Masturbation Advice & Discussion

[Limbhugger]

I find masturbation an integral part of my every day life. Been doing it as long as I can remember, literally. And (although I shouldn't admit this) often with boyhood friends.

I have masturbated in just about every way (and place...lol) I can think of.

Sometimes it is that wake up from a hot dream and stroke till I cum real quick masturbation. Other times it is a drawn out all day pleasure journey of teasing and touching until at last I fall over the edge. And still other times it is about curiousity and exploration to see if I like something or if something excites me.

My wife and I have a GREAT sex life and I still masturbate nearly every day. And every now and then I find myself cumming two or three or more times in a day at my own hand.

For me, self-pleasuring is somehow different than partner sex. It is deeply self-intimate and revealing and honest. It can be raw and hard or it can be soft and passionate. You can free yourself in your mind to explore all that hasn't been, or re-live all that has.

And I LOVE mutual masturbation. Watching my partner play and touch and bring herself to orgasm is intensely erotic. And my wife enjoys my return favor as well.

I'm an extremely sexual person who truly enjoys the exploration of pleasure. That can be explorations of my own mind and body, explorations with another, or explorations of another.

My wife just sums it up by saying I'm a horn-dog...LOL.

 

[welshman]

I too like to masturbate looking at downloaded mpegs of the opposite sex masturbating. Sound files as well. There is something especially erotic about the sounds of a woman in pleasure. I don't mean the artificial porn type nonsense, I mean the real sounds of real women even if that is a soft breathing becoming ever so slightly more intense, if it is real it is most erotic. There is a French website with some particularly good ones and another site with woman calling herself Angel. I also have some stunning ones from 'a friend' I find the sound files here at Lit disappointing because of the poor sound quality. Every nuance is important!

Have you considered the sounds you make while masturbating Liz? try recording them and playing them back to yourself.

 

[SethRD]

3 times a week? 6 times a week?

Damn, my sex drive is a LOT higher then you all. I get off about three times a night, and I want to go again. I've gotten off about 7 times in a 6 hours period. Sure, the orgasms aren't as great, but they are still damn good. I think I jack off way to much though. I get raw after awhile, and it hurts to piss, which is never a good thing.

 

[sylph54]

A few times a week for me.

Usually ... in the tub, when I have the time to let the world go by.

The other day I tried something that I had never done before -- trying to completely relax while masturbating. I tried the principles of Lamaze (you know, no muscles clenched, keeping completely "loose") and it was wonderful.

It extended the build up immensely. I gave myself a little penalty every time I found that I was lifting my hips to meet my hand, or clenching my vagina.

I discovered that a whole lot of my body was trying to respond, places I didn't even realize in the past. Along with my vaginal muscles, my anus would try to contract and consciously not letting that happen was immensely gratififying.

When I finally came, the waves of contractions from all over my body were fantastic, and more "noticeable" if you know what I mean. By focusing on keeping all those places loose while building to a climax, everyone of those places were "reporting" when the waves of pleasure took over.

Truly toe-curling orgasm.

 

[SHYNE126]

masterbation

IF I WERE A WOMAN, I'D GET VERY RICH JUST PUMPING COCKS FOR 10.00 EACH!!!. @6 PER HR.=480.00!!! 960.00 P/WK,...50,000.00P/YR!!!. WITH ONE HAND, LOOKING AT THE TV!!

 

[jpschust]

funny cause i was thinking about this today. i love to masturbate, hell im a guy, but i also like to test my own will power. i tend to masturbate once or twice a day, often teasing myself for longer periods of time. i think im gonna try to be hands off for at least 4-5 days. doesnt sound like much for some but for me its a start