Men who REALLY love women

[Carnus]

Wow, I am not sure what to say to that, except I think it is one of the sweetest things I have ever been told. Thank you very much, and women like you are what makes it easy to love women so much.

Carnus

Carnus - you and my lover were exactly who I had in mind when I started this thread. I can tell by how you write, how you describe women, how you describe sex, that you are 'that' kind of guy. Actually you remind me alot of my lover - you even kind of look like him (except he's totally bald).

Anway - I don't want this to turn into some kind of sexist thread.. And I don't want to offend any guys. ALL guys are great - in their own special ways. It was just that I wondered if anybody else noticed what I did.

And I do understand how confusing it must be to be a man. Reading all the stuff just on Lit. about how girls want a 'bad' boy, a skilled lover, 'rough' sex sometimes, great oral, and a guy in touch with his 'feminine side' is a pretty tall order. We can be kinda demanding huh?

 

[jeepman6]

And I do understand how confusing it must be to be a man. Reading all the stuff just on Lit. about how girls want a 'bad' boy, a skilled lover, 'rough' sex sometimes, great oral, and a guy in touch with his 'feminine side' is a pretty tall order. We can be kinda demanding huh?

When my wife wants a bad boy, I'm there. When she wants "rough sex" I'm there. When she wants oral, I'm there. When she just wants to cuddle, I'm there. When she has a bad day, I'm there. Through everything life throws her, I'm there. She's my best friend in the whole world. Guys all you have to do is listen and be there. It's actually not that tall an order if you really think about it.

 

[Mogwai7]

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[crazybbwgirl]

When my wife wants a bad boy, I'm there. When she wants "rough sex" I'm there. When she wants oral, I'm there. When she just wants to cuddle, I'm there. When she has a bad day, I'm there. Through everything life throws her, I'm there. She's my best friend in the whole world. Guys all you have to do is listen and be there. It's actually not that tall an order if you really think about it.

You have a lucky woman!

 

[crazybbwgirl]

Wow, I am not sure what to say to that, except I think it is one of the sweetest things I have ever been told. Thank you very much, and women like you are what makes it easy to love women so much.
Carnus

Oh Carn - you know I've been crunching on you since I joined the board! lol

 

[jeepman6]

You have a lucky woman!

Actually I'm a lucky man

 

[crazybbwgirl]

Actually I'm a lucky man

BINGO! That's the type of man I'm trying to describe!

 

[falcon29]

I mean men who really love all things womanly. Men who love to be around women, listen to them talk, understand how/why they feel certain ways. Men who are really in touch with their feminine sides. Men who intuitively know how/where/when to touch, lick, suck, etc. Men who understand that great sex comes from your brain first and your body second.

As opposed to men who don't really love women. They might not even know they don't love women. Actually - they probably think they DO love women, and sex. But really they just use women to get themselves off. They are not necessarily bad men - maybe its something about the way they were raised. But they for the most part don't really know what to do with our bodies.

Anyone else feel this huge distinction in men - or have any idea what I'm talking about? Or am I just crazy on a Saturday morning!

Wait a minute. Speaking as a man who loves women (Really!), there's a difference in loving women and "loving all things womanly". There are a lot of things about women in general I don't find interesting. I'd suspect there are a lot of things about "men" that a woman probably find uninteresting, repulsive, etc., even though she may love men.

Your question is too general. In the past, I had a female friend who had a male as her best friend because, as she described it, he felt the way you describe men who love women. He was gay.

There very definitely is a huge difference between men who know how to love "a woman" and men who just see them as receptacles for their dicks.

Each man and each woman is unique. A man may belong to one of the two divisions you have established, but still not love antique shopping or shopping in general (or whatever criterion you might use for "being in touch with his feminine side"). There are degrees on both sides.

 

[wicked woman]

In the past, I had a female friend who had a male as her best friend because, as she described it, he felt the way you describe men who love women. He was gay.

Falcon...I assume you're not generalizing this statement!!!!

 

[crazybbwgirl]

Well - actually some of my very best male friends ARE gay. Maybe I'm just drawn to that type of guy?!?!? My lover has never cried in front of me, hates "Will & Grace", and is even a tiny bit homophobic. Yet he knows that he's very in touch with his feminine side. I'm not saying I can explain it - I'm just saying what I feel.

