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zammius said:
lunar...........i am so proud of you starting to run again.....always a triumph of the will to get going at it......and what a vision it must be to see you running towards me.....wow just the thought....:rose: :kiss: :p :devil:

LOL Don't get too excited...I realized this morning just how out of shape I've gotten :eek:
 
Thought This Was Interesting

The Sanskrit word for the male sexual organ is Lingam (pronounced
LING-AHM, [LING rhymes with sing]) and is loosely translated as "Wand
of Light." Its meaning is different in intention from the typical
Western view of the penis (i.e., Cock, Prick, Dong, Dick, etc., words
that may come from a limited perspective, depending on the intent of
their usage). In Tantra/Sacred Sexuality, the Lingam is respectfully
viewed and honoured, a "Wand of Light" that channels creative energy
and pleasure.

The purpose of the Lingam Massage is to create a space the receiver
to relax, and receive expanded pleasure from his Lingam. His partner
(the giver) experiences the joy of facilitating and witnessing the
man surrendering to his softer, gentler side. The Lingam Massage can
be used as a form of safer sex (when latex gloves are used) and is an
excellent process to build trust and intimacy. It is often used to
help men heal from negative sexual conditioning and trauma.

Orgasm is not the goal of the Lingam massage although it is often a
pleasant and welcome side effect. The goal is to massage the Lingam,
also including testicles, perineum and Sacred Spot (the equivalent to
the female G-spot), and allow the man to surrender to a form of
pleasure he may not be used to. From this perspective both receiver
and giver relax into the massage.

Men need to learn to RELAX and RECEIVE. Traditional sexual
conditioning has the man in a doing and goal oriented mode. The
Lingam Massage allows the man to experience his softer, more
receptive side and experience pleasure from a non-traditional
perspective.

Preparation:
Take a relaxing bath or shower. Take your time and breathe deeply.
Conscious, relaxed breathing will take you out of your mental process
and will get you more into your feelings. Relax your belly and let go
of the tension that most of us hold there.

Go to the bathroom before beginning the massage. The best results
occur when the bowels and bladder are empty.

Let go of your thoughts and connect with your partner through
hugging, holding, eye gazing (looking into each other's eyes for an
extended time), bringing both of you to a place of relaxation and
trust.

Procedure:
Have the receiver lie on his back with pillows under his head so he
can look up at his partner (giver). Place a pillow, covered with a
towel, under his hips. His legs are to be spread apart with the knees
slightly bent (pillows or cushions under the knees will also help)
and his genitals clearly exposed for the massage.

The giver sits cross-legged between the receivers' legs.

Before contacting the body, begin with deep, relaxed breathing.
Gently massage the legs, abdomen, thighs, chest, nipples, etc., to
get the receiver to relax. Remind the receiver to breathe deeply and
to sink deeper into relaxation.

Pour a small quantity of a high-quality oil (or water-based lubricant
when using latex gloves) on the shaft of the Lingam and testicles.
Begin gently massaging the testicles, taking care to not cause pain
in this sensitive area. Massage the scrotum gently, causing it to
relax. Massage the area above the Lingam, on the pubic bone. Massage
the Perineum, the area between the testicles and anus. Take your
time. You are giving a massage to an often neglected area of the body.

CAVEAT - Do not mix oil-based products with latex.

Massage the shaft of the Lingam. Vary the speed and pressure. Gently
squeeze the Lingam at the base with your right hand, pull UP and
slide off and then alternate with your left hand. Take your time
doing this, right, left, right, left, etc. Then, change the direction
by starting the squeeze at the head of the Lingam/ penis and then
sliding DOWN and off. Again, alternate with right and left hands.

Massage the head of the Lingam as if you are using an orange juicer.
Massage all around the head and shaft. In Tantra there are many nerve
endings on the Lingam that correspond to other parts of the body. It
is said many ailments can be cured by receiving a good Lingam Massage.

NOTE: The Lingam may or may not go soft as you perform this
technique. Do not worry if it doesn't get hard again. You will
probably find that it will get hard, then go soft, get hard again,
etc., which is a highly desirable Tantric experience, like riding a
wave, bobbing up and down. Hardness and Softness are two ends of the
pleasure spectrum.

If it appears that the receiver is going to ejaculate, back off,
allowing the Lingam to soften a little before resuming the massage.
Do this several times, coming close to ejaculation, and then backing
off. Remember, the goal is not orgasm in and of itself. Men can learn
the art of ejaculatory mastery and control by coming close to
ejaculation and then backing off on the stimulation. Deep breathing
is key here and will soften the urge to ejaculate. Eventually
ejaculatory mastery will allow you to make love as long as you want
and you can become multi-orgasmic without losing a drop of semen.
Orgasm and ejaculation are two different responses that you can learn
to separate. The result is a very expanded sex life.

Find and massage the male Sacred Spot. There are two ways to do this.

