men who masturbate

Clever

Pretty clever, Ken. I have always wanted to make a guy so horny that he came in his pants.

Sally
 
I am a woman who is currently with her first lover. At first when I found out how much he masturbates I was really ashamed and embarrassed and felt that it was my fault. I have since realized that I wasn't and it is a totally natural thing. I have accepted it and now encourage him to not leave and hide it, if I know it is going on it is easier for me to accept. I just want to let other women know that it really is natural. And NOT your fault.
 
masterbating

any man says they don`t is a liar.maybe there lover does it for them.
 
Hmm, I'm incredibly intrigued by this topic so I'll share my experiences. I masturbate about once a day, usually before I go to sleep. It helps me fall asleep quicker. I do it dry and sometimes with a lubricant (that vaseline cream works nice :) ) Usually I'm at my computer looking for something good to look at or to read. Generally nothing out of the ordinary, but every so often I cut loose a little. I love to spray myself in the face. I find I enjoy the taste of it at first but as my arousal ebbs the taste loses excitement. Sometimes I cum on my stomach and rub it into my abdomen. The newest thing for me is to cum with a finger in my ass. I drew back in horror at the idea until I got up enough courage to try it. Definitely makes a much more pleasurable experience.
I love the idea of watching a woman masturbate while I do as well. In fact, I've never even had straight sex, only mutual masturbation (I guess I should get out more, but seriously I'm no good at meeting women, and I try! :mad: ) I often fantasize about watching a woman masturbate, and the only two times I had phone sex all I wanted to hear was how she was pleasuring herself. Damn, I'm getting hard just thinking about it!
 
daily masturbator

You would never know that I am an avid and enthusiatic masturbator if you met me. I suspect that may be true of almost all the men and women who post on these masturbation threads. I like that contrast between a persons public persona and private habits and when I masturbate I usually think about making that erotic journey with a woman, the nervous excitement of revealing such intimate gratification slowly, teasingly and finally completely. I also think it is theraputic for two people to first discover others who masturbate, then enjoy the excitement of sharing it and soothing and encouraging and -however we may think we are not repressed- assuring each other that it is natural and healthy and exciting nasty good erotic fun.

I had one ex GF who also loved to masturbate and I am afraid I am now spoiled because I cannot imagine being with a woman who doesn't love to masturbate. Common sense tells me I won't be deterred by that if I encounter a woman who is mutually attractive otherwise but I find myself thinking that I would love to make any woman I am attracted to feel good about masturbating when ever she wanted to.

Maybe it is because my mom caught me masturbating when I was a teenager and lets just say she didn't approve. Now I masturbate daily and love it. Did any women here experience parental disapproval about thier masturbation and now find themselves somewhat obsessed? Care to talk about it and masturbate with me?
 
Caretaker
there is another thread, actualy the one that inspired this one called Women who masterbate, check it out the two are usualy not to far apart on the board
 
Shortly after safe sex became necessary my ex and I found several friends- men, women and couples - who enjoyed our idea. People like to talk about sex because it's a turn on. While hanging with friends we were up front about it. If the idea is to get turned on - go for it. Admit it and set a few ground rules. Try to turn each other on. This has led to automasturbation and doing others. Some times partners will do more that masturbate. It is a safe way of exploring a range of sexual experiences. Different strokes for differnet folks, so to speak. We had different experiences in different situations. They always are hot. My ex and I are both bi and our play friends have been straight, gay, lesbian and bi. Because we like and trust each other everyone has enjoyed the diversity. There is nothing like talking with other people, each trying to outdo the others, adding to the heat. By the time things get physical, it's anything goes - masturbation wise. We have had a couple of large parties. The air is thick with sex. Of course solo is great too. A creative mind, good imagination and a wide range of experiences to call on allows me some of the best times.
 
Men who masturbate

As Woody Allen says, the great thing about jerking off is that youre having sex with someone you really love and care for.
For me its a control thing. In real life you have to negotiate. Some girls wont do this and want you to do that, in which youre not that interested. But when youre masturbating you become the auteur of your own dirty movie and you direct the girl to do exactly what you want.
Theres a girl in my office whom i really like to screw. One drunken Christmas do we nearly did it. But as were both married we both pulled back from the brink as were both happily married and it would get too complicated.
But I cant tell you how many time Ive shot my load into her eyes and watch the globs of spunk drool down her face as shes on her knees before me.
Of course, my legs just get wet.
Sigh.
Sandy, get over here and get down............
 
