Married men

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Oh rats I forgot my books...... I guess I'll just have to share yours.....*wicked smile*

No problem .... my sex therapy books are first editions with graphic color photographs. But then who needs the books when you have the guy that wrote them to explain the theory and give you practical exercises? ;)
 
You might be surprised at how many of us there are out there.

Unfortunately I don't seem to find many local to me. I started a local DC thread but there are only 2-3 women that post consistently. I am sure there are lots of women here on Lit that want to fantasize but I meant horny women in real life that would love to find a guy to play with.
 
Unfortunately I don't seem to find many local to me. I started a local DC thread but there are only 2-3 women that post consistently. I am sure there are lots of women here on Lit that want to fantasize but I meant horny women in real life that would love to find a guy to play with.

There's way better ways to find real life than lit.
 
There's way better ways to find real life than lit.

When you are married it is tough to find other ways. You can share any idea that you may have on other ways. I am all ears. :D

Nobody at work interesting, don't get invited to many parties where there are new people like when I was in my 20's, don't get a chance to get out to bars very often and meeting women at the grocery store sure has never worked for me. lol.
 
personally i think some chicks are facinated with married men because if a man is married it implies that he's already passed the "test".

im not going to judge anyone for their actions or proclivities, everyone is free to do whatever they want.that being said, marriage is supposed to be special isnt it? why marry a person if you feel the need to look for something elsewhere - and if that need is so powerful , why not end the marriage and allow the woman to go find someone who wants to be with her, not someone who just feels obligated and tries to do things behind her back while telling her to her face that he loves her?

not trying to be a hater here, i have a baby mama and i did my best for her but she ended up being psycho.never once cheated on any of my girls, its just my philosophy that if you promise to be seclusive u should man up and keep your promise otherwise do the honorable thing and break it off - then go do your thang.

what do u guys think?
 
personally i think some chicks are facinated with married men because if a man is married it implies that he's already passed the "test".

im not going to judge anyone for their actions or proclivities, everyone is free to do whatever they want.that being said, marriage is supposed to be special isnt it? why marry a person if you feel the need to look for something elsewhere - and if that need is so powerful , why not end the marriage and allow the woman to go find someone who wants to be with her, not someone who just feels obligated and tries to do things behind her back while telling her to her face that he loves her?

not trying to be a hater here, i have a baby mama and i did my best for her but she ended up being psycho.never once cheated on any of my girls, its just my philosophy that if you promise to be seclusive u should man up and keep your promise otherwise do the honorable thing and break it off - then go do your thang.

what do u guys think?

That is a very good point, however there is a huge differance in making love and having sex. although I'm new on the board so I can't really speak for the others. I can tell you why my wife and I hang out here. we enjoy a lifestyle that goes against the norm. And it's nice to find a place where that lifestyle is not frowned upon, but celebrated by many others. a place where we can be who we want, say what we feel, read about others with those same feelings, It makes for a much less lonely life.

My wife and I have been together for almost 20 years. all the while doing our "thang" and it works for us. So I think that this type of lifestyle works if both parties can handle it. If one can't, then it's time to reconsider the arrangement and come up with other options.
 
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Elaborate my sweet, because I'm looking as well.... Of course I know where'd I'd want to go in LA *wink*

I've had married guys hit on me all over the place....bars of course, trader joes, and just on the street. I like the ones who make no effort to hide they're married...their wedding ring is plainly visible, and no effort to hide what they want from me. I can feel my body start to respond just from that situation.
 
I've had married guys hit on me all over the place....bars of course, trader joes, and just on the street. I like the ones who make no effort to hide they're married...their wedding ring is plainly visible, and no effort to hide what they want from me. I can feel my body start to respond just from that situation.

Most married guys have a problem going past the initial flirting. Its not worth their time if they don't know that you are actually into it. I know most women want the guy to be the forward one, but with a married guy you have to understand that he can't just to passing his cell number out like a single guy for fear of it getting back to his wife. If girls want a married guy, they have to be willing to make some strong moves.
 
Most married guys have a problem going past the initial flirting. Its not worth their time if they don't know that you are actually into it. I know most women want the guy to be the forward one, but with a married guy you have to understand that he can't just to passing his cell number out like a single guy for fear of it getting back to his wife. If girls want a married guy, they have to be willing to make some strong moves.

I disagree. I've never done first moves and definitely have hooked up with married guys. The girl has to be OK with knowing the guy will make the contacts, she can't. And odds are he's only going to call when he wants some. Luckily for me, I think that's hot!
 
I disagree. I've never done first moves and definitely have hooked up with married guys. The girl has to be OK with knowing the guy will make the contacts, she can't. And odds are he's only going to call when he wants some. Luckily for me, I think that's hot!

What's your number again? :devil:
 
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