby likes me naked doing naughty things...
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