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[Guest]

Pic 70

See ya!

 

[sharpshooter33]

Thanks everyone!



Sorry I dumped on everyone it was just a rough day since we had every opportunity to get it on this morning and I was rejected once again. Thanks for listening and responding.

No need to be sorry hon, Lit is the place to post pics, rant and rave, complain, speak your mind. It's free therapy, we might not be head docs, but we are part of the real world and the real problems. It always makes one feel better once you have spoken about a problem even if it is to an online community.

 

[sharpshooter33]

Re: Pic 70

I may be fat but I'm still flexible!

~the end~

Babes, you are by no means FAT.....just cause you aint a ramp model doesnt mean you fat, You have a great body and have nothing to be ashamed of and you must not even think the FAT word...

 

[sharpshooter33]

Re: Pic 70

I may be fat but I'm still flexible!

~the end~

Hmmmmm that pic is so erotic....love the view....wish i could give you a tongue lashing

 

[BobbyO]

Stress my ass!

I don't by the stress theory. You seem to be the kind of wife that will do anything for her man.
Guys love sex we think about it all the time, he may be into something weird. Try getting him drunk and do some probing. You never know what might turn up.

 

[efs4fun]

My two cents worth

Since I don't know either of you, I can only speak from my personal experience. I don't know what physical condition your hubby is in, nor do I know much about your home life. Let me relate to you my experience. I divorced a woman who was totally uninterested in sex after 8 years of marriage. I was not even remotely interested in having anything to do with women for two years. Then I met her, we met where I taught skydiving, she was a student, 15 years younger, sexy beyond imagination, and we just became friends, then lovers, then married. Clothing was optional in our house and we made love 2 or 3 times a day for the first two years. Then I took a gov't job, a shitty little job, with crappy pay, long crappy hours, and dirtbags for co-workers and bosses. She stayed at home, so she could work on her painting and writing (a true gift from God).
But I became severely depressed from work, then I was unable to "perform" my manly duties of chasing her around our house and making love to her. My depression went into the toilet, I became "Mr. Personality" and after two years of this, she finally had enough, moved in with the next door neighbor and got a divorce.
I was not a happy camper, because I worshiped her despite the depression. All said and done, she gave me the gift/catalyst that forced me to get professional help and I am thankful for that today. Depression can kill a person and destroy lives, and the sad thing is most people don't realise how depressed they are, especially those who are hard chargers and self-starters.
I am now married again, and actually happier, we talk at length and work out our problems. If your hubby is not exercising regularly and depressed from the stress of the job, I can tell you from personal experience that he may just not be feeling like the greatest stud on the planet, like I did. Do you two exercise, take walks, go bowling, ride bikes? With children these are difficult, and work schedules complicate the situation.
You are doing the right thing to get counseling, your family will be stronger for it, I wish you and your hubby the best. Nothing is easy in life, especially marriage and a family.
Sorry for being so long winded, the bottom line is that your love is a special thing and worth doing whatever it takes to fix the problem, but again, it takes two to fix something like this.

 

[Guest]

efs4fun

Since I don't know either of you, I can only speak from my personal experience. I don't know what physical condition your hubby is in, nor do I know much about your home life. Let me relate to you my experience. I divorced a woman who was totally uninterested in sex after 8 years of marriage. I was not even remotely interested in having anything to do with women for two years. Then I met her, we met where I taught skydiving, she was a student, 15 years younger, sexy beyond imagination, and we just became friends, then lovers, then married. Clothing was optional in our house and we made love 2 or 3 times a day for the first two years. Then I took a gov't job, a shitty little job, with crappy pay, long crappy hours, and dirtbags for co-workers and bosses. She stayed at home, so she could work on her painting and writing (a true gift from God).
But I became severely depressed from work, then I was unable to "perform" my manly duties of chasing her around our house and making love to her. My depression went into the toilet, I became "Mr. Personality" and after two years of this, she finally had enough, moved in with the next door neighbor and got a divorce.
I was not a happy camper, because I worshiped her despite the depression. All said and done, she gave me the gift/catalyst that forced me to get professional help and I am thankful for that today. Depression can kill a person and destroy lives, and the sad thing is most people don't realise how depressed they are, especially those who are hard chargers and self-starters.
I am now married again, and actually happier, we talk at length and work out our problems. If your hubby is not exercising regularly and depressed from the stress of the job, I can tell you from personal experience that he may just not be feeling like the greatest stud on the planet, like I did. Do you two exercise, take walks, go bowling, ride bikes? With children these are difficult, and work schedules complicate the situation.
You are doing the right thing to get counseling, your family will be stronger for it, I wish you and your hubby the best. Nothing is easy in life, especially marriage and a family.
Sorry for being so long winded, the bottom line is that your love is a special thing and worth doing whatever it takes to fix the problem, but again, it takes two to fix something like this.