I started masturbating when I was around 15. For a long time, I would do it at least once a day. Now that i am married, I usually only do it when I can't have sex with my wife in order to prevent unwanted erections at inappropriate times. If for some reason, I haven't had intercourse for an extended time, I will do it so that I don't come prematurely when I do eventually have sex with my wife.
 
I remember a time I masturbated on the way home from dropping someone off at the San Francisco airport.

It was a hot summer day and the top was down on my convertible. I made sure to pull up along side the truckers so they could get a glimpse.

When I pulled up to the toll booth, I was still exposed but just partially.

The best part of the day besides cumming of course was the thought of how slutty and hot I felt putting on a show for so many different men in a short period of time.
 
I do it as often as possible .... on days off when I find myself alone it gets to be a liability... I find it hard not to take things in my own hands sometimes. Don't get me wrong a good woman is more exciting than my hand but then again.. my hand is free of the fetters of a relationship....

If you wish to share some online fun.... pm me...

a sample...
 
here ya are.

Just thought that i would post my reply to the questions in the second post of the thread...

1. how many times a day do i masturbate?

I'd have to say between 2 and 5 times a day...about 6 days a week.. depends on where my roommates are at the time... record number of times i came in a 24 hours period... 8 (i had nothing to do that day...wasn’t even trying :D)


2. do i use toys?

Well, sometimes i like to tie myself up a little, you see, i have a growing bondage fetish... i love it.


3. no hands????

heh yes, i can do it... though it has been a while since i have and it takes for ever to do... (last time i was about 1994, before i had internet porn)


4. did i taste myself?

yes i have. i wouldn't say i liked it, nor disliked it... it was so-so... and no, i don’t do it often.


as for feeling, i love the ones where you cum sooo hard that you jerk form a laying position to a sitting one, and not remember a bit of it..... mmm

oh and docisin... i have no recoupe time (lucky me huh?) and i have came 4 times in a row with out stoping before. yeah, it hurts for a while afterward, but it can be done, and you do shoot cum out every time.



well, here are my answers... hope you like them.

opism
opie_feight@hotmail.com if you have any more questions. i find it fun to answer sex question on how i do this, or what is the best way to do that.
:cool:
 
sorry

sorry all, forgot something...
i ahve masterbated in public before... most often while driving late night... good way to keep myself awake for a bit longer.

:D

opism
 
am I the only woman getting turned on by reading all these? You guys rock...it has always turned me on to imagine/see men play with their cocks...
 
Love to stroke

This is only my second post so please be gentle.
I discovered masturbation young, I was 7 and lived in a boarding school. I think it became a comfort thing to do, obviously at that age i didn't produce cum. It started after 2 older girls came upon trying to get from the bedroom to the shower room naked and i froze in front of them. They laughed at me and i was strangely aroused to be naked in front of them. After 30 sens or so they left still laughing. That night was the first time i remember deliberatley pleasuring myself. This is where i think my cfnm and sph fetishes come from
I would go through spates of masturbating probably during periods of higher testoterone levels and/or stress until the age of 12/13 when i started to do it regularly and often. Unfortunately i was a late bloomer and incredibly shy so masturbation and porn were my only bedfellows during my teenage years.
I am now marrried but still like to masturbate once a day, more if i can get it. I usually fantasise about my ex, female friends, hot celebs in femdom roles inc. Cfnm, sph, cuckolding, facesitiing etx.
Sorry if i've rambled on i only recently feel sexually liberated enough to not feel immense shame of my sexuality.

Feel free to ask me questions
 
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Apropos of very little in the topic, I think almost 19 years is the longest I've seen a dormant thread get bumped.

Truly amazed!

Er, keep on tugging :D
 
am I the only woman getting turned on by reading all these? You guys rock...it has always turned me on to imagine/see men play with their cocks...

I swear you must have read the entire forum if you stumbled across this thread!

Well “res-erected”
 
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