Man wanting to be tied

[DemimondeDenizen]

While she was sucking me a couple weeks ago the wife mentioned she should tie me down sometime.

it’s been a long awhile since she got me spread eagle on the bed, but after thinking about it ummm hard … I've determined some aspects that I’d like her to try out on me that go beyond our past games.

Any tips on getting her into a bit of a level up without freaking and understanding my horny needs would be appreciated!

Starting vanilla
I want to be tied down —firmly— with as little movement as possible (I’ve practiced a bit so maybe pretty seamless… but how to sequence from showing her …maybe lay everything out for her so she just clicks me in and tightens and moves into a dominant role?) maybe she can tell me to prepare the equipment?

I’d like a blindfold for the surprise

While I probably should be gagged as I can try and over direct I want my mouth available for any play she sees fit.
So I’m thinking maybe she can just tell me to shut up if I’m getting bossy bottom and slap my face or cock medium light…?

Also would like have her give me another try at prostate massage. So maybe with a wedge under my hips for an easy angle?

How to bring these details up with wifey? Slowly? When? Should I satisfy her first or after/during my binding adventure ?

I need some advice as I really would like to open things up a bit as we’re both getting old and winter is coming.

Thanks

 

[Cardinal]

This is quite a laundry list of what you’d want to happen, I’d have a very similar list.
But probably to just let her do it and see where she takes it before asking her for more

 

[40sBiCuckCple]

While she was sucking me a couple weeks ago the wife mentioned she should tie me down sometime.

it’s been a long awhile since she got me spread eagle on the bed, but after thinking about it ummm hard … I've determined some aspects that I’d like her to try out on me that go beyond our past games.

Any tips on getting her into a bit of a level up without freaking and understanding my horny needs would be appreciated!

Starting vanilla
I want to be tied down —firmly— with as little movement as possible (I’ve practiced a bit so maybe pretty seamless… but how to sequence from showing her …maybe lay everything out for her so she just clicks me in and tightens and moves into a dominant role?) maybe she can tell me to prepare the equipment?

I’d like a blindfold for the surprise

While I probably should be gagged as I can try and over direct I want my mouth available for any play she sees fit.
So I’m thinking maybe she can just tell me to shut up if I’m getting bossy bottom and slap my face or cock medium light…?

Also would like have her give me another try at prostate massage. So maybe with a wedge under my hips for an easy angle?

How to bring these details up with wifey? Slowly? When? Should I satisfy her first or after/during my binding adventure ?

I need some advice as I really would like to open things up a bit as we’re both getting old and winter is coming.

Thanks

I’m an incredibly lucky man. I married a wonderful young girl that I met in college and she was already into this BDSM pleasure. She was/is a brazen slut, and I was a bisexual varsity baseball player. She was, and still is, the most sexually exciting woman I ever met. I truly won life’s lottery. We’ve been married over 23 years and have 2 wonderful children.

 

[Easypeter]

I’m an incredibly lucky man. I married a wonderful young girl that I met in college and she was already into this BDSM pleasure. She was/is a brazen slut, and I was a bisexual varsity baseball player. She was, and still is, the most sexually exciting woman I ever met. I truly won life’s lottery. We’ve been married over 23 years and have 2 wonderful children.

I played basketball in school and I enjoyed looking at all the BBC in the showers

 

[40sBiCuckCple]

I played basketball in school and I enjoyed looking at all the BBC in the showers

I’d still enjoy doing that even today!

 

[Easypeter]

I know my wife loves checking out black guys crotches . I’ve watched her lick her lips and smiling when they catch her looking . It turns me on

 

[subdudeme13]

While she was sucking me a couple weeks ago the wife mentioned she should tie me down sometime.

it’s been a long awhile since she got me spread eagle on the bed, but after thinking about it ummm hard … I've determined some aspects that I’d like her to try out on me that go beyond our past games.

Any tips on getting her into a bit of a level up without freaking and understanding my horny needs would be appreciated!

Starting vanilla
I want to be tied down —firmly— with as little movement as possible (I’ve practiced a bit so maybe pretty seamless… but how to sequence from showing her …maybe lay everything out for her so she just clicks me in and tightens and moves into a dominant role?) maybe she can tell me to prepare the equipment?

I’d like a blindfold for the surprise

While I probably should be gagged as I can try and over direct I want my mouth available for any play she sees fit.
So I’m thinking maybe she can just tell me to shut up if I’m getting bossy bottom and slap my face or cock medium light…?

Also would like have her give me another try at prostate massage. So maybe with a wedge under my hips for an easy angle?

