Massachusetts - Not quite J.O. buds, but......

Greetings

Much appreciated, Halifax. Thanks for putting your name out there with the friendly "bump" for the thread. Look forward to chatting more.....
 
well I almost did it last night but the other person got to nervous and stopped it. Man, and I thought was nervous:(
 
oooo....details needed

OK, now you gotta give details. What could have been done smoother? Why do you think he backed out? Someone from Lit? Craig's List? Elsewhere? Any answers will be greatly beneficial to us hornsters.
 
CL, traveling on a layover at a hotel by the airport. We chatted a bit he was 28 wanted to try it but was very nervous as I but wanted to meet in the bar. I was driving there and he texted and said he couldn't do it. End of story.:(
 
Appreciate you sharing the experience

Hmmm, thanks for sharing. I wonder what happened. Sometimes us humans overthink things...maybe he just psyched himself out at the last minute with all the adrenaline surging through him. Seems pretty safe to meet at the airport bar. Even less strings involved, as you were just passing through, and he wasn't going to run into you in the city. How far had you guys gone prior to the expected meet-up? Had you heard each other's voices or gone on cam? What had you planned to do when you met up --- just watch some clips, jerk off together, or touch? Have you talked to him since, or did he "disappear?"
 
Great responses

Hey guys! Curious for an update from any who are exploring this track. Are things moving along nicely on your end? Any new epiphanies or experiences?

I'm having fun with it. I figured it would hit a certain nerve in a lot of people, and might stir up some decent conversation so we could all explore more. Have received a good number of responses from people who are intrigued by it, and some who have actually ventured out into real-time with it. Have yet to meet up in-person on my end, but am still exploring the possibility. I'm at the initial stage of watching clips on here with people who are semi-local, so I'm basically right where I expected to be at this time.

Enjoy the hot weather if you're local to me in MA!
 
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Hi

Hi all. This thread got my attention for sure. I'm a little north of Boston and would love to find someone to meet up with. Watch porn. Explore. See what happens. If anyone is on kik message me at: jim_stevens

I'm not on lit very often but I'll keep my eye on this thread.
 
One Year Later...

Hey friends,

It's been a little over a year since I updated here myself, so it's definitely time. I have found several local and semi-local buds through other online means during this time. I'm starting to get a feel for when people are serious about a future meet-up, and when they're just looking to watch videos and fantasize through the internet. To be honest, I've allowed myself to get stuck in the online fantasizing mode much more than I expected, but there's nothing wrong with that. There are definitely a ton of thoughts and emotions flying around when we consider "upgrading" from online chats to in-person chats.

So basically, my online buds and I have been teasing the living daylights out of each other through shared fantasies, pics/gifs/vids, and the frequent thoughts of an actual meet-up to enjoy materials together. It has definitely been a fun year sexually (it's crazy how your interests evolve when you can share with others at the drop of a hat), but I still have that "bug" itching at me to escalate a bit more.

I'm curious if anyone else has had new experiences since last summer. Have you watched a kinky clip in-person with a co-worker, friend, or Lit bud? Were both parties comfortable? Was it something you would do again?

Hope you all are enjoying the summer. Let's encourage each other to get off our sexy butts and venture outside of the internet together! Those who need an excuse can always chalk it up to a "summer fling...." ;)
 
Hi jimmy, I too just north of Boston and would like to meet you. I'm into lying naked in bed with another man, watching porn, rubbing our bodies and c*cks together, I'm into having you watch as I eat my cum. You can jerk off and shoot your load on my chest. Can be into other things as well. I'm mid 50's, in shape, ddfree and have a flexible work schedule so I can meet you during the day.
 
Hey friends,

It's been a little over a year since I updated here myself, so it's definitely time. I have found several local and semi-local buds through other online means during this time. I'm starting to get a feel for when people are serious about a future meet-up, and when they're just looking to watch videos and fantasize through the internet. To be honest, I've allowed myself to get stuck in the online fantasizing mode much more than I expected, but there's nothing wrong with that. There are definitely a ton of thoughts and emotions flying around when we consider "upgrading" from online chats to in-person chats.

So basically, my online buds and I have been teasing the living daylights out of each other through shared fantasies, pics/gifs/vids, and the frequent thoughts of an actual meet-up to enjoy materials together. It has definitely been a fun year sexually (it's crazy how your interests evolve when you can share with others at the drop of a hat), but I still have that "bug" itching at me to escalate a bit more.

I'm curious if anyone else has had new experiences since last summer. Have you watched a kinky clip in-person with a co-worker, friend, or Lit bud? Were both parties comfortable? Was it something you would do again?

Hope you all are enjoying the summer. Let's encourage each other to get off our sexy butts and venture outside of the internet together! Those who need an excuse can always chalk it up to a "summer fling...." ;)

I've been the guy who's chickened out last minute before. It's kind of embarrassing to do so, but I had a very last second change of heart. That was about two years ago.

These days I like doing c2c on Skype with voice with guys or girls. It's a low pressure jerk off session, allowing me to get my cock fantasies out without really crossing that bridge. It may be a soft move, but it works for me right now.
 
Chickens R Us?

Hey there, anyone4greek!

I think the vast majority of us are in the "chickening out" department. Although, I really don't see us as chickens. Rather, I have often found that the other person starts pushing towards slightly---or very---different goals for the meet-up, and then it's often in our best interests to reject the offer. I used to think I just needed a shared interest in certain types of porn to be comfortable with meeting up in-person to watch vids. Fortunately or unfortunately, I've realized I'm a bit more picky than that.

For me, I have found the following situation to be the biggest turn-on: A bud who is new to this scene, and has not explored very far with others in-person....someone who is either somewhat shy or at least cool with moving slowly and focusing on the vids in the beginning to see if we can relax enough together.....not a deal-breaker, but I gravitate more to buds who are on the thin-to-fit build range, as birds of a feather tend to flock together...and someone who is ideally a 30 to 60-minute drive away. I feel like these attributes allow us to test things out without huge expectations or someone trying to "out-alpha" the other dude into pushing his limits further than he wants. It also allows for further possibilities down the road, if we find that we enjoy the whole process. This is already a pretty kinky thing to do, so I find that choosing a polarizing partner can make it almost over-stimulating, even though that may be a fun fantasy to explore in the confines of the internet.

Anyways....curious to hear more thoughts from you all, and if anyone has ventured into any new territory with this over the summer.

Until next time....
 
I am on Mass/NH border and am cd curious. Married but looking for someone to assist me in first time dressing. Have to be discreet. Need somewhere private to explore. Fantasize about red garter, thigh highs, and satin or lace panties and then getting my cock sucked. Never been with a guy. Will take any suggestions on how i can explore this.
 
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