I’ve had two instances recently with the moderator @shadow_storm where my complaints about him to fellow moderators have simply been brushed under the carpet and not investigated.
The first occasion was to do with comments I was making in the jerk to pics room and in particular about a girl who no longer communicated with me but we had not fallen out. This particular girl loved room attention and I and other guys were making positive comments about her body and importantly not just her. Mr storm took objection to this calling me creepy and weird. I simply pointed out I was making hot comments in line with her craving for them. I pointed out that no one considered it weird or creepy and he replied that was due to no one knowing she had stopped communicating. When I told him one guy did @WilliamMunny he immediately called this guy out as being immoral. I told him I did not think that nor did the girl in question who was also friends with him. Mr storm then went onto say that he along with every other guy in the room had little or no principles and would say anything to get what they wanted. When I took time to consider these comments it was clear that he must view me as immoral and untrustworthy given I of course new the girl no longer communicated.
It’s also inappropriate imo for a mod to be making these types of comments against fellow members.
So I decided to take this up with the chat mod room and spoke to @ditzylildoll who refused to even speak to mr storm as I hadn’t taken screenshots of his comments. Waste of time so I left it but I do know people have been spoken to without the back up of screenshots. Rules for mods and rules for the rest??
Also worth mentioning that I spoke to @WilliamMunny for his opinion of my comments and he concurred with me that it was just fun and what the lady in question liked.
She could also have messaged asking to stop and she never.
Today we were having some banter in the same room. Given my previous issues with mr storm I no longer address him in the room. He was playing master to another lady (a lot of doubts as to whether she’s a genuine lady) in the room. This lady made it clear that only mr storm could dictate who seen her pics as did mr storm. When he left the room I jokingly made a comment she could now be free only for mr storm to return seconds later and I simply made an lol comment then an embarrassed emoji. Important to get the context that I was referring to mr storm as her master and not as a mod.
Another guy in to room then made a comment about a new sheriff in the room and got reprimanded. Fair enough maybe but should have been done privately. The guy was just having a laugh.
Next thing I knew he also told be to be careful. I was astonished as I never said anything directly to him nor did I think I had said anything untoward to anyone else. So I asked what the issue was.
This was his response.
Addressing me, hinting and passing cheeky comments about hot wife and who she is with. Please don’t do that.
Well no 1 I did not address mr storm in anyway shape or form. I made one comment in the room calling hot wife Joe (her hubby) as I believe that’s who it is and I had a pm with hot wife on that subject as I like to know I’m not part of some revenge porn situation. Despite a few opportunities Hotwife has failed to convince me and it should be said a few other guys in the room. That’s another concern to me that a mod could possibly be assisting a guy, albeit unwittingly, by sharing revenge porn pics but accept he may know more than me.
Well I simply wasn’t prepared to accept this dressing down and particularly in front of the busy room many of who are friends and were also confused by mr storms actions so I went to the mid office to complain and chatted with @amilinda.
To her credit she immediately visited the room but came back saying I should not be addressing him in that way. I told her I had not addressed him and simply made some fun comments when he left and returned. Again as the master and not as a mod. She then astonishingly accused me of being aggressive. I’m pretty sure I wasn’t and the screenshots will back that up. When I questioned where I’d been aggressive she simply said she was not prepared to discuss it anymore so I left it alone.
So two complaints against a mod and both brushed under the carpet and that’s simply not right. They should be held accountable for their actions just like the rest of us.
Amilinda suggested I take it further with @Quip so by tagging you I would be grateful if you could look into these matters. Firstly the complaints as I find mr storms actions unacceptable as a mod or anyone for that matter and secondly why they were not investigated in any way shape or form.
I have all the screenshots of today’s room chat along with the pms from mr storm and Amilinda.
Thank you.
The first occasion was to do with comments I was making in the jerk to pics room and in particular about a girl who no longer communicated with me but we had not fallen out. This particular girl loved room attention and I and other guys were making positive comments about her body and importantly not just her. Mr storm took objection to this calling me creepy and weird. I simply pointed out I was making hot comments in line with her craving for them. I pointed out that no one considered it weird or creepy and he replied that was due to no one knowing she had stopped communicating. When I told him one guy did @WilliamMunny he immediately called this guy out as being immoral. I told him I did not think that nor did the girl in question who was also friends with him. Mr storm then went onto say that he along with every other guy in the room had little or no principles and would say anything to get what they wanted. When I took time to consider these comments it was clear that he must view me as immoral and untrustworthy given I of course new the girl no longer communicated.
It’s also inappropriate imo for a mod to be making these types of comments against fellow members.
So I decided to take this up with the chat mod room and spoke to @ditzylildoll who refused to even speak to mr storm as I hadn’t taken screenshots of his comments. Waste of time so I left it but I do know people have been spoken to without the back up of screenshots. Rules for mods and rules for the rest??
Also worth mentioning that I spoke to @WilliamMunny for his opinion of my comments and he concurred with me that it was just fun and what the lady in question liked.
She could also have messaged asking to stop and she never.
Today we were having some banter in the same room. Given my previous issues with mr storm I no longer address him in the room. He was playing master to another lady (a lot of doubts as to whether she’s a genuine lady) in the room. This lady made it clear that only mr storm could dictate who seen her pics as did mr storm. When he left the room I jokingly made a comment she could now be free only for mr storm to return seconds later and I simply made an lol comment then an embarrassed emoji. Important to get the context that I was referring to mr storm as her master and not as a mod.
Another guy in to room then made a comment about a new sheriff in the room and got reprimanded. Fair enough maybe but should have been done privately. The guy was just having a laugh.
Next thing I knew he also told be to be careful. I was astonished as I never said anything directly to him nor did I think I had said anything untoward to anyone else. So I asked what the issue was.
This was his response.
Addressing me, hinting and passing cheeky comments about hot wife and who she is with. Please don’t do that.
Well no 1 I did not address mr storm in anyway shape or form. I made one comment in the room calling hot wife Joe (her hubby) as I believe that’s who it is and I had a pm with hot wife on that subject as I like to know I’m not part of some revenge porn situation. Despite a few opportunities Hotwife has failed to convince me and it should be said a few other guys in the room. That’s another concern to me that a mod could possibly be assisting a guy, albeit unwittingly, by sharing revenge porn pics but accept he may know more than me.
Well I simply wasn’t prepared to accept this dressing down and particularly in front of the busy room many of who are friends and were also confused by mr storms actions so I went to the mid office to complain and chatted with @amilinda.
To her credit she immediately visited the room but came back saying I should not be addressing him in that way. I told her I had not addressed him and simply made some fun comments when he left and returned. Again as the master and not as a mod. She then astonishingly accused me of being aggressive. I’m pretty sure I wasn’t and the screenshots will back that up. When I questioned where I’d been aggressive she simply said she was not prepared to discuss it anymore so I left it alone.
So two complaints against a mod and both brushed under the carpet and that’s simply not right. They should be held accountable for their actions just like the rest of us.
Amilinda suggested I take it further with @Quip so by tagging you I would be grateful if you could look into these matters. Firstly the complaints as I find mr storms actions unacceptable as a mod or anyone for that matter and secondly why they were not investigated in any way shape or form.
I have all the screenshots of today’s room chat along with the pms from mr storm and Amilinda.
Thank you.
