'Milking' a mans cock - is this for real?

[ahooohgah]

Bend over, please, and put your elbows on the table.

Well, this may just have to be something I dream about, the SO being averse to anything anal. But dream I will!

I've had many prostate exams through the years.....didn't particularly enjoy them much.....until I started going to a female doctor. What a difference! Of course it's all in the mind, because the physical sensation is identical either way. Or is it? She does have smaller fingers, and she seemed to linger while she was massaging, and she was softer and gentler about it.

No longer do I dread the yearly physical. But I do wish she'd ask me if I liked it.......

 

[chittylove]

love your avatar!


oh baby, my tools are in top shape! let me know if you wanna see some pictures!

by the way... possibly related to this... today i came while my cock was still soft... and not just came, but squirted out lots of precum, which i rarely ever do, and then some nice hot streams... no, i wasn't playing with my prostate. i guess i'd been stroking for so long - all day - that my prostate did the trick itself.

ty....
mmm....kitty's right....you have a very talented prostate!!
wait, here, let me lick that up for you!!
pics are always welcum

 

[waterkemist]

Who needs practice?

I'll volunteer.

==Waterkemist

 

[Laineforfun]

A BIG Bump for one of my personal favorite threads on Lit.

Laine

 

[Mr.G]

ANOTHER

BUMP ... this technique shouldn't pages back and forgotten ...

 

[Lailarenna]

*Taking LOTS of notes*

 

[Lailarenna]

Out of curiousity, there is a part in the story where the woman begins to gently pinch and tug at the man's prostrate as they try to work him to an orgasm. I'm wondering if any of you guys have had that done and if it's as good as the general method.

 

[Blastasbird]

My fingers are not quite long enough to touch his prostate but he enjoys it just the same

 

[sobesundevil]

is it really that far up there?

Lailarenna -- pinching sounds like it would involve two fingers at the very least... doesn't sound very enjoyable! How many times have you had more than one finger up your ass?

 

[Mr.G]

PRECISELY HTF DOES ONE

"PINCH AND TUG" on a prostate gland?

Gawd! I wish people who have no frigging CLUE what they're talking about wouldnt feel compelled all the time to write something - ANYTHINg - just to get their name in print.

Stupid and erroneous instructions just confuse the hell out of people who are trying to do something new and exciting.

FACT! There are two ways of PINCHING AND TUGGING on a prostae gland. One method involves CARVING two very large holes in your victim's lower intestinal tract. The other possibility is inserting ones whole hand up their butt but at that point the fingers would be way too far UP the rectum to reach back to get to the prostate. It ain't in that far, kiddies... so the only way to do that would be to insert ones ARM up there then bend the elbow so your hand was back down near the anus. The prostate would still be on the other side of the intestinal wall but THEN you could PINCH and TUG to your heaqrts content. Your lover would, at this pint, likely be dead from internal bleeding however.

Come on guys. If you can't tell the diff between a gonad and an eyeball just shut TF up and read some more. Don't type some idiotic crap that's liable to injure or kill somebody.

 

[CasusCoiti]

I wish PEOPLE who HAD no sense of TACT would not feel compelled TO berate people ASKING questions, no MATTER how dumb IT may seem to someONE with AN over-inflated EGO.

 

[Blastasbird]

Just ignore him I did and even I felt his shitty comments were directed at me too, hey who cares as long as me and my bloke have fun then everyone else can go and eat there own shit.

 

[Mr.G]

??

A bit beyond your comprehension, huh?

I'm not knocking the questions - no matter how dumb some of them are.

I'm knocking the dumbass ANSWERS some some people give just to see it in print. A few instructions I've read in here are so profoundly stupid that some newbies, trying their best to please a partner, could actually do severe damage by following the advice. THAT's what bugs me ... Pardon my sarcasm but establishing some posters complete lack of credibility is important when they're giving BAD advice to other people who may not know any better!

blastabrains obviously has NO concept of the technique and proves it every time s/he posts something. ""My fingers are not quite long enough to touch his prostate but he enjoys it just the same"" The prostate is about 2 inches inside the rectum. You'd have to have had your fingers chopped off at the first knuckle not to be able to reach it - as you claim.

