Nipple Sensitivity, lack there of.

[crazybbwgirl]

OK, thanks for commenting (and voting)!
Any of you girls use nipple clamps?
Rumor is that tits are more sensative after the clamps come off. Others say that the "sensativity" isn't sexual but is painful.
Remember now, my lady gets little if any arousal from her nipples. Could I expect nipple clamps to arouse her either while they're on or after they're off? Or would we probably just be looking at pain, not stimulation?

I LOVE my clamps, rings and have even used clothes pins. They're a great 'pre-sex' thing. If I'm going to meet my lover that even for games I will wear my rings all day long in anticipation. Or I'll wear the clamps while masterbating. I don't usually wear them during sex. (they just fall off too easily) The most awesome feeling is taking them off shortly after cumming thru masterbation - wow - yeouch! She'd better be into some pain - cuz its right on that pleasure/pain line!

 

[SexyChele]

OK, thanks for commenting (and voting)!

Any of you girls use nipple clamps?

Rumor is that tits are more sensative after the clamps come off. Others say that the "sensativity" isn't sexual but is painful.

Remember now, my lady gets little if any arousal from her nipples.

Could I expect nipple clamps to arouse her either while they're on or after they're off?

Or would we probably just be looking at pain, not stimulation?

I use clamps on a regular basis - either with masturbation or while having sex. While masturbation works well, I prefer to use them during sex. That way, my partner can pull on the chain when he wishes, creating even more sensation. Also, I love to be clamped and then get on my hands and knees, while having my breasts pressed against the mattress or floor. Just a little more added pleasure/pain.

I have 2 sets of clamps that I use - one set of clover clamps (which I prefer), and one set of bull nose clamps that can be adjusted for pressure. I have pics of both at my web site, if you are interested.

Not all women are into clamping. And clamps can be really difficult if a woman has overly large nipples. You just can't get a good grip. In that, I'm lucky. I have smallish nipples, so they work perfectly. I also have a very high tolerance for pain in my nipples, and your g/f might be the same way. ("might" being the operative word here)

It is not a rumor that clamps are more painful when they come off. It is truth. How does it work? Well, when you clamp the nipple, you cut off blood, in some degree, to that part of the body. When the clamps are removed, the blood rushes back in and the sensation increases. Now, some women (such as me) eroticize the pain, so it actually feels good. Other women just find it extremely painful. How to lessen this effect? When removing the clamps, have the woman take a deep breath, and release it slowly. Once the clamp is off use either a vibrator or your lips and tongue gently on the nipple right away to soothe the area. Never rip off clamps unless she is very much into pain.

As to whether they arouse when they are on or off depends on the woman and/or the situation. For me, I get intensely aroused when the clamps are applied - especially if my partner is doing it. Watching him, waiting for the feel of the bite, wondering just when he is going to release the clamp onto my nipple - it's all good. During sex, if the clamps are left on, I really don't feel them. My concentration is elsewhere. Of course, that is when it is time for my partner to pull or tug on the chain - it brings that sensation in my nipples back to me and increases my pleasure. When the clamps are being removed, it is painful, and I can't imagine having sex during that. However, once the clamps are removed and my partner has provided a litte "aftercare", my nipples are much more sensitive than they were to begin with. For a few hours afterward, all he or I have to do is brush my nipples to initiate immediate sensation!

To use nipple clamps for the first time, you want to be certain the clamps you buy have rubberized tips. Makes them more comfortable. Also, either tweezer or bull nose style clamps are the most comfortable because both are completely adjustable. Tweezer style works best for larger nipples. Clothespins are a cheap alternative, however use only wooden ones! And bend out the spring slightly so there is less intensity. The only bad part about clothespins is there is no chain to pull or jerk, but they are fun to flick.

Whether this experience will be pain or pleasure is something only your lady can tell you. Different women respond differently. Some find clamping pleasurable. Others don't. Some are in the middle. Before buying a set of clamps, I would begin with your teeth (which can duplicate the sensation, but unless you can lock your jaw like a pit bull, won't last long), or clothespins. If she likes that and wants more, then you can take a trip to the adult store and look for goodies.

Big word of caution here: Be careful not to leave clamps on for longer that 15 minutes! I know that I can wear them longer, especially if there are other things going on. However. the clamps are stopping some flow of blood and you do not want that to last overly long. 15 minutes is the recommended length of time that most adhere to. Of course, once the clamps have been removed and a little time has passed, you can always re-clamp. Now THAT can be the ultimate pleasure/pain!

Good luck!

 

[ReadyOne]

OK, the news isn't great. We tried messing around with the ideas/suggestions you all have made, and the best I could get was "that tickles!"

We'll wait a couple of weeks and try again (catch the other side of her cycle).

 

[ReadyOne]

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[SexyChele]

OK, the news isn't great. We tried messing around with the ideas/suggestions you all have made, and the best I could get was "that tickles!"

We'll wait a couple of weeks and try again (catch the other side of her cycle).

All women are different, as you have very well figured out by now! For me, the week right before my period starts, my breasts are incredible tender and even sore at times. This is when I love to have them played with the most. (Yeah, okay, so I like a little pain now and again!) If I'm with a partner then, I'll ask him to be a little more rough than usual. Yes, the next day, my breasts will hurt like crazy, but it's always a sweet reminder of the night before. Also, at this time, my nipples are at their most sensitive.

Just a thought for you. You might want to ask your girlfriend if there is a particular time of the month when her breasts are very sensitive.