Thank you, Thank you, Thank you for sharing something so personal. It's really great to hear from someone how kinda knows what my husband is going through. I know depression is an ugly thing - I've been very down and done some very stupid things! Over the past five years we've gotten into a very vicious cycle .... I'm not happy about being sexless so I spend money, he gets stressed about the money and doesn't give sex. I don't know which started first but it doesn't matter - we're caught up in the cycle and it's gonna be hard to break. I don't consciously spend the money and I don't think he consciously withholds sex but it's a reality nonetheless. I really do want to salvage the marriage if at all possible and hope that therapy can help. I'm currently the only one in therapy but hubby has said that he will attend as well. Then if the marriage fails we'll at least know we tried everything. Thanks again for sharing a different perspective!

 

[efs4fun]

Oh, I forgot to say...

that you are one exceptionally sexy woman, and I am certain that since he has agreed to go with you to counseling, that the work you put into this will be rewarded.
One suggestion, if I may? Consider asking someone you trust completely to watch the kids for one weekend a month, and the two of you go get a honeymoon suite in a hotel in the next large city near where you live. Decompress, dance, bathe each other, rub lotion on each other and at first just cuddle, hold and carress each other. His "fear" of the kids walking can't be used. You might be suprised how fast that one-eyed trouser snake decides that you are the most important thing in life, :^).

 

[efs4fun]

sorry,

my brain is somewhere running aroun d on the floor tonite. I want to say that you are welcome, if anything I've said has eased your fears, anguish, then my efforts are a success. Sweet dreams beautiful lady.

 

[betman33]

Re: Pic 69

I've always wanted a corset and finally bought one today. It was very erotic being fitted by the sales person who had to tie me up like in the Victorian Times!

i know i love it when the women i am with wear their corsets as well as their boots..... not to mention the stockings it is rather HOT as well as thrilling knowing what they have on..... glad you enjoyed it and to be honest YOU are NOT fat no way in hell are you at all....

 

[betman33]

Thanks everyone!

Hubby and I have been talking for 5 years now and we are finally going into couple therapy. No matter how much we talk about the situation he blames it all on stress and being worn out at the end of the day. He also claims he has an impotence problem which I'm here to tell you is no problem unless he's thinking about sex. On the few occasions where I've come up behind him and started messaging his dick he gets hard without any problems. Even if it were just mental impotence (is there such a thing?) the Viagra we have does the trick .... but only if he takes it. Most days he doesn't even have a will to take it. I'm 99.9% sure that he isn't getting sex some place else although you can never be 100% sure. I've cheated on people and know the tell tale signs and he doesn't even have one of them. Plus, I knew at the beginning of the marriage that sex wasn't a priority for him (generational gap since he's pushing 60) BUT he never turned it down when offered. We generally sit down about once a month for a heart to heart about what's bothering him and what's bothering me and he always swears he'll do better and never does. The last time we had this conversation he all but said I should just take a lover. It's just hard to feel sexy and desirable when your husband doesn't want you. That's why I turned to LIT. I need to know that there is at least one man on this planet that would find me desirable and wouldn't push my advances away.

