My Sister Called

[SensualCealy]

Neon, as always I wish you weren't going though all your health issues and now with this on top of it all I can offer you is a hug and an ear when you need to vent.

My thoughts on the matter are:
Call her back but alot yourself a said amount of time, if she can't voice what it is she is calling about in that time you can always say you have to hang up- you make up the excuse.

If she is calling to find out what the situation is all about, explain it, but there is no need to go into details, thats what your lawyer is for. Point blank tell her it is required by law for you do act on this issue so that if your situation turns for the worse your family is protected.

The thing is to not make it personal, she will of course, if she starts simply tell her you will have the solicitor call to explain the situation.

As many have said, you cant choose your family- I only wish we could, but you can choose a family that supports and respects you, keep those people close and not worry about the others reactions towards this issue.

C

 

[neonlyte]

Thanks Peeps.

I'm not sure there is right or wrong way to tackle this situation. It's to each persons conscience to make the choice. Curiously, I think I'm a better person for understanding the consequences of the decision I took thirty odd years ago. It shaped the way I relate to people, and I believe it made me considerate rather than a harsh judge of people. If I am resentful, it is in the manner of a chance event that returned to disturb the tranquility of my family. I could have said nothing to them, deleted the message, left it unheard. They'd have seen through that, they're women

We have a very close friend, a psycho-therapist. Last summer she offered to place me with a colleague, I think that is an avenue worth exploring.

Thanks again.

 

[Emerald_Dragon]

I hope that it all comes out good for you whatever you decide to do. Keeping yourself balenced and healthy sounds like it needs to be a priority. Personally I vote for having someone else return the call so you can have a buffer if it gets bad. That way you will know one way or another and not have to wonder.

Hopefull thoughts for you.