 

[Carnus]

Hehehehe, well I can promise I am not gay and willing to prove it too. heheheh

I have a friend who is gay though and he jokes with me sometimes about how nice I am for a straight guy, I just laugh and tell him how macho he is for a gay guy. heheh

Carnus

 

[wicked woman]

Originally posted by Carnus
Hehehehe, well I can promise I am not gay and willing to prove it too. heheheh

I have a friend who is gay though and he jokes with me sometimes about how nice I am for a straight guy, I just laugh and tell him how macho he is for a gay guy. heheh

Carnus

Willing are you? hmmm Well maybe on behalf of some of your fans here on Lit....I'll take you up on your offer...just to make sure

 

[BirdsWife]

Willing are you? hmmm Well maybe on behave of some of your fans here on Lit....I'll take you up on your offer...just to make sure

I think I'd better be there when this "proof" session takes place so I can, uh, verify the results.

Yeah, that's it....consider me the Consumer Reports of the Lit world.

 

[wicked woman]

Originally posted by BirdsWife
I think I'd better be there when this "proof" session takes place so I can, uh, verify the results.

Yeah, that's it....consider me the Consumer Reports of the Lit world.

hehe wondered how long it would take you to offer your 'services' hon Sure Carnus would love to have you verify or even double check the results.

 

[Carnus]

Hmmm,, well I think I will have to take you both up on that hehe. Seperate or together is the only question hehehehe

Carnus

 

[BirdsWife]

hehe wondered how long it would take you to offer your 'services' hon Sure Carnus would love to have you verify or even double check the results.

Verify, double check, confirm....it's all semantics for what I really want.

 

[BirdsWife]

Hmmm,, well I think I will have to take you both up on that hehe. Seperate or together is the only question hehehehe

Carnus

I don't think we should have to choose. Afer all, scientifically speaking, the more 'testing' sessions you run the more refined the results. So I'm sure I can speak for wicked woman when I say we'd both be willing to do as many sessions as necessary to ensure the accuracy of the results.

All in the name of science, of course....

 

[Carnus]

Mmm, I do like the thought of two women as lovely as the both of you 'testing' me.

Let me see,, possible ways of testing, hmmmmm.

The one hour oral test. I would perform oral for an hour in order to prove my love of the taste of a woman

The cum test, how much and how many places would I and could I cum on/in you.

The snuggle test. Holding you at night as you sleep in my arms, keeping you safe and warm in my arms.

The fun sex test. Having sex in anyway you dream of to show you that enjoy a wide variety of things in bed.

The manly show test, I would lay in bed and give you a show while I slowly make myself cum looking in your eyes.

The out and about test. Take you out to dinner and show you how much of a gentleman I can be as I open doors and pull out chairs for you.

The cook you dinner test. Show you how much I love to do things for you by cooking you dinner.

Romantic evening test. Fix you a nice warm bath, then sit beside you in the candle light and gently bath you before taking you to bed and making love to you.

Kissing test. Kissing you softly and gently and slowly moving toward passionate and hard. French, australian, butterfly, more.

Reading test. Read to you your favorite erotic story to see how you like my voice.

The suprise test. Take you by suprise as you walk in the door and show you how excited I get when I see you..


Ok,, will those be enough

Carnus

I don't think we should have to choose. Afer all, scientifically speaking, the more 'testing' sessions you run the more refined the results. So I'm sure I can speak for wicked woman when I say we'd both be willing to do as many sessions as necessary to ensure the accuracy of the results.

All in the name of science, of course....

 

[mrs.jeepman6]

When my wife wants a bad boy, I'm there. When she wants "rough sex" I'm there. When she wants oral, I'm there. When she just wants to cuddle, I'm there. When she has a bad day, I'm there. Through everything life throws her, I'm there. She's my best friend in the whole world. Guys all you have to do is listen and be there. It's actually not that tall an order if you really think about it.

He is always there for me and not always in the sexual way. He's there for me in everything. He's the person I lean on when times are good and I lean on him when times are bad. He's my best friend. Love you babe

 

[wicked woman]

Originally posted by Carnus
Mmm, I do like the thought of two women as lovely as the both of you 'testing' me.

Let me see,, possible ways of testing, hmmmmm.

The one hour oral test. I would perform oral for an hour in order to prove my love of the taste of a woman

The cum test, how much and how many places would I and could I cum on/in you.

The snuggle test. Holding you at night as you sleep in my arms, keeping you safe and warm in my arms.

The fun sex test. Having sex in anyway you dream of to show you that enjoy a wide variety of things in bed.