How to bring these details up with wifey? Slowly? When? Should I satisfy her first or after/during my binding adventure ?

I need some advice as I really would like to open things up a bit as we’re both getting old and winter is coming.

Thanks

There are how to articles on lit. I would suggest finding one that fits your need. I am almost 110% sure there is one that might also have reviews on how it worked.

 

[SPARTAN047]

If I know I'll be relatively safe, not robbed and not beaten half to death, I'm happy to be tied down.

Doesn't matter what the person's gender is, I distrust women to the same extent as men when they show signs of shadiness and seediness.

 

[Erosfan]

When my late wife and I first began having sex, she told me she would like to tie me up and have her way with me. I told her she didn't need to tie me up. I would lay back and she could do as she wished with me.
I wish I had said "Hell yeah" tie me up and let's play.

 

[Lotus_Kitty]

I think it’s great you know just what you’d like. Try introducing one element at a time to your play. She could gain confidence more easily and not feel overwhelmed.

Could just show her your post and ask her what she thinks and feels. How fast or slow would she want to go? Anything in here that is a limit for her? Talking through it can be fun.

 

[DemimondeDenizen]

Update: due to health and family issues, life put a hold on any bedroom fun until this weekend.

While snuggling in bed, dear wife mentioned she would like me to be a bit more dominant.

Which is a bit opposite of this post, but it has opened the door for an upcoming adventure in that direction, but meanwhile we should both have what we want…

I took her at her word and after our first nice day out in a while, sent her a text.

It said “As we were cuddling last night what you said about being a bit more dominant made me think, yes…

So… the special blanket (waterproof for sex) is already on the bed, the lube is warming on the radiator, and there’s a couple of items under your pillow for you.

I hope to see you in our room at 9pm with you ready.

Otherwise I can always punish you, hehe”

Funny thing is she got the text late and drove home having a nice normal conversation…. I’m thinking she can’t possibly keep this cool lol…she did finally see it took a shower and went to bed early. The whole start was a comedy though as maybe my text could have been more explicit so she figured I just had a couple toys under the pillow. Anyway we joked later about her in-curiosity.

So we ended up making out for a few minutes and me leading her back to her predicament of being on thin ice. She chose a funny safeword as I told her no and stop meant more tonight.

She found her stretchy mesh outfit and the lovense under her pillow. She put the outfit on and went to cuddle as normal, but instead I said no, tonight I’m going to do whatever I want with you. I pushed her flat on her back , straddled her shoulders and put my cock straight into her mouth. She said but what if I gag and wet the bed? I said that’s why we have the special blanket as I shoved myself deep down her throat while she moaned yes and finally got into the spirit.

Life intrudes, more reporting later…

 

[DemimondeDenizen]

Continued…

I honestly could have come after a couple minutes of face fucking her. But there was more to do.

I told her to spread her legs and slid the lovense into her soaking pussy and set it to an escalating pattern.

Next I reminded her that I was in charge and told her to take the pillow, put it on the ground and get on her knees next to the bed. She was good and compliant while I sat on the edge of the bed and got serviced while the toy hummed away inside her.

She asked if she could lay on her back with her head hanging off the edge of the bed. Once in position, I throat fucked her while I played with her nipples jutting through her fishnet bodysuit. Eventually I needed to feel her wetness and I slid my fingers into her dripping hole as I teased her clit with my thumb. At one point I really needed to play with her tits and firmly pulled them out of the fishnet for a good mauling that she loved.

She asked if I would use the clit sucking toy on her. I told her she had been very good, so I gave her what she desired. although I chided her with don’t talk with you mouth full as I throat fucked her, I kept “losing” suction on her clit to pull her back from the edge multiple times. Eventually I poised the sucker on just the right spot just a bit too long and she came hard as I held the toy into her in full slurp mode. She maxed out and called her safeword with a giggle.

Remembering her request for some domination, I growled on your knees, grabbed her, spun her into doggy, grasped her hard on the shoulder and slid home deep and hard. At this point she was moaning from the pounding. I pushed down on her shoulder and put her face down flat into the bed covers, she resisted a bit and I gave her stinging slap on the ass. He response was oh, yes. So I gave her another and she settled down while I pounded away.

Next I reached under her and grabbed both of her big titties and squeezed her nipples. Suddenly it was like trying to ride a wild beast. She wriggled around moaning fully in loss of control.

I realized she was getting worn down so I rolled her over into standing missionary and rubbed my cock up and down the full length of her slit, pressing my cock head against her clit while she asked me to give it back to her.