I don't get it. You say you can't do this (more likely don't know how and more likely than that is; it'll be a many years until you're old enough to have a relationshp that involves another person) yet feel compelled to post advice... why?

 

[Arden]

Hi folks! Just wondering if anyone has had any new experiences to relate, good or bad.

 

[Lailarenna]

Re: PRECISELY HTF DOES ONE

"PINCH AND TUG" on a prostate gland?

Gawd! I wish people who have no frigging CLUE what they're talking about wouldnt feel compelled all the time to write something - ANYTHINg - just to get their name in print.

Stupid and erroneous instructions just confuse the hell out of people who are trying to do something new and exciting.

FACT! There are two ways of PINCHING AND TUGGING on a prostae gland. One method involves CARVING two very large holes in your victim's lower intestinal tract. The other possibility is inserting ones whole hand up their butt but at that point the fingers would be way too far UP the rectum to reach back to get to the prostate. It ain't in that far, kiddies... so the only way to do that would be to insert ones ARM up there then bend the elbow so your hand was back down near the anus. The prostate would still be on the other side of the intestinal wall but THEN you could PINCH and TUG to your heaqrts content. Your lover would, at this pint, likely be dead from internal bleeding however.

Come on guys. If you can't tell the diff between a gonad and an eyeball just shut TF up and read some more. Don't type some idiotic crap that's liable to injure or kill somebody.

I honestly can't tell if you're pissed at the author for writing the scene or at me for not knowing and asking about it. I thought the whole point of this particular forum was to ask questions.

For the sake of argument, here's the quote from the story itself, which, albeit, is weird enough because the woman is supposedly using her toes - go figure.


"Just as I was beginning to feel the desire to finally cum I felt Joan lift my nuts up between her groping fingers. She then pressed the tips of her toes harder than she had done before against my Squirt button and gently pinched it between them, gripping it firmly with her toes she began to lightly tug and push back and forth on it... She smiled up at me saying, 'I never did this with my toes before. Normally I pinch it between my fingers and tug on the tiny squirt button. I got it between the tips of my toes now.'"

So, excuse me for not having enough experience to know that this is bullshit.

 

[Mr.G]

SORRY

I honestly thought it was obvious that I was NOT knocking the question or the person posing the question. I was blasting what you were referring to and asking about.

I've been in the HOW TO forum for what 2 and half years now? I think I've contributed some good advice (mostly the TRY THIS AND REPORT BACK thread) and I've also learned a lot. One thing that really pisses me off is people writing stuff that they nothing about. The fact that you asked is proof enough that many people simply do not know.

It takes a long time to discover many of the wonderful secrets of our lovers' bodies. Forums like this give old farts like me a chance to impart some of those tricks that we have found work really really well and are able to improve your love lives by many times over. I have over 1000 emails and IMs that have told me how well "the technique" has worked for them and how exciting it was discovering and experimenting with it until it is now a wonderful addition to their lovemaking.

Not once have I ever ridiculed or insulted anybody for asking a question. Some questions in here are obviously coming from virgins. That's fine. What I can not tolerate is virgins wrting ADVICE to people who are marginally more experienced that they are. Sorry guys. I know you like to write stuff and sound all grown up but giving advice or writing stories (like the piece above) is like giving a person with a learner's driving licence advice when you are three years from getting your own learner's permit. The advice is liable to kill them.

In this case it was simply the "tug and pinch" that got me. Now that I've read the section I'm even more pissed. Using her toes on a prostate means sticking her entire foot up your ass. Again, the toes would be too far up the rectum to do any good. The entire piece is a fabrication made up by somebody who doesn't have a clue what they are talking about.

I get pissed that a forum that can be used for so much good and enjoyment is being hijacked by idiots. The dangerous part is that people who do not have the experience to realize they are reading complete bullshit are liable to try some of this stuff. The results, I can guarantee you, would not be enjoyed.

Again, Lailarenna, I apologize for not being clearer.

 

[Lailarenna]

Quite alright, sugar, I've just been having a hellacious day and have already been attacked on this board once, so my defenses were up. Sorry if I seemed oversensitive.

 

[herecomestherain]

Can a concerned observer just say she's glad all that's been cleared up.