The manly show test, I would lay in bed and give you a show while I slowly make myself cum looking in your eyes.

The out and about test. Take you out to dinner and show you how much of a gentleman I can be as I open doors and pull out chairs for you.

The cook you dinner test. Show you how much I love to do things for you by cooking you dinner.

Romantic evening test. Fix you a nice warm bath, then sit beside you in the candle light and gently bath you before taking you to bed and making love to you.

Kissing test. Kissing you softly and gently and slowly moving toward passionate and hard. French, australian, butterfly, more.

Reading test. Read to you your favorite erotic story to see how you like my voice.

The suprise test. Take you by suprise as you walk in the door and show you how excited I get when I see you..


Ok,, will those be enough

Carnus

Damn BirdsWife I agreed with you on the 'willing to do as many sessions as necessary to ensure the accuracy of the results' BEFORE I saw the tests...but wowza!!! Look what we got ourselves into!!

Oh baby you get top marks for that list...and just to prove it I'm going to do like Michelle Pfeiffer in Dangerous Minds and start you off with an A........your task is to see if you can keep it. You'll be required to perform these tests of which BirdsWife and I will be willing participants on behalf of our fellow female Litsters. ( BirdsWife get your tongue back in your mouth!) We will determine how many times a test has to be taken before you receive your final grade on that test. You also agree to participate in any other tests that we determine to be necessary.

All we need now is to determine when and where these tests will commence.

 

[Elron]

Women, well when it comes to men and how some men handle it, there are most definitely two and maybe three types of men. I think the best way to tell you what I about it is give you an example.

I am currently in love with a very special women, incredibly in love actually. Anyway we had never met and I had a chance to see her this past weekend so I took it. Now here is the kicker it is exactly a 24 hour drive to where she lives from where I live, no big deal I just hopped in the truck and did it. Left early friday got there saturday, had the most incredible day I have ever had, left early sunday morning and got home just in time monday to go to work. Anyway when I got to work a coworker asked me about the weekend and I told him. You know what his answer was, "that is a long way to go for a peice of ass" I just shook my head and walked off. There are definitely two different types of men. Never did getting a peice of ass cross my mind, my special women asked me to come and see her, and I did. I did it becuase that is how you treat a woman, you give them all you have to give. Always, never give any less than that. You also need to listen real well, touch softly, kiss gently, squeeze just right, and love, and when you love you better not do that half assed either. Put your soul into it. And believe me if you give with all you have to give you will get it all back.

But I definitley hold women in the highest regard and treat them all with nothing but respect and adoration. I think for a man to truly love all things that are womanly he must first understand that he has feelings and emotions also. Unfortunately not a lot of men have ever been tuaght just exactly how to deal with feelings. I consider myself fortunate, for some reason I am very in tune with all my emotions. To much some times, hell I cry one certain songs come on the radio. Enough, I just agree, there are definitely two types of men, and actually three. The third is the one that abuses women. That is the one that should not be allowes on this planet, but I will save that story for another time.

Anyway that's just my two pennies

 

[crazybbwgirl]

...........But I definitley hold women in the highest regard and treat them all with nothing but respect and adoration. I think for a man to truly love all things that are womanly he must first understand that he has feelings and emotions also. Unfortunately not a lot of men have ever been tuaght just exactly how to deal with feelings. I consider myself fortunate, for some reason I am very in tune with all my emotions. To much some times, hell I cry one certain songs come on the radio. Enough, I just agree, there are definitely two types of men, and actually three. The third is the one that abuses women. That is the one that should not be allowes on this planet, but I will save that story for another time.
Anyway that's just my two pennies

I would be willing to group the abusers in with the 2nd type of men. But that might be a bit harsh. Maybe the abusers should have their very own unique group. Scarey thing about the abusers - they are very good at hiding that part of themselves - often until its too late.........

 

[Carnus]

I kow that we hae treated this with a lot of humor, but while I gladly submit to all examinations and testing I wanted to add something.

Our love for another person is not something we can define, test, or measure, but it is something we create within ourselves. It can fill us to overflowing and be revealed to everyone, or we can hide it away inside ourselves to slowly give out to those closest to us, but love is something we create within ourselves that can't be kept there, it has to be shared to truly exist.

I know that we all talk about how we love this or love that, but more important than what we love is who. Love is a nice short word that is so desicriptive, stop reading right now and in your softest voice say it, softly whisper love to yourself and then think of all the feelings it gives you to say it.

Love, what a wonderful word it is.

Carnus