Naughty Or Nasty

[dukecitysal]

I have this woman whom I am intimately close to. I have been training her in the art of pleasuring me and she has taken to the training very well. She is very obedient and does everything that I tell her to do. For the last few nights I have been doing her anally and just prior to cumming or sometimes after cumming I withdraw my penis from her ass and place it in her mouth for her to lick and suck it clean. I never discussed this with her I just did it. Now I have gotten to the point where I enjoy shoving my dirty cock in her mouth and watching her lick and suck me clean. Any thoughts from the forum?

 

[Eilan]

It's not something that I'd allow anyone to do to me, but I'm not gonna judge your kink.

 

[Halo_n_horns]

If she doesn't have a problem with it, then I don't have a problem with her doing it.

 

[Hisbabydoll26]

I have this woman whom I am intimately close to. I have been training her in the art of pleasuring me and she has taken to the training very well. She is very obedient and does everything that I tell her to do. For the last few nights I have been doing her anally and just prior to cumming or sometimes after cumming I withdraw my penis from her ass and place it in her mouth for her to lick and suck it clean. I never discussed this with her I just did it. Now I have gotten to the point where I enjoy shoving my dirty cock in her mouth and watching her lick and suck me clean. Any thoughts from the forum?

*In walks the reality angel* Although this could have some fun written all over it, you could have some bacteria all over you. Okay so it's not fun to talk about, and I'm sure everyone is "clean" although you saying this is "dirty" but lets be real here. If there is something, perhaps not even visible, do you really want her to get sick? I'm all about getting your freak on but I think you should be at least a little cautious here. Have you researched this so you know the health risks?? I think it goes beyond knowing your partner is clean from a recent shower or other preparations for this type of play.

I love anal as much as the next guy, okay more like the next horny woman but I know to be careful. Good luck/lick and have fun.

 

[silverwhisper]

let's just say it isn't something i would do. there's a potential health issue. my question to you though is would you want to kiss her afterwards, or have i misunderstood the nature of your relationship?

ed

 

[Kinksville]

Not something I'd want to do

My understanding is that while rimming is relatively safe, especially if you shower before-hand and use a soapy finger to go up inside a little, ATM is less safe.

You generally don't have much fecal matter in there until just before you have to go to the bathroom, but it's still something that I wouldn't be comfortable doing.

 

[wicked woman]

Well my take is quite different from the other replies.

I think you should stop immediately and desist until you discuss this with her and she gives her educated consent. My understanding is that this is an extremely unsafe sex practice. In her eagerness to be trained and to show that she can please you, even be obedient, she may either not know that she is risking her health or not have given it sufficient consideration. You need to ensure neither of these are the case.

Assuming you're a person who cares about her well being, it's incumbent on you to take her well being into account. Even if you're a Dom or in a Dom-like position, it's wise to discuss upfront what acts/behaviours are acceptable to her, which ones are off limit, and which ones are a maybe. Even as a submissive, a person has the right to state what, if anything, they will not submit to. 'Blind' obedience should not be assumed without having this discussion. So talk to her, do your research to determine the risks for yourselves, and then have her give her educated consent.

 

[Eilan]

Anyone else check out this guy's other posts?

 

[Hisbabydoll26]

Anyone else check out this guy's other posts?

uh oh....not sure I should

 

[Mary Hall]

What a nice guy he is

 

[Kinksville]

Very good point!

Well my take is quite different from the other replies.

I think you should stop immediately and desist until you discuss this with her and she gives her educated consent. My understanding is that this is an extremely unsafe sex practice. In her eagerness to be trained and to show that she can please you, even be obedient, she may either not know that she is risking her health or not have given it sufficient consideration. You need to ensure neither of these are the case.

Assuming you're a person who cares about her well being, it's incumbent on you to take her well being into account. Even if you're a Dom or in a Dom-like position, it's wise to discuss upfront what acts/behaviours are acceptable to her, which ones are off limit, and which ones are a maybe. Even as a submissive, a person has the right to state what, if anything, they will not submit to. 'Blind' obedience should not be assumed without having this discussion. So talk to her, do your research to determine the risks for yourselves, and then have her give her educated consent.

I hadn't thought about that aspect of it, but yeah it's certainly possible that she has no idea of what risks are involved.

 

[KarenDee]

Anyone else check out this guy's other posts?

