willfulbrat
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Has anyone here been involved in fireplay? What is rubbed on the skin that burns off so quickly? Is it a viable alternative to waxing? 
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bluntforcemama
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Willful! What are you and Sir Galahad planning? A barbeque sexfest? Hmm.... I'll offer to babysit.
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willfulbrat
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Fireplay? That's a new one on me. Maybe small amounts of alcohol? (and I mean SMALL AMOUNTS!!!) I once had a small, fairly painless fire on my arm while playing With a can of Lysol spray and a lighter. Some of the spray dripped onto my arm and burst into blue and yellow flames. It burned out in a couple of seconds, while I stood there frozen, trying to figure out what to do. Is this helpful? I assume absolutely no legal responsibility if some damfool hurts him/herself doing this!!
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What? You didn't believe me when I warned you I was a deviant?
willfulbrat
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Myst said:Willful! What are you and Sir Galahad planning? A barbeque sexfest? Hmm.... I'll offer to babysit.
Babysit? We were hoping you'd come and start the fire.
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willfulbrat, every single person who participates in this type of play, and every website you'll go to for info on this BEFORE you do it will tell you this:
DO NOT ATTEMPT ANY KIND OF FIREPLAY WITHOUT LEARNING IT FROM SOMEONE WHO ALREADY KNOWS HOW TO DO IT.
Fireplay is considered *very* advanced BDSM play. If you don't know someone who already knows how to work with fire and skin safely, then for gods sakes, please do a LOT of reading before you saunter into your playroom casually, isopropyl alcohol and lighter in hand.
Here are some links:
http://www.smartweb.net/~raven/fire.html
http://www.frontiernet.net/~castle/Techniques/FirePlay.html
http://www.ldysondra.com/fireplay.htm
Geeze, girl, if you gotta have fire, try cupping before going into real fireplay, okay? Or do some piercing, or spend some long periods of time in severe bondage or something. Saran wrap bondage, for gods sake. Ever see anyone badly burned?
Go slowly with this one, babes. This one is really dangerous in novice hands, no matter how much you trust your Dom.
~worried about you~
cym
DO NOT ATTEMPT ANY KIND OF FIREPLAY WITHOUT LEARNING IT FROM SOMEONE WHO ALREADY KNOWS HOW TO DO IT.
Fireplay is considered *very* advanced BDSM play. If you don't know someone who already knows how to work with fire and skin safely, then for gods sakes, please do a LOT of reading before you saunter into your playroom casually, isopropyl alcohol and lighter in hand.
Here are some links:
http://www.smartweb.net/~raven/fire.html
http://www.frontiernet.net/~castle/Techniques/FirePlay.html
http://www.ldysondra.com/fireplay.htm
Geeze, girl, if you gotta have fire, try cupping before going into real fireplay, okay? Or do some piercing, or spend some long periods of time in severe bondage or something. Saran wrap bondage, for gods sake. Ever see anyone badly burned?
Go slowly with this one, babes. This one is really dangerous in novice hands, no matter how much you trust your Dom.
~worried about you~
cym
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TonyGam!!!
I don't know, Tony. Do you think it would be safe with you there? You might raise the temperature to dangerous levels!
tony_gam said:
I don't know, Tony. Do you think it would be safe with you there? You might raise the temperature to dangerous levels!
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cymbidia said:
Cym, thank you for your sage advice. I have tried the piercing and found it an almost transcendant experience. I only recently learned of fireplay and find it fascinating. It does seem extremely dangerous... which only makes it that much more attractive! But I will do some research on the subject and procede with caution, if at all.
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...and fireplay is as far removed from waxing as swimming for pleasure is to winning an Olympic Gold medal. In all cases, one does it with one's body, right? In all cases, they're voluntary. However, the similarities end there.
I have never ever heard of anyone, no matter how far out there, EVER doing fireplay to get rid of unsightly and unwanted hair. It's... it's... preposterous to even suggest.
Fireplay is an advanced method of D/s communication, of pushing limits as far as they can be pushed between people who trust each other to an astounding degree. It's dangerous even then because fire is elemental and not inert, like a paddle or a needle. Once the fire is introduced into the scene, it controls you and your Dom. All that stands between you and being terribly burned (and having to take an ugly-explanation trip to the ER) is the methods you've used beforehand to protect you from the fire. If you're not *exceedingly* thorough then you, babes, will get hurt... and not the fun kind of hurt, either.
You need edgy? Look into cupping as an alternative, a way to move more slowly into fireplay. Maybe give some thought to knifeplay, instead... a little scarification perhaps. I've seen some pretty designs done with knives, babes. You've done some piercing; good. I love it too. Do more. Do it unbounded, multiple piercings, just you and him and your obedience to him keeping you still. (Did you read my "Pierced"? See the pics?)
This whole fireplay business is making me very anxious for you.
I have never ever heard of anyone, no matter how far out there, EVER doing fireplay to get rid of unsightly and unwanted hair. It's... it's... preposterous to even suggest.
Fireplay is an advanced method of D/s communication, of pushing limits as far as they can be pushed between people who trust each other to an astounding degree. It's dangerous even then because fire is elemental and not inert, like a paddle or a needle. Once the fire is introduced into the scene, it controls you and your Dom. All that stands between you and being terribly burned (and having to take an ugly-explanation trip to the ER) is the methods you've used beforehand to protect you from the fire. If you're not *exceedingly* thorough then you, babes, will get hurt... and not the fun kind of hurt, either.
You need edgy? Look into cupping as an alternative, a way to move more slowly into fireplay. Maybe give some thought to knifeplay, instead... a little scarification perhaps. I've seen some pretty designs done with knives, babes. You've done some piercing; good. I love it too. Do more. Do it unbounded, multiple piercings, just you and him and your obedience to him keeping you still. (Did you read my "Pierced"? See the pics?)
This whole fireplay business is making me very anxious for you.
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cymbidia
Originally posted by cymbidia
...I have never ever heard of anyone, no matter how far out there, EVER doing fireplay to get rid of unsightly and unwanted hair. It's... it's... preposterous to even suggest.
I was only kidding about the hair removal thing. My attempts at humor often are missed if I forget to add an emoticon.
D/s is new to me, as far as real-life experience goes. Some fantasies lose appeal quickly when they become reality, and playing with fire may be one of those things.
This whole fireplay business is making me very anxious for you.
*hugs cym tight* Don't worry, cym. I rely on Sir G's sense of caution, which is much better than my own.
Originally posted by cymbidia
...I have never ever heard of anyone, no matter how far out there, EVER doing fireplay to get rid of unsightly and unwanted hair. It's... it's... preposterous to even suggest.
I was only kidding about the hair removal thing. My attempts at humor often are missed if I forget to add an emoticon.
D/s is new to me, as far as real-life experience goes. Some fantasies lose appeal quickly when they become reality, and playing with fire may be one of those things.
This whole fireplay business is making me very anxious for you.
*hugs cym tight* Don't worry, cym. I rely on Sir G's sense of caution, which is much better than my own.
