Need Sexual Advice

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I’m a 26 year old male, and I need some advice/opinions. Anything is welcome. I was married to my ex-wife for 3.5 years. Marriage wasn’t happy overall but to add to it there was almost no sex at all. I’m a very sexual person. Previous to my marriage I had been a bottom on a good few occasions and really get turned on by the idea and act. Don’t get me wrong I get very turned on for women as well, but theres something different with men. Have used dildos and butt plugs many times and really enjoy them. But the idea and use of a real dick, the cum, the dominance, it turns me on so much. Have a kid through my ex-wife as well as my current girlfriend is pregnant, very healthy relationship, good sex. But I still desire a dick. I know she wouldn’t be okay with me getting dick on the side. She saw a video recently of me using a dildo that I didn’t know was saved, didn’t have an issue with it but I know she won’t be ok with dick. Not even sure about me using a dildo now, it was an old video. But I want dick bad.
 
I have been in almost the same situation. Love women and everything about them, but can't ignore my attraction to dicks. Sounds like you need to make a tough decision like I did. Tell your GF and suffer the consequences, or suffer the frustration and risk of exploring on the DL. Having chosen openness, it's not a coincidence that I am recently single. But at least I'm not always looking over my shoulder.
 
I have been in almost the same situation. Love women and everything about them, but can't ignore my attraction to dicks. Sounds like you need to make a tough decision like I did. Tell your GF and suffer the consequences, or suffer the frustration and risk of exploring on the DL. Having chosen openness, it's not a coincidence that I am recently single. But at least I'm not always looking over my shoulder.
Appreciate the reply
 
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