Need a Gift Idea... Quick!

[tracy_smith]

I need an idea and I know one of you out there will have a good one! I've been seeing a man who's married (yes, yes, yes, I know... please overlook that small detial and give me some Good advice!) and it's his birthday. We're getting together tonite and I want to give him something memorable. It doesn't need to be expensive... just thoughtful.. and for the life of me I can't come up with anything. Everything that I can think of is something that isn't very discreet.

I'll appreciate ANY ideas!

 

[Vinny]

Dinner

A nice dinner would satisfy me if I was him

 

[The Squid King]

A watch to signify your time together. Men always buy watches. I own like twelve.

 

[tracy_smith]

Thanks

You guys are good... and very quick! I've already got dinner covered... and an evening together... I like the watch idea...

Thanks again!

 

[Guest]

I'd love to give you some ideas, but I guess I just can't get past the idea that I'd be contributing towards the misery of this guy's wife. I don't know what their situation is, but I'd say you're on your own with this thing.

 

[Guest]

For once, I have to agree with the unregi.

 

[nike]

yikes

For once, I have to agree with the unregi.

Not to attack or anything but I agree with both ChilledVodka and the unregi. Fidelity is more important to me than anything. I could probably forgive an attempt on my life before I could forgive my SO for cheating on me. Not that either are forgivable....

 

[tracy_smith]

Thanks for the input... I guess I didn't realize until your post Unregistered (whoever you are) that his wife was miserable! What a small world that you would know her!!

As for the gift...I went with dinner and a card and me... it was exquisite.

 

[Bindii]

Thanks for the input... I guess I didn't realize until your post Unregistered (whoever you are) that his wife was miserable! What a small world that you would know her!!

I have been in your shoes before, as a mistress to a married man and honestly I figured it was ok...until I married and then the shoe was on the other foot.

One day you too could be the miserable wife....what a small world that would be!

I'm not condoning what you do (people in glass houses shouldn't throw stones) but if you expect other people to accept your morals then you should also be prepared to accept other peoples opinions.

 

[tracy_smith]

Bindii...

First of all I don't know why you would assume that I expect other people to accept my morals... I didn't say that, nor did I imply it. I don't expect anyone to accept my morals and furthermore why would you assume that I'm not prepared to accept other people's opinions? I'm confused at how you arrived (or jumped to) these conclusions.

Second, I am married, and the shoe has been on the other foot and I don't think that implies in any way that this is a small world that we live in.

I had a very simple question, and I did get two very good responses to that question, and I thank you both. As for discussing the morality of my situation... it seems that many of you really want to do so and I have no qualms with that, but I think it would be better suited for another thread.

 

[floridaguy64]

Re: Bindii...

First of all I don't know why you would assume that I expect other people to accept my morals... I didn't say that, nor did I imply it. I don't expect anyone to accept my morals and furthermore why would you assume that I'm not prepared to accept other people's opinions? I'm confused at how you arrived (or jumped to) these conclusions.

Second, I am married, and the shoe has been on the other foot and I don't think that implies in any way that this is a small world that we live in.

I had a very simple question, and I did get two very good responses to that question, and I thank you both. As for discussing the morality of my situation... it seems that many of you really want to do so and I have no qualms with that, but I think it would be better suited for another thread.

Well, I too have been on the other foot................ BUT......... your idea of dinner, a card, and you .......... seemed perfectly suitable to me.

Best of luck in your endeavor.

 

[tracy_smith]

Thanks FloridaGuy!

 

[lilminx]

I don't understand why people are getting on this woman's back. Members on this board have posted before about extramarital affairs that they have had, or are having, and not an eyelash was batted. She wasn't asking for your opinion or your judgement; she was asking for gift ideas.

None of you know the situation that she is in, nor the circumstances between this man and his wife. If you didn't want to give her gift ideas because you don't want to condone her relationship with this man, then why not just ignore the thread?

Me posting this does not mean that I am in favor of extramarital affairs; I'm simply stating that people who don't know the situation really shouldn't be judging.

 

[floridaguy64]

Anytime..........

Thanks FloridaGuy!

Your Welcome.

Just be mindfull............. you two just might end up with eachother on a permanent basis.................. anyways, have fun!