Need Sexual Advice

[DestroyMePlz69]

I’m a 26 year old male, and I need some advice/opinions. Anything is welcome. I was married to my ex-wife for 3.5 years. Marriage wasn’t happy overall but to add to it there was almost no sex at all. I’m a very sexual person. Previous to my marriage I had been a bottom on a good few occasions and really get turned on by the idea and act. Don’t get me wrong I get very turned on for women as well, but theres something different with men. Have used dildos and butt plugs many times and really enjoy them. But the idea and use of a real dick, the cum, the dominance, it turns me on so much. Have a kid through my ex-wife as well as my current girlfriend is pregnant, very healthy relationship, good sex. But I still desire a dick. I know she wouldn’t be okay with me getting dick on the side. She saw a video recently of me using a dildo that I didn’t know was saved, didn’t have an issue with it but I know she won’t be ok with dick. Not even sure about me using a dildo now, it was an old video. But I want dick bad.

 

[write_or_wrong]

I have been in almost the same situation. Love women and everything about them, but can't ignore my attraction to dicks. Sounds like you need to make a tough decision like I did. Tell your GF and suffer the consequences, or suffer the frustration and risk of exploring on the DL. Having chosen openness, it's not a coincidence that I am recently single. But at least I'm not always looking over my shoulder.

 

[DestroyMePlz69]

I have been in almost the same situation. Love women and everything about them, but can't ignore my attraction to dicks. Sounds like you need to make a tough decision like I did. Tell your GF and suffer the consequences, or suffer the frustration and risk of exploring on the DL. Having chosen openness, it's not a coincidence that I am recently single. But at least I'm not always looking over my shoulder.

Appreciate the reply

 

[Bigboobbabe]

I’m a 26 year old male, and I need some advice/opinions. Anything is welcome. I was married to my ex-wife for 3.5 years. Marriage wasn’t happy overall but to add to it there was almost no sex at all. I’m a very sexual person. Previous to my marriage I had been a bottom on a good few occasions and really get turned on by the idea and act. Don’t get me wrong I get very turned on for women as well, but theres something different with men. Have used dildos and butt plugs many times and really enjoy them. But the idea and use of a real dick, the cum, the dominance, it turns me on so much. Have a kid through my ex-wife as well as my current girlfriend is pregnant, very healthy relationship, good sex. But I still desire a dick. I know she wouldn’t be okay with me getting dick on the side. She saw a video recently of me using a dildo that I didn’t know was saved, didn’t have an issue with it but I know she won’t be ok with dick. Not even sure about me using a dildo now, it was an old video. But I want dick bad.

Please excuse the judgmental side of my answer. It will make sense in the end.

You married her and didn't tell her that you had previously enjoyed same-sex relations.
This is a very important thing you held back.

You really aren't being fair to either of you holding this back. I think you need to come clean rather quickly and you should expect a very negative outcome. I also suggest you have a marriage counselor who specializes in sexual positivity already scheduled.

You will either be miserable and destroy your marriage or cheat and destroy your marriage. Both are bad.

I knew my ex wore women's undergarments before we married. I appreciated the truth ans decided to move forward.

12 years later, i discovered a full female wardrobe closet, with highs, bras, hip and butt pads, and the sluttiest clothes. They were worn on business trips when he traveled alone.
By the grace of God, we survived.

In 2020, the secrets crushed us. He was getting clothes and makeup suggeations from a girl almost 30 yrs younger who obviously knew his leanings. They had inside jokes I wasn't included. He would spend hours with her because she was easy to talk to.
He would spend hours at her house on projects just to make her happy.

Secrets will kill a marriage.

 

[imustadmit]

Easy friend....Share her!

Talk her into meeting up with a bi guy and let him fuck you both. I'm not a bottom, but I am a cocksucker. My wife and I occasionally hook up with guys that I pick and I can get my cocksucking desire fulfilled right there. And there's nothing sexier than watching another man fuck your sweet wife!