One is by finding the spot midway between the testicles and anus.
There is a small indentation about the size of a pea or maybe larger.
Be gentle and push inward. He will feel the pressure deep inside and
it may be intensely painful at first. Eventually, as this area is
worked on and softened, he will be able to expand his orgasms and
master ejaculatory control. You can massage his Lingam with your
right hand and massage his Sacred Spot with your left hand. Try
pushing in on this spot when he nears ejaculation. It is aptly named
the Million Dollar Point in Taoism.

The other way to access the Sacred Spot is through the anus. Many
men, especially heterosexual men, are uncomfortable at first as a
result of negative sexual conditioning. Be careful here and use
lubrication. The key is to go slow and be very gentle. Make sure he
is breathing as you slip a finger from your left hand into the anus
about an inch or so. Then crook the finger back in a "come here"
gesture. You will feel the prostate gland. Vary the pressure and
speed of massage. He may want stimulation of the Lingam as you
massage the Sacred Spot. Back off on the Lingam as he approaches
orgasm and increase the pressure on the Sacred Spot.

Sometimes the man may have strong emotions come up during access to
the Sacred Spot. He may cry and remember a traumatic event from his
past. You, the giver, are in a place of trust and intimacy. Allow him
to feel his emotions and be very loving, not trying to console or fix
him, just let him feel whatever he needs to. Encourage him to scream,
cry, moan, sob, if it feels appropriate. Be the best friend and
healer he could have in that moment.

Ending the Massage:
If he chooses to let go and ejaculate, encourage him to breathe
deeply during the orgasm. It will blow his mind, especially if he has
come close and held back at least SIX times before ejaculating.
Holding back six times charges up the sexual battery with tremendous
energy. It is then his choice as to where he wants to send this
energy -- out with their ejaculate (the prevailing paradigm) or
inward for other uses (men who master ejaculation are able to channel
this energy into other areas of their being).

When he feels complete with the massage gently remove your hands and
allow him to lie there quietly. You may want to snuggle up together
or you can leave the room and let him drift off into a meditative
state. Allow him to fully experience his childlike innocence and
magnificent male beauty.

Have fun with this technique and share it with your friends and loved
ones.
 
Part Two

YONI MASSAGE
Yoni ( pronounced YO-NEE) is a Sanskrit word for the vagina that is
loosely translated as the "Sacred Space" or "Sacred Temple". Its
meaning and use is an alternative perspective from the Western view
of the female genitalia. The Yoni is seen from a perspective of love
and respect.
The purpose of the Yoni massage is to create a space for the women
(the receiver) to relax and enter a state of high arousal and
experience much pleasure from her Yoni. Her partner ( the giver)
experiences the joy of being of service and witnessing a special
moment. The Yoni Massage can also be as a form of safer sex and is an
excellent activity to build trust and intimacy. Some massage and sex
therapists use it to assist women to break thru sexual blocks or
trauma.
The goal of the Yoni is NOT orgasm. Orgasm is often a pleasant and
welcome side effect. The goal is simply to pleasure and massage the
Yoni/vagina. From this perspective, both receiver and giver can relax
and not have to worry about achieving something. When orgasm does
occur, it is usually more expanded, more intense and more satisfying.
Orgasm is allowed to happen or not happen. It is also helpful for the
giver to not expect anything in return. Just allow the receiver to
enjoy the massage and to relax into herself. Of course, other sexual
activity may follow but it should be entirely the receiver's choice.
PREPARATION
Bathing is always helpful as it relaxes both the receiver and the
giver. A quiet space is desirable with pleasing music, candles,
pillows, etc., or whatever makes the participants relax and feel
safe. Allow yourself enough time and do not hurry the process. Go to
the bathroom before beginning the massage. The best results will
occur when the bowels and bladder are empty. Connect with your
partner by hugging, holding, eye gazing or whatever brings you to a
place of safety and relaxation.
PROCEDURE
Have the receiver lie on her back with pillows under her head so she
can look down at her genitals and up at her partner. Place a pillow
covered by a towel under her hips. Her legs are to be spread apart
with the knees slightly bent and her genitals clearly exposed to the
massage. The giver sits cross legged between the receivers' legs.
Before contacting the body, begin with deep breathing exercises.
Gently massage the legs, thighs and breasts to get the receiver to
relax and for the giver to prepare for touching the Yoni. Pour a
small quantity of oil on the mound of the Yoni. Begin gently
massaging the mound and outer lips of Yoni. Do not rush. Gently
squeeze the outer lip between the thumb and index finger...and slide
up and down the entire length of each lip. Do the same thing to the
inner lips of the Yoni/Vagina. Take your time.
Limit your speaking and focus on the pleasurable sensations. Gently
stroke the clitoris with clockwise and counter - clockwise circles.
Gently squeeze it between thumb and index fingers. Do this as a
massage and not to get the receiver off. The receiver will become
aroused but continue to encourage her to just relax and breathe.
Slowly, insert the middle finger of your right hand into the Yoni.
Very gently explore the inside of the Yoni with this finger. Take
your time, be gentle and feel up, down sideways, vary the depth,
speed and pressure. Remember this is a MASSAGE only.
With your palm facing up and the middle finger inside the Yoni, move
the middle finger in a "come here" gesture towards the palm. You will
contact a spongy area of tissue just under the pubic bone, behind the
clitoris. This is the G spot - the sacred spot. Again, vary pressure,
speed and movement. You can move from side to side, back and forth or
in circles with your middle finger. You can also insert the finger
that's between your middle finger and pinky. Check with your partner
first before sticking two fingers into them. Most women should have
no problem and will enjoy the increased stimualtion from two fingers.
Be gentle. You may use the thumb of the right hand to stimulate the
clitoris. Your left hand meanwhile has been massaging the breasts,
abdomen or clitoris.
The dual stimulation of right and left hands will provide pleasure
for the receiver. Remember the massage is for her pleasure - please
do not touch your own genitals. Many women learn how to become multi
orgasmic with the Yoni massage. Keep massaging until she tells you to
stop. Very slowly remove your hands - then cuddle or holding is
soothing as well.
 