One of the big problems with Lit is that folks do take a lot of the fantasy fiction as being the truth and many of the acts described as being possible. Of course if that were the case we'd be bumping into nine and a half inch dicks at every turn with our 38DD's! Stories at Lit are really no different to watching porn although at least when you watching porn you've got the visual representation so in some ways it's easier to understand a move. But most of that is far from the "truth" too...or it's a contrived truth. From watching porn you'd deduce that hardly anyone uses lube for anal sex, we don't know or understand that the startlet's fasted for a two days and done 5 enemas etc ...which is probably just as well because the fantasy would be lost...the fiction did prompt this entire thread, the facts of people's experiences are the really fascinating bits!

Got to go and work on my toe moves folks...

 

[waterkemist]

Nine and a half inch dicks???

Why so short?

Ok everyone, chill out some. We are here to enjoy ourselves right? Well, everyone but the assholes who should shut the fuck up.

Peace.

--Waterkemist

 

[Lailarenna]

Like, peace and some junk.

 

[scmale2000]

Hi folks! Just wondering if anyone has had any new experiences to relate, good or bad.

I read over this post and, being new to the boards, was really excited to relive some of the things my exgf and I played with. She would use fingers or a toy to tickle my prostate and, eventually, it would make me ooze cum from my cock forever (not really "forever" but you get the drift). It would cover her hand and drip down my balls and asscrack. After, it would not take me long to be up for a mindblowing fuck session (sometimes in her ass to return the favor ). Unfortunately, the fighting/bickering that has recently happened in this thread reminds me of the same girl. I miss her kinks though.

 

[april.rain]

Re: ??

Originally posted by Mr.G
blastabrains obviously has NO concept of the technique and proves it every time s/he posts something. ""My fingers are not quite long enough to touch his prostate but he enjoys it just the same"" The prostate is about 2 inches inside the rectum. You'd have to have had your fingers chopped off at the first knuckle not to be able to reach it - as you claim.

I also cannot reach my DH's prostate. But then again, his dr has trouble reaching it, and has told him that it is a bit higher than most and that it is barely palpable (which the dr says is a good thing )

BTW, I measured my index finger, it is 2.5 inches long. According to DH, I am probably bumping the lower margin, but not enough to really do anything for him.

You also need to consider the possibility that not all men are built like Adonis (or my DH ) with tight, firm little butts. (Although, I'm sure you are, Mr. G) A, shall we say, generously-proportioned backside could impair how far inside a partner can reach. How enjoyable is the experience gonna be if he has to spend the whole time "spreading his cheeks" to give his partner better access?

Oh, and although I am a "virgin" to these boards, my actual virginity was lost LONG ago.

 

[y_u_m_m_y]

I tried the whole prostate milking thing just last night, but I don't think I did it right. Don't get me wrong, he came and he said it was good...but he didn't experience all the things mentioned in this thread. There was no "milking" effect. He just enjoyed having my finger in his ass..which was a new experience for both of us, so it's all good. I just wanted to blow his mind w/this new technique, though.

I used my middle finger and rubbed upward, as if to beckon some one to come closer.....what did I do wrong??

Help?

Anyone?

 

[scmale2000]

I tried the whole prostate milking thing just last night, but I don't think I did it right. Don't get me wrong, he came and he said it was good...but he didn't experience all the things mentioned in this thread. There was no "milking" effect. He just enjoyed having my finger in his ass..which was a new experience for both of us, so it's all good. I just wanted to blow his mind w/this new technique, though.

I used my middle finger and rubbed upward, as if to beckon some one to come closer.....what did I do wrong??

Help?

Anyone?

Could you feel the prostate......almost a smooth, mound? He would know when you do it.........It takes a long time........You could try talking to him and get him into it more like my exgf did........."You like me in your ass, don't you?" Things like that. Make it as erotic as possible. I am sure you probably did those things..........I would just try it again and see.

 

[y_u_m_m_y]

Could you feel the prostate......almost a smooth, mound? He would know when you do it.........It takes a long time........You could try talking to him and get him into it more like my exgf did........."You like me in your ass, don't you?" Things like that. Make it as erotic as possible. I am sure you probably did those things..........I would just try it again and see.

He was totally into it and had experimented some on his own, so his comfort level was high, that wasn't the issue at all. But I couldn't feel anything like that mound you were talking about...it all felt the same to me. Maybe I was in too far...I used my middle finger.