My girlfriend's on her period....But I won't let that stop me!

First time I ever had sex with my ex was when I was on my period. We did it in the shower and then on the bed. The menstral fluids were a nice lubrication... though we did have to wash the sheets right away. :D

Those Insteads seem interesting though if you have time to get one. Let us know how it works out.

Oh, and welcome to Lit. :) I'm new to the boards as well but have been reading the stories for a while.
 
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whatsinanameuk said:
Your PM box is full !!:rose:

Why thank you for letting me know ; )
I will empty it immediately.
 
Back when I used to have to worry about menstruation, I used my diaphragm. It worked better than the Insteads did. The Insteads were a great concept, but one size did not fit all, and when I tried them they leaked.
 
I guess, I have been fortunate. The women I have been with over my adult life,anyway have always consented to sex while they were on their period. It's a little messier sometimes, but if she feels good with it, I go for it.
 
I am always very horney during my period! The past year I've had a problem with a CONSTANT period! Or like 2 days every week! Or every time I had sex I would flow. Yikes! I'm 42. Talked to my gyno and he performed a uterine ublation (I know I am misspelling this - sorry!) They knocked me out cuz I also needed a D&C and had to have some fibroid tumors removed, but otherwise I think they can do this using just a local. They insert a small 'balloon' into the uterus, fill it with very warm liquid, and actually 'singe' the inside of the uterus lining. This prevents that monthly blood build up. And afterward you're reduced to maybe a 1 day - very light period. Only to be used on women no longer wanting children. Very dangerous if you should get pregnant after this proceedure. Its only been a week so I don't know the outcome yet - but its gotta be better than before!
 
Well, crazybbwgirl, it sounds to me like you are entering perimenopause. I had that happen to me a few years back and the gyno took me right off the pill and put me onto HRTs. Soon after that my period came to an abrupt end, and I haven't missed it one little bit. There is something very liberating about not ever having to wonder if you're pregnant anymore.
 
Sounds good to me - I am not using this equipment for child bearing any more! lol The hot flashes are not alot of fun though! whew! I'll be wearing tank tops and shorts to the office here pretty soon.....
 
My female fuckbuddy and I did it when she was on her period once. We didnt get a chance to see each other very often, so we had no choice. She wouldnt let me go down on her but the fucking was great. There was some blood, but it was probably the most intense fuck session we ever had. She was probably alot like SexySparkles, who said she was horny constantly while on her period.
However, my wife cuts me off while as she puts it "Aunt Flo is paying a visit." My sessions with my fuck buddy was 15 years ago, but I still remember how great it was to fuck her.
 
A couple of things:

Thanks guys, I have never heard of this instead thing. Where have I been? Oh yea, I was getting the depo shot, and it stopped my flow, but it also made me gain weight, so I went off it and then I got pregnant (lol) got a beautiful baby out of the deal, and I weigh less now than I have in years. (lucky me)

So anyway, from what I remember, I would always get really horny whenever I got my period. But I would usualy use it as a good time to be a major tease. :) Some guys don't mind, some do, and some really like it. Now that my flow has come back, I feel nautious and crampy for two days, I don't even think I'd want to be touched. But after that I'm good to go.

Sex in the shower can be fun- but tricky. Depends on the people and the shower. Hight direrences and a too small shower can put quite a damper on things. Also, make sure you have some kind of traction mat. I think I heard somewhere that bathtubs are the number 1 place for accidents to happen in the home.

Some people's flow stays stopped for quite a while after a shower or bath. Its likely to come back pretty heavy after or during sex though, so definaly protect your furniture.

If you want to try something really kinky, buy an extra shower curtain, put it on the floor (bedroom or living room) and oil it down a little. Never tried this, but it sure sounds fun. Then take a shower together, and go at it. With all those liquids flowing, who's gonna notice a little extra.

ps. my menstral blood had never been gritty that I know of. Maybe someone should see an ob/gyn.
 
The hot flashes are not alot of fun though! whew! I'll be wearing tank tops and shorts to the office here pretty soon.....

Do you have a medical/genetic history that precludes HRTs? I know some people do, if they have breast cancer in the family or something. Absent that, I totally recommend HRTs, I don't care what that study says that came out saying they're not good for you. They have made all the difference in the world. Not just for the hot flashes, but thinning of tissue--it's possible to get where you can't even wipe without sustaining a little tear, and that gets damned old damned quick. The only time I have ever had a hot flash, (except the ones brought on by total embarrassment) was when I went up to Philly on business one weekend and forgot my meds--I had a little bit of a hot flash while I was waiting to get off the plane, once I'd landed back home. Ask your doctor about them.
 
Hi Tony - thanks for the input....... What are HRT's I've never heard of them. I only started the hot flashes when I got the luprone prior to the D&C. I've never had them before. But I thought they'd go away by now. Its the only symptom I'm having right now. I go see my gyno Thurs. I'll ask him about the HRT's. Hopefully this is gonna go away soon (GOd I hope - I tend to run warm blooded anyway!)
 
Ok, I'm not familiar with luprone; what's that? Probably some kind of HRT--it ends in "-one," which is a sign. HRT=Hormone Replacement Therapy. I am on three separate meds: Estrogen, Progesterone which you have to take along with the estrogen if you still have your uterus, and Estratest, which is testosterone. The doctor started me with the first two, upped the estrogen when I started to have problems with the thinning tissue and dryness, and added the Estratest when I started having problems with reduced libido. After that I started feeling like Me again. My present level of meds is working very well.
 
Thanks for the info Tony. Luprone - its a hormone - I think its to push you into menapause and it clears out your uterine lining. My children call it mental pause and say I'v been going thru it for years! damn kids! lol I'll ask my doc. about the HRT.
 
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