I told her she’d been a good little slut tonight and kissed her deeply while sliding my cock hilt deep into her dripping hole.

I told her I was very happy that she had invited me to take charge of her tonight. I could see how much she enjoyed it and I was going to use her as I saw fit often from now on. Then I told her I was going to fill her pussy with the biggest load of cum she’d ever had as I kept my word and shot pulse after pulse into her.

We fell asleep deeply and instantly.

Hours later we recapped the activities. She loved it and wants even more spanking. She teased me that she still owes me a lot of orgasms and a tying down of my own…

 

[Erosfan]

I’m an incredibly lucky man. I married a wonderful young girl that I met in college and she was already into this BDSM pleasure. She was/is a brazen slut, and I was a bisexual varsity baseball player. She was, and still is, the most sexually exciting woman I ever met. I truly won life’s lottery. We’ve been married over 23 years and have 2 wonderful children.

She sounds very much like my late wife. She was the most sexually exciting woman I have ever known. I hope you enjoy many more sexually exciting years with that wonderful woman.

 

[OlderBtm4U]

My condolences on your loss

 

[Erosfan]

My condolences on your loss

Thank you.

 

[Brittttlvr]

When my late wife and I first began having sex, she told me she would like to tie me up and have her way with me. I told her she didn't need to tie me up. I would lay back and she could do as she wished with me.
I wish I had said "Hell yeah" tie me up and let's play.

Agree! I'm sure she appreciated you submitting like that, but with you tied and helpless, she might have tried even more!

 

[HarleyQuim]

The cool thing about being tied up is that the only thing you’re able to do is receive affection. I hope this works out for you!

 

[chapter6plan]

The cool thing about being tied up is that the only thing you’re able to do is receive affection. I hope this works out for you!

That's part of why I want to be tied. You could even leave me in a place full of kinky strangers ... tied and blindfolded. Tied in a position that allows anything to happen!

(In reality, I'd prolly freak out if this happened, but it's a fun fantasy)

 

[CX726577]

While she was sucking me a couple weeks ago the wife mentioned she should tie me down sometime.

it’s been a long awhile since she got me spread eagle on the bed, but after thinking about it ummm hard … I've determined some aspects that I’d like her to try out on me that go beyond our past games.

Any tips on getting her into a bit of a level up without freaking and understanding my horny needs would be appreciated!

Starting vanilla
I want to be tied down —firmly— with as little movement as possible (I’ve practiced a bit so maybe pretty seamless… but how to sequence from showing her …maybe lay everything out for her so she just clicks me in and tightens and moves into a dominant role?) maybe she can tell me to prepare the equipment?

I’d like a blindfold for the surprise

While I probably should be gagged as I can try and over direct I want my mouth available for any play she sees fit.
So I’m thinking maybe she can just tell me to shut up if I’m getting bossy bottom and slap my face or cock medium light…?

Also would like have her give me another try at prostate massage. So maybe with a wedge under my hips for an easy angle?

How to bring these details up with wifey? Slowly? When? Should I satisfy her first or after/during my binding adventure ?

I need some advice as I really would like to open things up a bit as we’re both getting old and winter is coming.

Thanks

No need for a gag. She can just straddle your face if you get too noisy or bossy.

 

[HarleyQuim]

That's part of why I want to be tied. You could even leave me in a place full of kinky strangers ... tied and blindfolded. Tied in a position that allows anything to happen!

(In reality, I'd prolly freak out if this happened, but it's a fun fantasy)

It sounds like a fun fantasy!

 

[chapter6plan]

It sounds like a fun fantasy!

To be clear, anyone I trust can tie me and use me. The offering for the general public is what might freak me out.

 

[CX726577]

It sounds like a fun fantasy!

Lots of fun with the right person(s) !

 

[DemimondeDenizen]

Hoping to get down for a full on tying down soon.

After eating her and hammering her in doggy, I presented dear wife with some wrist cuff spaced just so when worn behind my back, I can’t move my wrists even a little.

She took them from me and. put them on me and I laid back on the bed.

She gave me a good knob licking and long sucking. I let slip that I’d like to have her try slapping my cock a little and she went for it.

We had fun, I groaned like an animal, she swallowed my load and we snuggled to sleep.

 

[DemimondeDenizen]

More fun.

My dear wife had a quick morning appointment this weekend. She hinted that she would be up for fun when she returned.

As soon as she left, I showered and got out the waterproof “sex” blanket for the bed.

I thought about maybe handcuffing myself with a fastex and Velcro cuff length set before her return.

