men who cum quick.

is it ok for a man to cum quickly?

  • yes

    Votes: 23 23.0%
  • no

    Votes: 18 18.0%
  • depends

    Votes: 56 56.0%
  • I don't understand the question

    Votes: 3 3.0%

  • Total voters
    100
The young me would just explode thinking anything about sex..constantly! As an adult its different every time. I have learned a trick I use...not really a trick just sort of happened. I sometimes pull out and fire off a little cum on my wifes pussy, I can usually do this 2 maybe three times before I have the real big one. I can fuck a lot longer with half a tank left
 
I can't last longer than a minute generally once we are actually having sex. It bothers me alot more than it bothers her as she thinks it's kinda hot that she turns me on that much. I always get her off first too. Thinking about using a delay spray and an SSRI to last longer.
If she needs mind 2-60 let me know….happy to help!
 
Try the release method and go for one then increase, although the highest I've ever gotten was 3. Plus the added bonus of going down on her when she she has a little cum on her..if thats one of your things
 
At this point in life, I think I prefer a man that can cum quick. I like to think I can still make them lose control and as long as he will lend a hand after to get me over the top, I will be content. Actually the last man I had sex with was very slow to cum and that was a chore. I was finished and ready to cuddle and he still needed to keep poking.
I have had this happen most of my marriage.
I assumed I was bad at sex. He had been my first and only.

3 years apart, several new partners, and I am certain it was not me.

At one point in our marriage, he didn't like me to cum first because he would take so long my mind wandered to my chore list.
 
When I was young I would often cum quickly but my partners were always pleasantly surprised to find I would stay hard and not skip a beat, just continuing toward number two.
 
Depends on how quick it is and how long he can continue once he has finished. With proper foreplay and focus, I can cum pretty quickly, so longevity isn’t the biggest concern to me. That said, I would say that couple of pumps and done is definitely too fast.

I’m also not wild about guys that last forever, either. I don’t need sex to last an hour. Give me a lot of foreplay and a good few minutes inside and I’ll be more than happy.
 
Does anybody else like it when a man cums quick?
Or is it frowned upon?

What are you're thoughts everyone x
My husband (he's now my cuckold!) used to cum quickly. It's indirectly what led me to becoming a Hot Wife. These days he only cums on a Saturday afternoon when I milk him. It usually takes between 15 and 20 minutes to drain him. Is that quick/slow enough to answer your question?
 
Depends on how quick it is and how long he can continue once he has finished. With proper foreplay and focus, I can cum pretty quickly, so longevity isn’t the biggest concern to me. That said, I would say that couple of pumps and done is definitely too fast.

I’m also not wild about guys that last forever, either. I don’t need sex to last an hour. Give me a lot of foreplay and a good few minutes inside and I’ll be more than happy.
There's plenty of after sex ay that can happen. Sometimes it very fast, other times takes longer, so you work around the depends...
 
Now that I'm not sexually active physically with another, and I only partake in online play...I like a man who cums quick.
Sometimes I can't be watching for that long, you know?
Or during RP even... Go ahead and cum fast.. Get yours!
💦
 
Guilty, I do make sure she has at least one orally. Then after being on lit learned about licking her after. She now wants me to cum quick so she gets me to lick her after…
 
A couple of times we have had guys who join us for a threesome came quick the first time just getting over excited took longer next time round had one young guy had problems with premature ejaculation but wife persevered with him and eventually he was able to last a lot longer so he could satisfy her.
 
My man cums quick and then can’t get hard again for a while. I end up getting my satisfaction from my 8 in suction dildo that he doesn’t know about.
Are you sure he doesn't know about it? How long are his showers? ;)
 
I've always seen intercourse as a step in the journey. If I cum quickly, so be it -- there are other ways to help my partner along her path, too, that are enjoyable to me as well. That can be oral, helping her masturbate or playing with her until I'm erect again and can go at it.
Sex is a three-act play -- foreplay, intercourse, after-care -- with many scenes to each act, and it can be a double-feature (or more) if I'm using all my senses to truly understand each scene.
 
Does anybody else like it when a man cums quick?
Or is it frowned upon?

What are you're thoughts everyone x
i was just on vacation. third day in a row we were fucking i came after about 90 seconds. ...she had used her clit vibe and came twice. i was thinking about another woman we interacted with on vacation sucking my little dick (as my woman used her vibe) and my woman sucking a big cock. after my woman came second time i asked her to roll over. she got on all fours. as i slid into her, i said you were thinking about getting some big dick when you were using your clit vibe weren't you? she moaned yes, and ...he fucked my face and then rolled me over and fucked my cunt. she never uses that word. i started slamming her hard and shot and shot my load and came so hard and she came almost as soon as my hot load hit her pussy walls. she loved it and gave me a hi five after we collapsed and collected ourselves.
 
I think it would hurt his feelings.
One of the most important and most helpful talks my wife and I ever had (which has A LOT to do with our current FLR arrangement) was when we had an honest conversation and she told me after many years of marriage that she did not enjoy PIV sex with me. Yes, my feelings were hurt, but I needed to hear that my PE and my small penis did not give her orgasms and that she far preferred oral worship and her vibrator.

As I have written about elsewhere, this came out when I was asking her to dominate me. Now she has taken control, meaning that her orgasms take precedence — which is the way it always should have been. I have had to accept my sexual inadequacy. I am just fortunate that she allows me to worship her and to spurt in the manner she now allows.

Put yourself first and tell your husband the truth. Teach him to use your dildo. It is the least he can do.
 
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