My wife's lesbian experience

[scotgray]

If we did not post our comments to this "story" then it would achieve exactly it's goal and more men would read one more piece of “evidence” that really such things do happen, that we (lesbians) do act in such a manner, and feminine sexuality is so.

No, I do not feel that this story will change someone's thinking so much, but you do know the story about the straw that broke the camel's back. The more such is spoken, the more it tends to be accepted as fact.

This forum is for gays, lesbians, bisexuals, and trangenders to chat, discuss, and support each other. Heterosexuals will of course always be welcome IF they respect and actually have something to say.

If this forum is though to be a place for us, it cannot be a place for heterosexual testosterone fantasies about hot bisexual/lesbian nymphomaniacs who want it any time, any where, any who!

Feminine sexuality is feminine sexuality. Our morals do not change just because we are queer. We do not become wannabe males just because we desire other females.

A.) The whole affair of this story is “predatory” and so not feminine sexuality. Predatory sexual behavior is just so male! It is an abnormal psychological behavior most commonly found amongst males! It derives from abnormally learned aggressive/ passive aggressive behavior and learned false masculine image models amongst males. In other words… pasted on from father to son.

B.) His wife acted totally passive submissive towards the sexually aggressive behavior towards her. She was never asked or even her own feelings give considerations. She had nothing to say in the matter. Is this how men should think of us? That we are receptacles for whatever, whenever sexual attention is given us? That we should gladly and positively respond whenever whoever wants sex from us?

So, no matter when, where or how prejudice and bigotry raise their heads, if you want to combat them successfully, you cannot hide yours in sand and hope for such threads as these to disappear, you have to reveal them for what they are so people see the difference between fact and ridiculous fantasy.

I agree that the story was posted inappropriately. The author, perhaps unwittingly, was clearly not sensitive to GBLT issues. However, I find nici's comments to be generalizing and perhaps, to a degree, parochial. It is possible that not all males conform to your purported imagery of masculinity. It is also possible that people of either genders can be sluts. I don't find this to be a negative. I don't buy the adage, "Boys will be boys but women are whores" as it applies to sexual adventures. Humans are basically sexual animals. Our behavior is, largely, collectively structured as per religious devices, cultural mores, and environmental controls. The lucky few individuals who ignore these are rewarded with rich experiences.

While the wife was represented to be submissive, we don't know if she was sending subtle signals that she enjoyed the masseuse's touch more than what would be appropriate. We don't know if the 'lesbian' felt that her advances were acceptable because the husband was sitting in a corner with an erection. In fact, we don't know much. I do know that the author can't write very well and this is beyond the mechanics. Perhaps his poor communication skills neglected to mention these pertinent details. Perhaps he thought that this thread was a GBLT fantasy one. As Etoile has stated, the beauty of Literotica is its 1st Amendment opportunities.

Lastly, predatory sexual behavior is not definitively male in nature. I could be wrong but I am pretty sure that the bulk of anthropological professorship at Harvard is not.

Have a great day!

 

[Etoile]

I don't know who's predatory or a slut or whatever. What I do know is that the original post of this thread was tending toward the offensive. Some of us called it on that, and others said "what's the big fuss?"

With apologies to the Washington Post: "If you don't get it, you don't get it." Just because one person doesn't see a problem doesn't mean it isn't there.

 

[nici]

Lastly, predatory sexual behavior is not definitively male in nature. I could be wrong but I am pretty sure that the bulk of anthropological professorship at Harvard is not.

Have a great day!

Anthropological Professorship at Harvard? (snort) Harvard is a great law school isn't it?

Predatory sexual behavior is a psychological deviation and yes, the vast majority of sexual predatory behavior is typically a male domain. Yes, there are female sexual preditors... 1 out of 10,000 or so... just ask any criminal psychologist.

Though this story describes deviations and not disorders, I'll still stick by my statement that this story was written with a predatorial theme.