Name calling...and sex

[nasty]

I was watching "Sex In The City," and a man called his gf a "whore" well having an orgasm. How many woman think it's ok to be called a "slut" or "whore," or whatever well having sex? Is it that the guy was just in the moment, or should he NEVER call you names?

 

[Mistress]

NEVER call me a slut,whore, or cunt during sex.

 

[sigh]

nope...not interested in being a lover's mouth toilet...so sorry...just not my thing

if you need something for your mouth to do during sex, i have a much better idea...

 

[Guest]

How many woman think it's ok to be called a "slut" or "whore," or whatever well having sex?

I LOVE it!!! And, my Boyfriend knows exactly which buttons to push and which names to use when to really, really get me off!

 

[SexyChele]

Yes, I get off on it during sex - big time. Outside of sex, though, no go.

 

[cymbidia]

Just another opinion...

Ummm... well... gee... in my life, there's a sometimes place for curt, rough, nasty talk during sex play just like there's sometimes a place for almost brutally rough sex, flowers and candlelight and tender lovemaking, and often wildly rambling intellectual discussions that have nothing at all to do with sex.

The kind of rough, crude talk that's not "normally" a part of love whisperings or erotic murmurings is as welcome among people who find it arousing as it is forbidden by those who don't like it.

 

[GuyJD]

I was watching "Sex In The City," and a man called his gf a "whore" well having an orgasm. How many woman think it's ok to be called a "slut" or "whore," or whatever well having sex? Is it that the guy was just in the moment, or should he NEVER call you names?

Do you mean "while having sex"?
I would never call a woman any of these words during or beyond having sex.
Such words, I only chose to use as an adjective but never a noun.

 

[lilminx]

When I want rough, nasty sex (which is most of the time), I love it. There are times, however, when it's inapporpriate in the bedroom. It's unacceptable for any guy to call me those things outside of the bedroom.

 

[MissTaken]

Some names are okay.....

I like dirty talk during sex at times. It depends on whether we are in a playful, "Let's get rambunctious" interlude or a sweet, romantic episode.

Some names are great! Slut and whore are good especially when preceded by "My".

This summer, my partner called me a "fucking bitch" while I was giving him head and it completely wilted me. "Fucking bitch" is in no way erotic to me and has no erotic meaning. Hmm so he won't do that again!

As with many of the other posters, none of these names are acceptable outside of the bedroom.

 

[nasty]

I agree. I would NEVER call a woman names outside of the bed, but I LOVE dirty talk. When I watch porn, and all they say is "OH" and "AH," that is SUCH a turn off.