Moaner, Screamer, or Quiet?

Oh Im loud, whether with Mr T or flying solo, if you are around, , you will hear me!!:)

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As I could only watch the bottom video, that was incredibly hot! You're beautiful and he really knows what he's doing. Thankyou for sharing!
 
I’ll add that usually the focus in porn seems to be on the noises the woman makes… the sounds men make during sex or masturbation are SO hot. I’ll take an audio clip of a guy grunting/moaning over a dick pic any day, as far as turning me on.
I agree. I can watch a very hot video and when it is time for the guy to cum, if he makes no noise at all or there is no sound, that is a big turn-off for me. This is especially true for BJ and HJ scenes.
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I think when you are having sex and you have to be quiet because of someone next door--like your parents or a very religious couple--it makes it a bigger turn-on and very HOT.

I remember fucking a gf with a couple we knew next door. They were not supposed to know about our physical relationship, they were very religious and would not have approved. I put my hand over her mouth when she started cumming. She held me tight trying not to make a noise. But then I started cumming and I had trouble being quiet. She pushed my hand away and started laughing. After a few seconds, I was able to laugh too. We had a great time laughing about the situation and the people next door. They didn't suspect a thing, just thought we were a funny couple.
ES
 
I love to talk dirty, but that usually happens in the beginning. While seriously fucking, I typically tell her how good it feels or things like that with a groan for the finish.
 
Masturbating is generally quiet moans and heavy breathing. I can be silent if I need to be.
Sex I am loud! Not a screamer but super loud moans. I could probably be quieter if absolutely essential but I do tend to get lost in the moment and let it all out!
I think I turn myself on with my noises. It definitely adds to my enjoyment!
And I agree with the above about hearing a guy moan in pleasure during sex or masturbating - way hotter than a dick pic - such a turn on! 😈
 
I agree. I can watch a very hot video and when it is time for the guy to cum, if he makes no noise at all or there is no sound, that is a big turn-off for me. This is especially true for BJ and HJ scenes.
ES
I agree 100% - how can a guy stay quiet as his orgasm is pulsing through his dick getting a blow job from a woman or man? That wonderful feeling of using someone's mouth for your sexual please intoxicates me. I'm male, and love when a man tenses and let's his sexual ecstasy be heard in groans or dirty talk/
 
Masturbating is generally quiet moans and heavy breathing. I can be silent if I need to be.
Sex I am loud! Not a screamer but super loud moans. I could probably be quieter if absolutely essential but I do tend to get lost in the moment and let it all out!
I think I turn myself on with my noises. It definitely adds to my enjoyment!
And I agree with the above about hearing a guy moan in pleasure during sex or masturbating - way hotter than a dick pic - such a turn on! 😈
I'm wanking myself good thinking about you
 
From looking back at homemade pornos of me and my wife, I guess I'm a moaner with some gasping and growling. I like to be vocal especially when I'm thrusting, and can get really loud when I'm on the brink of orgasm.
 
On the edge and going over it, I'm growling or howling or some kind of deep-throated ecstatic utterance is coming out of me.

I am also inclined to say things at various points during a play session, idk like to describe what I'm seeing or feeling or something. It's simple stuff like "I LOVE being inside you" or "You're so beautiful," or "God, your fucking HOT!" or "That feels amazing," or "I need to fuck you REALLY HARD right now!" These words need to come out of me. Nothing is contrived or given any forethought, it just comes out. These are moments when I am totally saturating myself in my woman's beauty, especially her naked erotic hotness, and I fucking revel in it. Add in the incredible sensations that we are creating and I must say shit. Some people might be incoherent, not me. I say stuff; fuck if I can NOT say it. The tone carries as much of the meaning as the words. You can't act this. When I'm to the point of pounding her, then I'm not talking. I'm communicating only with my body at that point. The good news in all that is no woman who is with me will ever doubt her desirability to me. She's going to hear it and feel it quite forcefully.
 
Women truly run the gamut in this area in my experience, but there is something piercing to me about the authentic sounds of a woman "losing it" in whatever way is her way. I think this is very hard to act, Meg Ryan's famous scene in "When Harry Met Sally" notwithstanding. It's why so much porn sounds fakey - a lot of porn actors are not great actors.

There's a scene in Madmen, I don't remember which season it was, one of the later ones: Draper is having a fling with this beautiful psychologist, and she's his age, a mature woman, a good match for him I thought, more than the other women he tangled with. At the start of the episode, I think it was, you hear her while he's fucking her. It's off camera, so you don't even see them at first, but you can tell, this is a woman, not a girl, and she's fully in the throes of getting off. Mmmmh, that was good acting. It got me.

Of course, natural sounds of ecstatic pleasure are not just during the orgasm itself, but through the whole process of a woman allowing her body to take over, and her becoming abandoned to or lost in the sheer pleasure for a bit. That's why we call it "losing it," it is a temporary abandonment of one's self-control and boundaries, and it is a key "skill" (if you can call it that) on the woman's part for her to be able let it happen. This is a slightly different subject, but women can be internally bound up in ways that hinder their ability to let go, and things like restraints or pretend non-consent can help release those inner bindings. That is, of course, aside from some good chemistry and enough skill on the part of her lover.

As a man, there is something profoundly gratifying to viscerally experience a woman responding naturally to what we're doing and to what I'm doing to her. I know women also often have a similar gratification in experiencing the powerful ways they can unhinge a man. I don't think it is a good idea to promote a "right way" to sound, or to even make it about sounds at all. The whole point of sex is being able to totally be yourself... isn't it? If not sex, then where? (ok, lol, getting way too philosophical!)

I know a lot of women fake it, and maybe, maybe... the average woman is pretty damn good at acting, lol. The fact that so many women are different from each other also makes the fake or not harder to determine. I would hope that women these days are getting to a point of better self-esteem overall that they're less inclined to do that (or that they're partnering more with guys who aren't pressuring them unconsciously to orgasm so they feel like they have to fake it). I would sort of expect women on lit to mainly ditch a guy like that, but...

There are some tell tail signs with some women that aren't sounds. I've had women's pussies practically eject my fingers or a toy. I've seen women's abdominal "ridging" with orgasmic contractions. I've also seen women "squirt," though that definitely isn't every woman, and it's not always at the point of orgasm. Anal contractions? Yes. Having said all that, I don't know that it is as visible with all women. Women vary too much.
 
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