Sorry I dumped on everyone it was just a rough day since we had every opportunity to get it on this morning and I was rejected once again. Thanks for listening and responding.

well what you could do is always tie him up and say i am going to do this and you have no reason to not want me to do this....... you will get me off with your mouth your cock your tongue and if that dont work then your fingers then if that dont work then your fist and then maybe your toes..... or i will just make you sit their and watch me masturbate..... egrin.... ) hope that helps....

 

[fragile]

Thanks everyone!

Hubby and I have been talking for 5 years now and we are finally going into couple therapy. No matter how much we talk about the situation he blames it all on stress and being worn out at the end of the day. He also claims he has an impotence problem which I'm here to tell you is no problem unless he's thinking about sex. On the few occasions where I've come up behind him and started messaging his dick he gets hard without any problems. Even if it were just mental impotence (is there such a thing?) the Viagra we have does the trick .... but only if he takes it. Most days he doesn't even have a will to take it. I'm 99.9% sure that he isn't getting sex some place else although you can never be 100% sure. I've cheated on people and know the tell tale signs and he doesn't even have one of them. Plus, I knew at the beginning of the marriage that sex wasn't a priority for him (generational gap since he's pushing 60) BUT he never turned it down when offered. We generally sit down about once a month for a heart to heart about what's bothering him and what's bothering me and he always swears he'll do better and never does. The last time we had this conversation he all but said I should just take a lover. It's just hard to feel sexy and desirable when your husband doesn't want you. That's why I turned to LIT. I need to know that there is at least one man on this planet that would find me desirable and wouldn't push my advances away.

Sorry I dumped on everyone it was just a rough day since we had every opportunity to get it on this morning and I was rejected once again. Thanks for listening and responding.

Well this may shed some new light on things. He's pushing 60. This does not have to be a problem, but can be. A certain percentage of men have problems with erections once they get into that age range. I don't men just GETTING an erection but MAINTAINING it. He gets one when you attack him, like this morning, but maybe he has trouble maintaining it. Sure you have Viagra and it works, which is great. But think about it. It may make him feel like less of a man. Now he needs pills to keep it up. It does not bother you one iota. It may bother him a whole hell of alot. So yes, you have mental impotence too. It bothers him that he can't maintain and so that gets to him and causes him anxiety which causes his erection to go away. It can become a self-filfilling prophecy or self-perpetuating cycle. Now everytime you do have sex, it's all he thinks about, which causes erection to go away, and so on and so on. So it could be mental and physical both. I am certainly no Ph D or psychologist. but I just wanted to throw this out there for your consideration. He may just not want to tell you the REAL problem. This may be it. Obviously you know there is a real problem, and you are not it. So when you try to talk to him, or in therapy, see if he has feelings of inadaquecy. Really try and break through. The ability to PERFORM naturally may not seem like a big deal to a woman, but it is a VERY big deal to many men. Thanks for listening and good luck!

 

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[Joey3308]

Excellent pics! Your pussy is soooo wet...yummm! You have a body made for playing. Perfect! Thank you!

 

[Biscuithead]

Well this may shed some new light on things. He's pushing 60. This does not have to be a problem, but can be. A certain percentage of men have problems with erections once they get into that age range. I don't men just GETTING an erection but MAINTAINING it. He gets one when you attack him, like this morning, but maybe he has trouble maintaining it. Sure you have Viagra and it works, which is great. But think about it. It may make him feel like less of a man. Now he needs pills to keep it up. It does not bother you one iota. It may bother him a whole hell of alot. So yes, you have mental impotence too. It bothers him that he can't maintain and so that gets to him and causes him anxiety which causes his erection to go away. It can become a self-filfilling prophecy or self-perpetuating cycle. Now everytime you do have sex, it's all he thinks about, which causes erection to go away, and so on and so on. So it could be mental and physical both. I am certainly no Ph D or psychologist. but I just wanted to throw this out there for your consideration. He may just not want to tell you the REAL problem. This may be it. Obviously you know there is a real problem, and you are not it. So when you try to talk to him, or in therapy, see if he has feelings of inadaquecy. Really try and break through. The ability to PERFORM naturally may not seem like a big deal to a woman, but it is a VERY big deal to many men. Thanks for listening and good luck!

