Male sub looking for advice

[Criton28]

I've been a long time lurker on Lit and am interested in getting in to the life. I know I've got submissive tendances, and I'm here looking for any advise you lot can give me. I've always been attracted to women who end up having little to no interest BDSM and am getting a quite frustrated. So I'm here for advise / looking for a mistress / on-line trainning ect.