I put the cuffs on with the strap tension set so that when I laid back, my body weight pulled my hands down to the bed and in against my hips to firmly and fully immobilize my hands.

It was nice, but I realized I needed a bit more and also to set expectations a bit. So I slipped one wrist out of the one just loose enough cuff.

I texted her that I was showered and waiting. she hearted it back and said she would be back in a few minutes.

I let her know that I was in a bit of a predicament and needed a hand. She said she’s hurrying home.

I quickly locked the front door to cue her in that something was really up and closed the bedroom door behind me.

I pulled out the ends of a, long unused, strap that runs under the lower part of the mattress and carefully balanced its fastex buckles and tightening straps at the corners of the bed.

With ankle cuffs on I clipped in and pulled my feet outwards to the corners of the bed. Next I put a blindfold partially on and laid back onto the wrist strap.

One last text “hurry, help”

Then I pulled the blindfold down to totally cover any sliver of light and carefully wiggled my last free hand into the tight open cuff.

As I waited my phone dinged, but I could not check it. As I laid there unable to move my cock stiffened and started oozing precum.

After a much longer than it felt interval, I heard the front door unlock.

Wife called from the other room I’m just going to freshen up, be right in.

Opening the door and seeing my predicament she said oh, I’ll have to take advantage of this.

She asked how I got set in and I mentioned the one ever so slightly loose cuff. That is not allowed, she said as she snugged it very tight.

I moaned a bit and wiggled against the ankle straps. She picked it up and cinched them tighter as well (especially as I helped by holding my legs wide)

Now that I was strung like a bow, I felt her weight on the bed between my legs. She said she liked me this way as I can be a bit bossy.

I reminded her that not long ago she asked me to be more dominant and she said yes that is awesome, but that is not now. I suddenly felt her tongue flicking the underside of my cock head.

As she teasingly worked my cock, I settled in to being blindfolded and realized I couldn’t flex my hips up even a tiny bit.

I was truly in a bit of a predicament as, beyond facefucking where I hold her head and thrust in, I realized how much I routinely thrust in just a bit sometimes while getting sucked. But not now, I realized with a growing ache, that was unable to move even a bit as I received a very detailed blowjob.

She was really savoring and loving my cock. It was so different to be not in charge and just there for whatever was done to me. I strained and moaned.

We chatted a bit back and forth. I told her I could feel her saliva running down my balls and was aching to feel the back of her throat. I felt her cup my balls and quickly ram down and withdraw instantly. Moaning and straining at my bonds, I said that really makes me want to get at you hard.

And then she started doing her trick that drives me wild. She tightens her lips closed and angles my cock firmly against them until pressure builds and i pop with a snap onto her wet mouth…over and over. Its like that first push into a fresh, tight pussy but repeated again and again.

She love-tortured me like this while I groaned and encouraged her.

I asked for a few dick slaps. She swatted me with licking in between.

After more unseen tounge teasing, occasional random deep throats and much sloppiness dripping down my balls, I felt a finger pushing on my ass button. The angle wasn’t great, but in the spirit of my predicament, I didn’t say a word as it insistently pushed in to find my prostate.

Soon she said I have to two choices; finish in her mouth or pound her while playing with her clit.

I couldn’t immediately decide. I would really love to stay helpless and be made to cum hard, but I also wanted her to cum while I gave her the ramming she earned. I thought about how next time I could be angled better with my hips slightly up and maybe I could get a little more dominated and maybe slightly slapped around and maybe even gagged.

These thoughts got me very, very close to cumming instantly…

Let’s fuck I blurted.

She tried to mount me but with my legs spread and hands held at hips it wasn’t possible. She was afraid of bending my cock with unsteady gymnastics. Hello late middle age. But I was relieved that the antics let my fever pitch subside a little.

She undid my bindings and laid back. I entered her from the side with my wet cock sliding into her even wetter pussy . I licked my fingers and dipped them into our combined juices that were squeezing out between my pistoning cock and her hole and dragged them up to her very firmly swollen clit.

I swirled, rubbed and teased her clit while I reveled in finally being able to use my hips to push deep in.

Sooner than usual, I could feel her getting close as even more wetness dripped out of her. She asked for harder breathlessly, but I held steady on my rhythm.

She went over the edge started to jerk around and squirted a bit. Please pound me she implored and I went full bore.

I pushed her leg up to fully open her pussy up and pummeled my cock in as deep, hard and fast as I could. Moaning loudly, I knew I wouldn’t last long. She came even harder squirting again as I pumped cock and cum deep into her.

Absolutely spent, we collapsed, cuddled and napped intertwined.