I agree with fragile, trinity. Psychologists talk about negative feedback cycles. I think you and he are in one. You talked, yourself, about a destructive cycle you have both gotten into. One of those is the man "thinking too hard" about the need to keep an erection. It's an insidious form of self pressure, and the worst thing about it is that the sexier the woman acts the more "aggressive" this can seem to the man under pressure to perform. This perpetuates the problem, but of course also seems like a massive slap across the face from the woman's point of view.

For you to bring your issues out so openly here suggests to me you love your husband very much. 60 is certainly no age to be less sexually active, but in his head he may already be "rehearsing" a problem that could have bothered him for a while: the generational gap. Often when we dwell too much on things they become self-fulfilling prophesies.

I certainly don't think you should take his problems as a slight on your sexuality. That you are a sensual and incredibly attractive woman is clear to all of us here.

 

[fedelio]

just revisited all your pics... you've got me so hard... I would love to ram my hard cock in and out of your wet pussy.

tell your husband if he doesnt shape up he's more then welcome to watch

 

[Biscuithead]

Re: Pic 69

I've always wanted a corset and finally bought one today. It was very erotic being fitted by the sales person who had to tie me up like in the Victorian Times!

You mean all trussed up on a railway line by a man with a big black moustache and a tophat?

Pay the rent!

 

[sinistergrin68]

New to the thread but I am STUNNED!!!!! I love every pic you posted! You are absolutely SUPER HOT!!!! Every pic of you bending over sends me right over the edge! I'm sorry to hear you're having problems with hubby but I'd be glad to pinch hit for him ANYTIME...EVERY TIME! You're not anywhere near Maryland by chance are you?

 

[Guest]

Thank you!

You are all better (and cheaper) than therapy!!! Looks like I'm going to have to take a trip around the world in 80 days in order to give you all a proper thanking!!!!

My pity party is over ----- shall we move on to a mass masturbation party????

 

[Guest]

Re: Thank you!

 

[fedelio]

i've started the party w/o you (though i'm thinking of u)

 

[methpez]

I started partying last night

sadly there was no masturbation or you but ther was som very strange pictures taken.


p.s. We might be cheep thearapy but there are more people here that realy do care than you might know. Where all here for you in any capacity that you might need.

 

[Guest]

Re: I started partying last night

 

[Guest]

Re: Re: I started partying last night

Methpaz is right, I find myself caring alot for the people I talk to. For me it is much more than sex here, I have made some great friends and I enjoy getting to know them. Just like I enjoy getting to know you Trinity, as a friend.

Take care and as a friend I need to ask for more pics

I totally agree too - I've met some great friends! I meant it when I said I just may have to start traveling the globe to meet everyone - even if it's just for a movie and dinner.

I just returned from swimming and I'm slowing taking off my bathing suit. My skin is still moist from the water and warm from the sun. My hair is long and dripping little beads of water down my naked body. I take one hand and slowly move it between my legs. I take two fingers and gently part my glistening lips. I easily slide one finger from my clit down to my opening. I tease myself by only inserting my finger up to the first knuckle. It's feel warm and cozy like being wrapped in a fleece blanket on a cold morning. Mmmmm now I insert up to the second knuckle savoring the warmth and wetness of my own body. I'm deep enough that I can curl my finger ever so slightly and feel the little knub of my g-spot. It's just starting to swell with anticipation of what's to follow. Now my finger is completely inside me and I can cup my hand completely over my hot pussy. Mmmmmm it longs to be stroked, kissed, teased, played with and penetrated!!!!!!

http://www.cnadesigns.com/ibtrinity/diddle.gif

 

[fedelio]

lol

where'd u get the diddle icon

feel free to visiti whenever i'm just sitting here