New faces, come say hello....

Hello everyone, I've found this site extremely helpful and hope to contribute to the discussions and surely learn a thing or two about myself. Do say hello with any tips or advice about testing the waters of Bdsm.

Maria
Hi Maria. Don't hesitate to ask questions of me or others. There are many experienced BDSMers here to help! :)
 
Introduction.

It all started innocently enough. Co-workers who flirted a bit here and there. But then about four years ago, I received an email from Him on a Friday telling me to wear my red dress on Monday. My initial response was a typical “oh, so you like that dress,” to which he replied, “just do what I say.”

Well, that gave me something to think about over the weekend. I did want to wear the dress for Him, but I could not really articulate at that point why. What could be the harm? So, Monday morning I walk into the office wearing the red dress. And He has a proposal. The proposal is that we innocently explore our D/s feelings in the office. He makes the rules. I obey them.

What? We had never had a conversation remotely related to the topic of D/s. While I have had submissive fantasies for a long time, I had certainly never mentioned them to Him (or anyone else for that matter). Also…we are both married (and not to each other). But we started talking about what this “arrangement” would look like in the office, He gave me a (fairly fast) deadline to make a decision, and I decided to give it a try.

He did start out slow with me. Initially, the Rules included what I could wear, what I could drink, and how to address him. The list of Rules kept getting longer…and I started messing up, which led to punishment.

I was not expecting the punishment. I also wasn’t expecting my reaction to the punishment. The first time He disciplined me for not obeying Him, I had to meet him in a vacant office with a ruler. He used the ruler on the back of my hand, and when He was finished made me stand in a corner for several minutes while he went back to work. I stood in the corner not thinking about my stinging hand but about the wetness between my thighs and how I wanted Him to fuck me.
But…I am married and this arrangement was for the office only. Until one day, I get a text message to look in my wallet where I will find a hotel room key and to go immediately to the hotel room and await further instructions. When I arrived to the room, I received another text telling me to put on the blindfold I would find on the nightstand and to kneel in the center of the room holding the ruler I would also find.
The anticipation of waiting for Him, and wondering what was going to happen next, was more torturous than the spanking with the ruler I received that day in the hotel—with my clothes on. Four years later, when I am summoned to a hotel room, the only item of “clothing” I am allowed to wear is his collar. And things are tougher at the office too…I am required to hand over my panties and wedding rings every day. If I misbehave, I am summoned to his car for a humiliating spanking over his knee (and apparently I misbehave a lot). With IM and selfies, he is also able to insure that I follow his Rule to keep a shaved pussy, meet his clothing expectations on weekends, and I am ready for his use if he needs me in the evenings.

Now, I can articulate why I wanted to wear the red dress for Him. I wanted to wear the dress, because I wanted to obey him. I love His orders and I love the challenge of being His submissive. It is still a challenge, because he is always coming up with something new (for example, writing this introduction).


I am mortified to share all of this, but He demands that I do. He feels that I need to be more publicly forthcoming about my submissive needs. He has instructed me to respond politely to any comments or questions I may receive. As always, I will do as He instructs.
Good girl.
 
Hello, I am a 23 year old guy, very little experience in the practice of Bondage but enough theoretical knowledge. I am looking for a woman/couple/ or trans dominant girl who wants to have a slave.

I am willing to experiment with a man as long as I feel comfortable and that person manages to make me feel submissive.

I am looking for something that is not only sexually based, but that there can also be a personal connection. I am willing to do almost anything as the relationship grows.

I can speak English and Spanish.

I am open to answer questions and chat if you are interested.

:)
 
I'm also a Lit antique and it is nice to know something about those who post here. So, I thought this should be one of the recently closed threads that should continue.

From the original thread, started by RisiaSkye...
I'm noticing a lot of new posters around these parts, and it's getting difficult to keep up. We've been a small and kinda insular little community for so long, it is both thrilling and a little overwhelming to realize that we have so many people joining us with their own questions, experiences, and ideas.

So, on behalf of antiques like me, I ask for a favor:
Please, stop in and introduce yourself. Give us a chance to see you, get to know a bit about you, and we'll likely be more readily able to answer your questions or join a conversation with you. Let us know that you aren't a troll, and you'll jump way up the priority list all in one shot. At least, for me.

Welcome, new faces!

Now, who's next?
Hello
I am brand new here. Been submissive for a few years. Still looking for more from that lifestyle. Feel free to talk to me
 
Hey, Dom here with fair amount of experience. I'm an equal fan of sapiosexual and physical. Love an open minded naughty girl. I welcome PM's from anyone wanting to discuss.
 
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Hello all together,

I am a 48 years old married woman frm Germany. After a "sexual restart" with my husband a couple of years ago, we both explore new fields of our sexuality.

Recently we introduced some BDSM elements with me as a more submissive side and him with a dominant side. We are very new to that. Especially I would like to look around and learn from your experience.

Best wishes

Sappho_CGN
 
Sheesh, everyone acts like being a reader is a simply a bad thing.

I’ve been reading stories on here for many years. I admire the work and creativity of those that write and enjoy seeing into others desires that they are willing to share.

I’m someone who is mixed loving between NYC and pa. While in the city I have a few partners and attend parties regularly but back in PA it’s hands in dirt and remodeling homes. Quite the juxtaposition, one hyper-specialized and one as close to nature as peaceful as possible. I’m sure there is a story there somewhere…
 
Soft sub here. Wife is in control of my orgasms. We are only into ball binding. Would this be the proper place to discuss this new feeling. Or would this more of a fetish then a bdsm
 
hello there, long time lurker here, but never had the courage to post. I love the little atmosphere that you've created here, it's not exactly the same everywhere else. Kind of nostalgic, even though I just used to read stuff. It's sad that there are some names that are gone now, I hope the forum's still active and there are at least some old faces still here. I remember Stella, primalex, MeekMe, Mr. DVS who started this thread.
 
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