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It might help if you mentioned that you're a guy in your thread title.

Based on your name, I guessed (apparently wrongly) that you're a girl and clicked on your picture.

You seem not to be my type.

Thanks anyway,
subGenius
 
I am in awe and wonder at all the people that make asses of themselves by assuming that I am a woman simply by a name. Then I have to remember that people on a whole still look for people of the opposite sex as a general rule for a partner in life. Be it for sex or what have you. I my self look at all people as potential partners. Not discriminating or even considering gender till I get to know them. The only reason to seek out only a female, for me anyways, would be to propagate. All people should be potential partners or Friends in life till you find out if they are an idiot or not.
 
I am in awe and wonder at all the people that make asses of themselves by assuming that I am a woman simply by a name. Then I have to remember that people on a whole still look for people of the opposite sex as a general rule for a partner in life. Be it for sex or what have you. I my self look at all people as potential partners. Not discriminating or even considering gender till I get to know them. The only reason to seek out only a female, for me anyways, would be to propagate. All people should be potential partners or Friends in life till you find out if they are an idiot or not.

Aren't you being a little hard on him? It's like taking a drink of iced tea when the ice is all melted. You expect something and get something instead, that's totally different, your first response is unpleasant surprise. It's human nature.

You may be high on the horse of "I am an equal opportunity lover" here, but that doesn't make you better than straight people. It only makes you different. And that's what's supposed to be beautiful about this world...to each their own.
 
Aren't you being a little hard on him? It's like taking a drink of iced tea when the ice is all melted. You expect something and get something instead, that's totally different, your first response is unpleasant surprise. It's human nature.

You may be high on the horse of "I am an equal opportunity lover" here, but that doesn't make you better than straight people. It only makes you different. And that's what's supposed to be beautiful about this world...to each their own.

Sorry. I was generalizing things. This has happened more than once and on different threads. I was not trying to be hard or judge mental just making a statement to fact. Of who I am.
 
Aren't you being a little hard on him? It's like taking a drink of iced tea when the ice is all melted. You expect something and get something instead, that's totally different, your first response is unpleasant surprise. It's human nature.

You may be high on the horse of "I am an equal opportunity lover" here, but that doesn't make you better than straight people. It only makes you different. And that's what's supposed to be beautiful about this world...to each their own.

And may I ask what is it that brought you to think that I was saying or inferring that I am better than straight people?
 
Huh, seemed namecalling was a little more than just generalizing who you were. :rolleyes:

Just a word of advice: If you want to be an accepted and well liked member of the Literotica board, having the patience to think a bit before you post will get you far. Reacting to posts in such a negative way will only earn you the reputation of being a horses' heinie with a hot temper.
 
Huh, seemed namecalling was a little more than just generalizing who you were. :rolleyes:

Just a word of advice: If you want to be an accepted and well liked member of the Literotica board, having the patience to think a bit before you post will get you far. Reacting to posts in such a negative way will only earn you the reputation of being a horses' heinie with a hot temper.

I am still not understanding why it was taken as negative. Does every body have to put a cherry on things to be thought of as nice. why can't fact be just fact and not negative or positve?
 
I am still not understanding why it was taken as negative. Does every body have to put a cherry on things to be thought of as nice. why can't fact be just fact and not negative or positve?

You made it into a negative when you started the namecalling to a response that didn't warrant that. I'm not about to sit here in your thread and argue this point with you. If you don't feel like owning up to your mistake then don't. It's your prerogative. I'm so done.
 
You made it into a negative when you started the namecalling to a response that didn't warrant that. I'm not about to sit here in your thread and argue this point with you. If you don't feel like owning up to your mistake then don't. It's your prerogative. I'm so done.

You do not seem to understand then. I was generalizing all the people that assumed things. Because Assumeing does make you a ass. I was not calling the person that made the comment an ass. And yes you are right I should Have been way more explanative for those that can not or need it to be done that way. I am sorry that my writing skills do not meet up to your standard.
 
You do not seem to understand then. I was generalizing all the people that assumed things. Because Assumeing does make you a ass. I was not calling the person that made the comment an ass. And yes you are right I should Have been way more explanative for those that can not or need it to be done that way. I am sorry that my writing skills do not meet up to your standard.

and you were calling people an ass.
 
Fucking hell man, no one gives a shit about your gender or your sexual orientation - just back off!!

You've posted your thread and within only about half an hour you've become so pissed off that no one's responded. You've bumped your thread twice, been offensive to the first (innocent) person who does reply, then just wanted to fight with Satindesire when she tells you to pipe down a bit.

No doubt you're going to tell me what an arsehole I am now for posting this and try to fight me but you really have to chill out a bit and just accept that getting replies to your thread can take a while - nurture it and be nice to the people who do bother their arse to comment and you may get somewhere.
 
Fucking hell man, no one gives a shit about your gender or your sexual orientation - just back off!!

You've posted your thread and within only about half an hour you've become so pissed off that no one's responded. You've bumped your thread twice, been offensive to the first (innocent) person who does reply, then just wanted to fight with Satindesire when she tells you to pipe down a bit.

No doubt you're going to tell me what an arsehole I am now for posting this and try to fight me but you really have to chill out a bit and just accept that getting replies to your thread can take a while - nurture it and be nice to the people who do bother their arse to comment and you may get somewhere.

And why do people keep thinking I am pissed. There has been no emotion of any kind on my part so far. Also sorry if I am offensive in the way I present myself. I myself do not involve emotion till I know some one only state things. Thanks for the oppinion and your interpratation of things.
 
Once again this comes back to people assuming what context or emotion in which what I wrote was meant to be with out finding out. I myself ask people what they mean by something in stead of assuming. Or I get to know that person then I can attach context and emotion to statements based on experiences with that person.
 
I am in awe and wonder at all the people that make asses of themselves by assuming that I am a woman simply by a name. Then I have to remember that people on a whole still look for people of the opposite sex as a general rule for a partner in life. Be it for sex or what have you. I my self look at all people as potential partners. Not discriminating or even considering gender till I get to know them. The only reason to seek out only a female, for me anyways, would be to propagate. All people should be potential partners or Friends in life till you find out if they are an idiot or not.

And may I ask what is it that brought you to think that I was saying or inferring that I am better than straight people?

Gee, why would anyone think you were being nancy negative?
 
Gee, why would anyone think you were being nancy negative?

Well first off I do not give in to the preconceived notion of negative or positive when it comes to emotions. I also do not go around throwing my precious emotions on just any one or any thing. They are reserved for where they can do the most good or what most people refer to as good. Not wasted frivolously. I can understand why people have lumped me in with what they think of as the norm. I do not judge any one for that. None the less everybody has in on way or another assumed something about me rather than assuming nothing at all. Taking it at face value and either asking or spending the time to get to know me and find out. So far I know nothing of any body on here and have assumed nothing. I will either ask or spend the time to try and get to know the person then I can better understand what they are meaning by there words. And the best way and quickest way to get to know some one is to push buttons that most people seem to think is impolite or not sociably polite. There fore they think of it in what is called a negative context when it is in reality me being friendly.
 
So your idea is to maniuplate people into showing their true colours? How charming.
It seems to me that you think very highly of yourself and how you conduct your personality, just because this is so does not mean you should expect nor want everyone else to behave the same way. Perhaps you aren't as open minded as you think you are.
 
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