New to BDSM but learning

[StalkerM49]

When I first thought of the BDSM community I just thought it was you do what your told in the bedroom and that was it. I have learned there is way more to it than that and I would love to learn, grow and trust. 43 year old male from California.

 

[John1000j]

Interested in learning here please

 

[AlwaysInTrouble]

Gents, like all experiential growth, you'll learn best by doing vs reading about it or watching a video. I highly recommend you find a real-life Domme (or Dom if that's your taste) and be trained as a Sub, OR find a real-life Dom/Domme mentor to apprentice under. Discussion is good, but viscerally experiencing BDSM is critical in accelerating your learning.