New *blush*.

LostandWaiting said:
Sometimes that can be the reaction you are looking for, isn't it?

Sharing things, raising a persons temperature, keeping them on the edge of their seat, knowing you have all the control, all the power, you are leading them.

You might not understand, but, I like...Surprises. :p
 
Kumi said:
You might not understand, but, I like...Surprises. :p

Seems like you're pretty hard to surprise, petal....
 
Kumi said:
You might not understand, but, I like...Surprises. :p

So basically what you are saying is you are open to trying new things, being surprised and deciding whether or not you like the experience for yourself.

Surprises can come in many forms though. Being caught off guard by a question or a comment, being thrown into an uncommon situation, getting surprised with a gift of object, being swept away and not being able to stop blushing...
 
what do you enjoy more, surprising people or being surprised yourself?

I think both are good myself, being surprised, taken aback by something allowing you to feel alive. Surprising people, taking them off guard, having them underestimate you.
 
- I like being caught off gaurd, like, assume I have a Dom (or something) and he dresses up in a ski mask and so on, and when I get home he grabs me. It could be anyone, now couldnt it.
 
LostandWaiting said:
what do you enjoy more, surprising people or being surprised yourself?

I think both are good myself, being surprised, taken aback by something allowing you to feel alive. Surprising people, taking them off guard, having them underestimate you.


I think you can do both, be surprised and yet surprise someone. Someone to do something to surprise you, but your reaction might surprise them.
 
Kumi said:
- I like being caught off gaurd, like, assume I have a Dom (or something) and he dresses up in a ski mask and so on, and when I get home he grabs me. It could be anyone, now couldnt it.

in a situation like that, yes it could be anyone but wouldn't you go with it because you are wishing it's that one person?

I'm starting to see now how you like to be surprised, unwilling to do something and being taken off guard, fighting before giving in...
 
Kumi said:
I think you can do both, be surprised and yet surprise someone. Someone to do something to surprise you, but your reaction might surprise them.

Doesn't it always go that way though. Someone getting an interesting idea, trying to catch you off guard but before long they are the ones who are surprised when you get excited and take control.

Or something like that, I'm not sure...
 
LostandWaiting said:
in a situation like that, yes it could be anyone but wouldn't you go with it because you are wishing it's that one person?

I'm starting to see now how you like to be surprised, unwilling to do something and being taken off guard, fighting before giving in...

If there was any indication that it was someone that might actually harm me, I would fight with all I have before ever giving up.

But yes, that was just an example of something as a surprise.
 
Hell yes, I could surprise you like that, but I'd want you to struggle before you gave in - straight sub doesn't interest me...
 
OGME said:
Hell yes, I could surprise you like that, but I'd want you to struggle before you gave in - straight sub doesn't interest me...

I would struggle the entire time, but if I didnt know the person, like they were dressed up and didnt indicate in anyway that they were my lover or something, then I would fight harder.

Edit: Or I might fight hard, but just not scream, but scream if I dont know the person.
 
Kumi said:
I would struggle the entire time, but if I didnt know the person, like they were dressed up and didnt indicate in anyway that they were my lover or something, then I would fight harder.

Edit: Or I might fight hard, but just not scream, but scream if I dont know the person.

Yes, you should struggle, but you know I'm gonna tie you down... :devil:
 
You definitely have a thing for RPing, in this case play rape.

Have you ever had any such experiences yet with a person. Many couples together that like to do the force thing tend to have the guy tell the girl he'll be surprising her in the future and taking her when she less expects it so both can act out their fantasies.
 
Kumi said:
If there was any indication that it was someone that might actually harm me, I would fight with all I have before ever giving up.

But yes, that was just an example of something as a surprise.

But isn't that what makes it a surprising situation, that level of the unknown or danger. Fighting as hard as you can, but still in the back of your mind having that feeling it's someone you want that is doing this to you, continuing to fight your way through the situation until you reach the pay off.

Just an example, or a desire...
 
Kumi said:
I would struggle the entire time, but if I didnt know the person, like they were dressed up and didnt indicate in anyway that they were my lover or something, then I would fight harder.

Edit: Or I might fight hard, but just not scream, but scream if I dont know the person.

Or perhaps the moment would overtake you, trying as hard as you may to scream but nothing coming out, until you just let go, give into the experience.
 
LostandWaiting said:
But isn't that what makes it a surprising situation, that level of the unknown or danger. Fighting as hard as you can, but still in the back of your mind having that feeling it's someone you want that is doing this to you, continuing to fight your way through the situation until you reach the pay off.

Just an example, or a desire...

Yes, but no matter what the turn on is, I'd hope that no one would ACTUALLY want to be raped.
 
MasterSnatch said:
You definitely have a thing for RPing, in this case play rape.

Have you ever had any such experiences yet with a person. Many couples together that like to do the force thing tend to have the guy tell the girl he'll be surprising her in the future and taking her when she less expects it so both can act out their fantasies.

I've never done it.
 
Kumi said:
Yes, but no matter what the turn on is, I'd hope that no one would ACTUALLY want to be raped.

I would hope that myself. But we are talking about surprises here, a circumstance of a boyfriend playing a role to make you lose control. The other circumstance is just wrong and will mess a person up to a large degree.
 
LostandWaiting said:
I would hope that myself. But we are talking about surprises here, a circumstance of a boyfriend playing a role to make you lose control. The other circumstance is just wrong and will mess a person up to a large degree.

Exactly.
 
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