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Missing my online friend

subwhore60 said:
I have conversed with my friend for the majority of nearly 9 years & he & his family are going thru some stuff right now (at least that's what he is telling me) & he has somewhat closed the door to our online friendship.

I am having a difficult time with this & really don't have anyone I can discuss this with as I am married & hub wouldn't be very receptive to this conversation. Honestly, in all this time, we have interacted in some fashion nearly daily in all this time, if only to say "HI" & I feel lost. My sex drive has taken a dive in the last month & yes, I blame it on loosing my friend.

My online friend said he would "check in when he can" - it's been 2 weeks since the last email. I try not to check everyday - oh hell I check probably 3 or 4 times a day - not much I can do about it. It's his life & his priority but I miss him terribly.

I have tried to "meet" others & have conversations but it isn't the same. I think I have to "mourn" this loss plus maybe this is the time I'm suppose to let this part of my life be buried.

No need to reply guess I just need an "outlet"....thanks for your time ...
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Maybe his wife found out about you and cut his cock off.
 
it sucks to lose an outlet.

maybe you were a bit too dependant on him though?
try not to replace him with another person to get addicted to.
 
subwhore60 said:
I have conversed with my friend for the majority of nearly 9 years & he & his family are going thru some stuff right now (at least that's what he is telling me) & he has somewhat closed the door to our online friendship.

I am having a difficult time with this & really don't have anyone I can discuss this with as I am married & hub wouldn't be very receptive to this conversation. Honestly, in all this time, we have interacted in some fashion nearly daily in all this time, if only to say "HI" & I feel lost. My sex drive has taken a dive in the last month & yes, I blame it on loosing my friend.

My online friend said he would "check in when he can" - it's been 2 weeks since the last email. I try not to check everyday - oh hell I check probably 3 or 4 times a day - not much I can do about it. It's his life & his priority but I miss him terribly.

I have tried to "meet" others & have conversations but it isn't the same. I think I have to "mourn" this loss plus maybe this is the time I'm suppose to let this part of my life be buried.

No need to reply guess I just need an "outlet"....thanks for your time ...
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Sometime it happens this way. Even the strongest of online friendships are very fragile. It's the kind of thing that fills a need at a certain point in life. Life changes and the need no longer exists, or more likely, other needs are more pressing.
 
Something has changed in his life. Try not to feel that it is anything about you. As someone said here, online friendships are very fragile.
 
subwhore60 said:
I have conversed with my friend for the majority of nearly 9 years & he & his family are going thru some stuff right now (at least that's what he is telling me) & he has somewhat closed the door to our online friendship.

I am having a difficult time with this & really don't have anyone I can discuss this with as I am married & hub wouldn't be very receptive to this conversation. Honestly, in all this time, we have interacted in some fashion nearly daily in all this time, if only to say "HI" & I feel lost. My sex drive has taken a dive in the last month & yes, I blame it on loosing my friend.

My online friend said he would "check in when he can" - it's been 2 weeks since the last email. I try not to check everyday - oh hell I check probably 3 or 4 times a day - not much I can do about it. It's his life & his priority but I miss him terribly.

I have tried to "meet" others & have conversations but it isn't the same. I think I have to "mourn" this loss plus maybe this is the time I'm suppose to let this part of my life be buried.

No need to reply guess I just need an "outlet"....thanks for your time ...
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Dear Laurel:

Could you please take down the We Give a Fvck sign outside the GB door...

...ty.
 
eyer said:
Dear Laurel:

Could you please take down the We Give a Fvck sign outside the GB door...

...ty.
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Ah, another keeper of the sanctity of the General Board? How about a helpful or kind comment for the human being who is the OP instead?
 
Wide_eyed_Indulgence said:
Ah, another keeper of the sanctity of the General Board? How about a helpful or kind comment for the human being who is the OP instead?
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Nah...

...I did my compassionate duty yesterday, stealing Meals on Wheels deliveries to little old ladies and orphans.

You're no doubt more than capable to pinch-hit for Oprah here on the GB...

...good luck with that.
 
Wide_eyed_Indulgence said:
Ah, another keeper of the sanctity of the General Board? How about a helpful or kind comment for the human being who is the OP instead?
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Put it on ignore. Don't waste your time on him. Trust me. In all the years he's been posting, most of it is poison. You won't miss a damn thing.
 
Poor gs...

...wandering through life never having met a d!ck she likes.

:(
 
Rozalin_0123 said:
As you wander through life, never having met somone who likes yours...
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It has been written that imitation is the sincerest form of flattery...

...yet, as you demonstrate, wiffle ball stars always fail.

The "d!ck" I referred to in re: to poor gs is characteristic, not anatomical...

...but you still gotta post what you know not of.

Thank goodness your husband already has a back-up...
 
eyer said:
It has been written that imitation is the sincerest form of flattery...

...yet, as you demonstrate, wiffle ball stars always fail.

The "d!ck" I referred to in re: to poor gs is characteristic, not anatomical...

...but you still gotta post what you know not of.

Thank goodness your husband already has a back-up...
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My statement still stands.

Its okay to be jealous of my husband, I'm sure your hands make a great pair as well...
 
Rozalin_0123 said:
Could someone slow down the small bus for him so he can get back on?
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Figures:

In one thread, you chastise those who you deem aren't open-minded enough to agree and accept your relationship lifestyle...

...now, in this thread, you freely mock us mentally-challenged folk.

Bigot.
 
Time to move on. Go back to school, start cooking fancy meals, get a part time job, go to the bar and suck some 3d cock. You know. Keep going. For whatever reason you no longer worked in his life, and you were just an iggy away. We all are. If you need to be held onto, find someone who can.
 
I feel bad for you. It's never a good idea to get too close to someone online like that.



They can be gone like that. *snap*
 
I'm sorry you are having a difficult time dealing with your missing friend. Even when the probability is low that he will reply to your messages, you still feel like saying hi or wonder how he is doing. I think that's normal reactions when someone goes away and that hurts. I've been there. I know it hurts to hear this but you will find someone that deserves you. Best wishes :)
 
Thank you

thank you to those that expressed their kind words. I'm sorry if some of you felt I was whining.
 
Email

I have heard from my friend (was like nearly month & half) - his reality is still pretty chaotic: work, family, etc.
It was great hearing from him & got me hopeful....but, it is what it is.... :rose:
 
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