Need Help With Sexual Mechanics

[tenchikoi]

A little background. I'm 5'8" on the really fluffy side. My boyfriend is 5'3" and a little fluffy. We recently began being intimate. But the only positions that seem to mesh up correctly enough to work are missionary or my legs over his shoulders. Nothing else seems to work out quite right. Oh, I suppose it would matter to mention that he is slightly undersized in the penis department, not that I care. But for the purposes of our carnal adventures I think I need to mention it. Are there any other positions or tricks we can use to make our sexy times more enjoyable?

 

[Mr.G]

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Like .. what does "fluffy" mean exactly? Are you both obese or hairy? How old are you? Have you had previous sexual relations?

There are tons of positions and kinkiness that enhance other aspects of sex when one or two positions may lack the intensity you seek or expect.

 

[tenchikoi]

Like .. what does "fluffy" mean exactly? Are you both obese or hairy? How old are you? Have you had previous sexual relations?

There are tons of positions and kinkiness that enhance other aspects of sex when one or two positions may lack the intensity you seek or expect.

When I say 'fluffy' I mean over weight. It's just our term for it. I'm 35 and he's 36. I've had quite a bit of experience. Him not so much.

 

[SweetErika]

Can you be on top?

How about modified doggy style with pillows propping your hips up to the correct height for his stature?

You on your back on the edge of the bed, with him standing at the side of it?

Anal sex to take advantage of his smaller cock?

Playing with positions during oral sex, so there's variety in some area?

 

[PhilGarlic]

dwarf

Google dwarf sex, I'm sure you will find all you need there.

 

[bailadora]

Google dwarf sex, I'm sure you will find all you need there.

Oooh, a candidate for Mr. Sensitivity! Not.

 

[PhilGarlic]

I'm

Oooh, a candidate for Mr. Sensitivity! Not.

I'm sure she has a sense of humor, and she has certainly heard it all before.

but to add to the advice, on your back, legs over his shoulders offers good penetration, even if you are a bit fluffy!

 

[bailadora]

I'm sure she has a sense of humor, and she has certainly heard it all before.

Maybe you know her better than I. *shrug*

It just seems like when someone has a genuine problem and is asking for genuine help, that *might* not be the time to be facetious.

But what do I know?

 

[PhilGarlic]

reading

Maybe you know her better than I. *shrug*

It just seems like when someone has a genuine problem and is asking for genuine help, that *might* not be the time to be facetious.

But what do I know?

Reading some of your posts I think you know quiet a lot.
I take on board your point.

 

[chipcarver]

I Googled sex for overweight people and there were plenty of sights that offered good information.
I am a bit overweight because of health issues, when I get to have sex we try most of the tricks SweetErica suggested, except anal (out of bounds )
Experiment and use your imaginations!!!

 

[RAddams]

Did someone say sexual mechanics?

http://photos.maxim.co.uk/images/library_UK_11/sexy_mechanics_5919_8.jpg

 

[satindesire]

Did someone say sexual mechanics?

Are you ever sober when you're on Lit, or are you just a naturally completely random person?

 

[tomwantstosee]

Why don´t you ride him- the friction of your clit against his abdomen should be fine and enjoyable...

 

[ButtAnalMan]

Can you be on top?

How about modified doggy style with pillows propping your hips up to the correct height for his stature?

You on your back on the edge of the bed, with him standing at the side of it?

Anal sex to take advantage of his smaller cock?

Playing with positions during oral sex, so there's variety in some area?

Agree with the anal part

 

[Saxon Stonedyke]

One of the medium sized bean bag chairs can be very useful for many different positions, including most of the ones mentioned above.

 

[Vixandra]

Have you tried this position?
http://www.reuniting.info/images/scissors2inSM.gif

I'm aerodynamically curvacious myself and have medical issues that mean some positions just don't "work" sometimes. That one though is pretty fun, gives lots of free hands, and removes stress from knees if that's an issue.

Add a few pillows for support where needed and have fun.