Palleon said:
I think it is you that probably taste like sugar.

Nice to see you sweetie

Hmm...well, the orange/pineapple juice does help along those lines :devil:
 
lunarsubmissive said:
*nods* I thought so, too. Would be a wonderful way to spend a lazy weekend :D

It would be a great way for two people to really connect.
 
*runs in to smack lunar on he.....nah..she would just enjoy it.. ....slows to a walk...gives her a hug...and strolls out*
 
Ok, now that i know how to do the massages, i need to find someone to do them with :D

((((((((lunar)))))))))
 
New

I'm new to your thread and have only seen a few of the pics, but just wanted to compliment you. Very sexy breasts. When I have more time I'll look thru the rest. ;)
 
DevilsChild said:
*runs in to smack lunar on he.....nah..she would just enjoy it.. ....slows to a walk...gives her a hug...and strolls out*

Awww...darn ;) :kiss: Nice new AV, sugar
 
appleapps said:
Ok, now that i know how to do the massages, i need to find someone to do them with :D

((((((((lunar)))))))))

*giggles* You and me both ;)
 
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cubemex said:
I'm new to your thread and have only seen a few of the pics, but just wanted to compliment you. Very sexy breasts. When I have more time I'll look thru the rest. ;)

Thank you for stopping by. I'm glad you enjoyed them. Please, stop by as often as you can...I love visitors :kiss:
 
~Stops in to catch up with Lunar and her latest escapades~

~Reads about last Saturday night....falls to floor....drooling uncontrollably~

Oh my....you are one naughty girl!!!

....And I like it!!!!!

~:kiss:'es her marks and bruises~

To have enjoyed it as much as it sounds like you did well.....that's just the icing on the cake....

Out. :kiss:
 
Outback69 said:
~Stops in to catch up with Lunar and her latest escapades~

~Reads about last Saturday night....falls to floor....drooling uncontrollably~

Oh my....you are one naughty girl!!!

....And I like it!!!!!

~:kiss:'es her marks and bruises~

To have enjoyed it as much as it sounds like you did well.....that's just the icing on the cake....

Out. :kiss:

*smoochies and hugs* Oh, yes....I had an amazingly wonderful time. And am looking forward to the next one ;)

Oh, and I have a present for you :devil: :kiss:
 

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lunarsubmissive said:
*smoochies and hugs* Oh, yes....I had an amazingly wonderful time. And am looking forward to the next one ;)

Oh, and I have a present for you :devil: :kiss:

Too Cool!

Gives a whole new perspective on the objects of my desire....

TY hun....you're too good to me!

Out. :kiss:
 
Outback69 said:
Too Cool!

Gives a whole new perspective on the objects of my desire....

TY hun....you're too good to me!

Out. :kiss:

*smoochies and hugs*
 
BTW...congrats on the Lit award sweetie....one day I will finish reading the other stories ~HUGS~&~KISSES~


Out.
 
Outback69 said:
BTW...congrats on the Lit award sweetie....one day I will finish reading the other stories ~HUGS~&~KISSES~


Out.

Thank you, sweetie :kiss:
 
DevilsChild said:
*looks around...missing lunar*...ah well another time

:kiss:

Just got home a little bit ago. And I'm headed out again before long to go to dinner with my Mom :D Might hit the Viggo movie, Hildago, with my daughter.
 
lunarsubmissive said:
:kiss:

Just got home a little bit ago. And I'm headed out again before long to go to dinner with my Mom :D Might hit the Viggo movie, Hildago, with my daughter.

*grins*..have fun lunar....and I may see that movie myself
 
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