masturbating next to significant partner

[el_uno77]

a few days ago i was in bed with my wife and i wanted relief. she was snoring up a storm so i did not want to bother her. while she was facing away from me i began rubbing my cock against my thigh and had an instant hardon. i also pinched and pulled my nipples which are extremely sensitive. needless to say my orgasm was fantastic. i fell back to sleep with the wetness but managed to get up later and dried myself off. now i wonder how many of you have maturbated next to your partner without them knowing it. how did you manage? did you use your hands or another device unbeknownst to them? did you get caught? where satisfied? would you do it again if the mood is right? did you tell them about it?

as for me....yes i would do it again, no i did not get caught, no i did not tell her, all i used were my hands. let us know your story.....

 

[BurningFloors]

My ex caught me once, I even waited until I was sure she was asleep. She rolled over and asked if I was jerking off, when I told her I was she let out a sigh and said "let me pee first then I will be right back". Sure enough she came right back after peeing and climbed right on top of me and rode me.

 

[hulmule]

Been in a sexless marriage for a long time. So ive done it alot. At first i was very cautious, but needed to cum. Then bolder and bolder... Trying to get her to join in..No luck

 

[PaigeofPleasure]

I have to, otherwise I’d never get it done

 

[jassybb]

its not a big deal, some of us enjoy watching or making our partner do it. But, it varies from person to person and not a general rule lol

 

[UtilityCurve]

its not a big deal, some of us enjoy watching or making our partner do it. But, it varies from person to person and not a general rule lol

I would have thought curiosity at least was universal. My wife loved watching. (She also kicked it off by asking to see.)

 

[PaigeofPleasure]

I would have thought curiosity at least was universal. My wife loved watching. (She also kicked it off by asking to see.)

I love to watch too but he seems indifferent

 

[kathyisgr65]

8 don't know if I've already replied to this but I was rubbing one off trying not to wake up my bf and all I hear is him grumbling and telling me I'm making him seasick

 

[UtilityCurve]

I love to watch too but he seems indifferent

 

[UtilityCurve]

8 don't know if I've already replied to this but I was rubbing one off trying not to wake up my bf and all I hear is him grumbling and telling me I'm making him seasick

Sorry. Really don't mean to laugh (been there, done that, not especially enjoyable). But props to him for thinking of "seasick" rather than "you woke me."

 

[kathyisgr65]

Sorry. Really don't mean to laugh (been there, done that, not especially enjoyable). But props to him for thinking of "seasick" rather than "you woke me."

I was kinda surprised he was being a dick.. but I did wake him up that's a corporal offense

 

[aliencardigan]

I probably do this weekly and my wife is usually a pretty sound sleeper. I leave a couple small rolled up towels bedside that I cum into so no sticky puddle to sleep in. One of my best experiences was when she was snuggled to me sleeping soundly, I moved her hand to cup my balls while I jerked off. That was pretty intense!
The last time I wasn't bothering to be too discreet and she woke up, rolled over and gave me a wonderful handjob. After I came she wanted a vibrator to get herself off....needless to say I helped her with that too!

 

[Pornfan77]

Been in a sexless marriage for a long time. So ive done it alot. At first i was very cautious, but needed to cum. Then bolder and bolder... Trying to get her to join in..No luck

I have to jerk off next to my sleeping wife, or not at all. She has half her family living in our house so I have no alone space other than out bedroom. Unfortunately, she quit sex a long time ago after catching me watching porn. Now, I just have to stroke in The dark with no hope of a helping hand or more.

 

[Pornfan77]

I was kinda surprised he was being a dick.. but I did wake him up that's a corporal offense

Wish my wife would wake me up like that. I wouldn’t be close to grumpy! I’d be so excited I’d have to do whatever she wanted to help her cum!

 

[Pornfan77]

8 don't know if I've already replied to this but I was rubbing one off trying not to wake up my bf and all I hear is him grumbling and telling me I'm making him seasick

That’s just not right! I’d want to join in in any way you’d want!

 

[Pornfan77]

I love to watch too but he seems indifferent

Wish my wife wanted to watch. She thinks it’s disgusting for me to jerk off.

 

[kathyisgr65]

That’s just not right! I’d want to join in in any way you’d want!

I know... that's most of the fun

 

[DemimondeDenizen]

I’ve done this. Mostly I just slowly rub a finger or two back and forth on my frenulum but occasionally I grind ever so slowly on a pillow while she’s asleep. Trying not to rock the boat with fapping.

Some old writer quipped that the most sensitive part of a masturbating man is his ears! lol.

We used the Spicer app recently and realized we shared a desire to let each other masturbate whenever shame-free. Swiping yes is difeerent than actually doing it though.

Suffering from Sunday morning wood, I was feeling really horny. I felt like I would end up gooning away time I didn’t have when she took a shower…so instead, I just told her the situation…and I wondered if she would like to watch me jerk off.

She loved the idea. I hammed it up spitting on my hand and giving myself long strokes while she watched. I was so horny and soon came like a geyser. She told me that it was very hot to watch and then sweetly cleaned me up with a hand towel.

A few days later she told me to take a viagra and an hour later, while watching tv, she got bossy and told me to put in the vibrating plug, put a on a blindfold and get naked. And then she slowly jerked me off for almost and hour. Heavenly.

She’s noticed how much pre cum I leak when I’m plugged and loves seeing how many spurts she can get out of me when she makes me orgasm.

So now I really don’t worry to much about getting noticed if masturbate while she’s sleeping…other than perhaps just the annoyance of accidentally waking her up lol

Also it turned out she doesn’t have any issue with me feeling her up, rubbing her pussy or more while she’s asleep. So I’ve been trying out stealthy night operations. Sometimes she wakes up in the morning and we laugh together as she tells me she had a dream and then something oddly sexual started happening…

 

[welovesyou]

Masturbating together side by side while watching porn is a great waste of time for us

 

[TnA4U]

I sometimes wake up in the middle of the night needing relief. I've learned to make myself cum relatively quickly, with minimal movement, and often with breathe holding. My husband is a deep sleeper, so I don't think he has ever noticed. Bonus: I fall back into a deep sleep.

 

[UtilityCurve]

Wish my wife wanted to watch. She thinks it’s disgusting for me to jerk off.

Well, unless she makes herself available whenever possible, that's just unreasonable and controlling.

A lot of women who confront the issue of their partners masturbating with the aid of pornography (not so much [+18!] girls, either because they are too insecure to challenge their BF's or are more accepting of it due to their liberal attitudes) plead "Aren't I enough for you?"

And every guy (me included) never tells the whole story: That she has NO idea what "enough" would be and almost doubtless would quail at the prospect.

 

[Pornfan77]

I know... that's most of the fun

So many ways to join in and make it an amazing experience for both!

 

[Pornfan64]

Been in a sexless marriage for a long time. So ive done it alot. At first i was very cautious, but needed to cum. Then bolder and bolder... Trying to get her to join in..No luck

Sounds like my first marriage. This one’s even worse cause she freaks out if she thinks I’m masturbating.

 

[kathyisgr65]

So many ways to join in and make it an amazing experience for both!

I agree

 

[hulmule]

Sounds like my first marriage. This one’s even worse cause she freaks out if she thinks I’m masturbating.

Theres a good talk that need to be done. Either you do it honey or im going to