Yes Eilan, I did. Sounds to me like he has a great imagination. Perhaps he ought to go into story writing.

 

[Dazz Hetfield]

First of all, the bacteris issue as mentioned earlier comes to mind.

Second, trained her to pleasure you? I'm a guy and I find that odd, I'd rather get pleasure from my loved one when she wants to do that and I'd spend more time pleasuring her instead of "training" her, that just seems dumb to me.

Meh, if you wanna do this then up to you but it just seems strange to expect a woman to please a man whenever he likes, training her to do so and then doing this ass to mouth after anal without cleaning up first.

 

[Mary Hall]

I withdraw my penis from her ass and place it in her mouth for her to lick and suck it clean

Ever heard of germs and bacteria?

 

[averageblonde]

There was a thing on 20/20 two weeks ago about people who go to the bathroom and dont wash their hands and then go on with their daily lives, and they compared it to sticking a finger in your rectum and not washing it. The report was pretty disturbing about the amount of bacteria and all of that. I think that this is just a sanitary issue here.

 

[mikeofokc]

Naughty or Nasty

Well the health concerns are obvious. It may be a turnon to be naughty and nasty but the reality of such an event is a bit stinky and gross.

Naughty and Nasty are thoughts or feelings that we have in our heads. We can enjoy those naughty thoughts and nasty ideas without actually having to do them. When we read an erotic story, each of us forms a mental vision about the events of the story. Our visions are probably all different too but the key thing is that we each form that vision based upon what works best for us. We all have heard that fantasy is very often better than reality and that is because our fantasies are visions formed in our heads and can work for us without the distraction of reality.

Instead of sharing some extreme form of reality such as ass to mouth, why not share your imaginations of the same event or whatever naughty nasty ideas you wish to explore. You get the turnon of the idea without the distraction or consequences of the reality.

Remember that great sex happens because of what is between our ears and not our legs. If an erotic story can turn you on than so can a shared vision, in fact the shared vision is better than the single persons vision. Naughty and nasty can be great fun if you just use your head and do it right.

 

[londonaberdeen]

How To

It doesn't matter how many times I read this post I still can't find a HOW TO question.

 

[Mary Hall]

The post should be moved to the GB or Playground

 

[Sybarist]

just prior to cumming or sometimes after cumming I withdraw my penis from her ass and place it in her mouth for her to lick and suck it clean.

Sounds like the last hundred or so "rough sex" pornos they stock on the shelves... At least in the movies, they are extremely clean and usually douche for days so the closeups will be clean.. LOL!

I'm all for kinks and everything, and if it floats her boat that you do this then fine, but this practice just makes me feel ill.

 

[Mary Hall]

I have an idea, lick YOU`RE own penis after giving her anal

 

[TBKahuna123]

It's not something that I'd allow anyone to do to me, but I'm not gonna judge your kink.

I will. Dude, you're fucked up, seriously. If I were you I'd seek mental health immediadely, because you've got some serious issues. Here's a woman nice enough to let you fuckher in the ass, but that's not enough, no you have to stick it in her mouth too. I don't think there's any discussion needed here, I just think until you let her plow your ass with a strap on and lick the fucker clean, perhaps you ought to just stick to using a moist towelette.

I started a thread aobut this a few weeks ago. I just don't fucking get it. I mean, sure if that's your thing, I guess do it, but this one is just fucked up. Especially if you're just surprising her. If I thought for a minute this was a real post, I might actually be pissed.

 

[Eilan]

I will. Dude, you're fucked up, seriously. If I were you I'd seek mental health immediadely, because you've got some serious issues. Here's a woman nice enough to let you fuckher in the ass, but that's not enough, no you have to stick it in her mouth too. I don't think there's any discussion needed here, I just think until you let her plow your ass with a strap on and lick the fucker clean, perhaps you ought to just stick to using a moist towelette.

I started a thread aobut this a few weeks ago. I just don't fucking get it. I mean, sure if that's your thing, I guess do it, but this one is just fucked up. Especially if you're just surprising her. If I thought for a minute this was a real post, I might actually be pissed.

And here I was trying to be nice and everything.

 

[The Gimp]

Naughty Or Nasty

Both. If she's willing to do whatever it takes to make you happy and ATM floats your boat then what's the problem? More power to you

 

[His_pita]

Ewwww! Stop doing that right now and go wash your cock off.