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[candiman40]

Would newbies be invited to come along ? Haven't been here long and would understand if there's an "in " crowd.
Someone asked some specifics a few pages back.
Here goes,
Married for 20 yrs this April, with 3 kids. All at home. Work in a little burg called Hackettstown - yes that's where they make the M&M's. I enjoy writing stories and was told of this site by a friend of mine out west. Been an avid fan of several postings and have been sending stuff to editors for review. I'm 5'10", slighty heavy@ 240, but active enough to play local sports. Work about 60 hrs a week on average and usually logged in at work which has a firewall which is a hop in the ass ! Long story short, ( yeah , i know too late for that) after 20 years the intimacy has waned from the marriage and despite my efforts , my wife feels that she isn't sexy due to gained weight, and has no drive to be with me. Its been over a year and she's taking meds for depression, but still doesn't want anything to do with me.( in that way )
So after this sad but true tale, I look forward to any questions, and I'm also interested in meeting anyone from Lit.

 

[Guest]

Would newbies be invited to come along ? Haven't been here long and would understand if there's an "in " crowd.
Someone asked some specifics a few pages back.
Here goes,
Married for 20 yrs this April, with 3 kids. All at home. Work in a little burg called Hackettstown - yes that's where they make the M&M's. I enjoy writing stories and was told of this site by a friend of mine out west. Been an avid fan of several postings and have been sending stuff to editors for review. I'm 5'10", slighty heavy@ 240, but active enough to play local sports. Work about 60 hrs a week on average and usually logged in at work which has a firewall which is a hop in the ass ! Long story short, ( yeah , i know too late for that) after 20 years the intimacy has waned from the marriage and despite my efforts , my wife feels that she isn't sexy due to gained weight, and has no drive to be with me. Its been over a year and she's taking meds for depression, but still doesn't want anything to do with me.( in that way )
So after this sad but true tale, I look forward to any questions, and I'm also interested in meeting anyone from Lit.

Of course you are invited to come along! I'm pretty sure you were on the PM list! If you didn't get my PM, please let me know and I will resend!

And thank you for sharing! I can sympathize with you...not married as long, but similar situation for me. Only, I've been separated a little over a year now.

 

[Guest]

And, by the way, GOOD MORNING!!!!

 

[candiman40]

Thanks - and good night -- just getting off work . back tonight wa hoo !!

 

[Guest]

Thanks - and good night -- just getting off work . back tonight wa hoo !!

Good night! Rest well and we'll see you back here tonight!

 

[Guest]

Hey!!! Where's Jerseyman this morning?!? I miss my daily zinger!!!

 

[Guttergoddess]

Caramel, huh? Can do!

Candiman...I used to go pick strawberries by you....

Woohoo it's Thursday! Only 2 days of work...though today is Survivor night isn't it? ugh! And it's an AT Thursday, double ugh!

Hope everyone has a wondermous day!

 

[Guest]

Caramel, huh? Can do!

Candiman...I used to go pick strawberries by you....

Woohoo it's Thursday! Only 2 days of work...though today is Survivor night isn't it? ugh! And it's an AT Thursday, double ugh!

Hope everyone has a wondermous day!

Ok...I will probably regret asking this (because it will be something that everyone knows but me) but what exactly is an "AT Thursday"???

 

[ftdixguy]

Fort Dix

Fort Dix here - reporting in

Whats going on everyone?

 

[Guest]

Fort Dix here - reporting in

Whats going on everyone?

Hey Fort Dix!!! Welcome to the thread!!! Sit back, make yourself comfy and try to keep up!!!! LMAO

 

[nyrjmk]

dont feel bad i dont know what an "AT Thursday" is either

Ok...I will probably regret asking this (because it will be something that everyone knows but me) but what exactly is an "AT Thursday"???

 

[Guest]

dont feel bad i dont know what an "AT Thursday" is either

Oh good!!! Then it isn't just me!!!!

 

[fineexampl]

my AT thursday is when i pop in an A-Team DVD as i do my paperwork. nothing like 4-5 straight hours of BA Baracus.

 

[Guest]

my AT thursday is when i pop in an A-Team DVD as i do my paperwork. nothing like 4-5 straight hours of BA Baracus.

Nah...my personal favorite was Face. LOL

 

[jerseyQT]

Hi ...im jersey too!

Hi all...I'm new to this site, but (as if you can't tell from my handle ) I'm from NJ . I'm a married swinger. I like the Guys and the girls. I love ladies of all shapes and sizes, just taste sweet and be sexy. I like tall men, especially blacks and latinos, but if you're big and hard and, sexy and polite...then it doesn't matter. My hubby and I prefer to swing together, but we have been known to solo every now and again. As they say it's all good!

 

[jerseyQT]

one more thing...

How do you add a picture to your name and post?

 

[nyrjmk]

welcum aboard hope you have a great ride or a few of them while you are here

Hi all...I'm new to this site, but (as if you can't tell from my handle ) I'm from NJ . I'm a married swinger. I like the Guys and the girls. I love ladies of all shapes and sizes, just taste sweet and be sexy. I like tall men, especially blacks and latinos, but if you're big and hard and, sexy and polite...then it doesn't matter. My hubby and I prefer to swing together, but we have been known to solo every now and again. As they say it's all good!

 

[FinnMacCool]

happens after 100 posts,then you can add an AV ,in the CP ,there is a section where you can add whatever you want as a signature..and Welcome to Lit

How do you add a picture to your name and post?

 

[Guest]

Hi all...I'm new to this site, but (as if you can't tell from my handle ) I'm from NJ . I'm a married swinger. I like the Guys and the girls. I love ladies of all shapes and sizes, just taste sweet and be sexy. I like tall men, especially blacks and latinos, but if you're big and hard and, sexy and polite...then it doesn't matter. My hubby and I prefer to swing together, but we have been known to solo every now and again. As they say it's all good!

Welcome Jersey! You've come to the right place! LOL And I see Mr. MacCool has already beaten me to it and answered your other questions.

 

[Guest]

NJ Litogether Update

Sent out an update (and better looking webpage) for the Litogether. Time change to accommodate those coming from the North. Also needed to add an RSVP because of Famous Dave's. They will need a final head count.

 

[jerseyQT]

Thanks

Actually I have been stopping by to read the hot stories for a while...but finally decided to join in...Thanks for the warm welcome!

 

[Guest]

Actually I have been stopping by to read the hot stories for a while...but finally decided to join in...Thanks for the warm welcome!

We're glad you decided to join in! The more the merrier!!!

 

[MaxLongfella]

Wow! Activity in the NJ threads

 

[slowgo]

You know, they were talking about Famous Dave's on WPLJ this morning! They mentioned all the locations, although I didn't hear Cherry Hill...It was very funny!

Hope everyone had a great day. I taught my class how to play wiffle ball. Do you know how many of the kids had never swung a bat before? It's crazy. I asked them what do they play in the spring and they were all like "lacrosse" , "soccer". Yikes. Whatever happened to baseball being an American institution? (hee, hee) Of course, I am not really a baseball fan--just hockey. But still....

more ramblings from northern jersey

 

[candiman40]

glad to be a member tonight !!

Welcome JerseyQT, Being reletively new myself I wish you as warm a welcome as i've found here. looking forward too making an avatar myself

Nice to see you firestorm, thanks for the pm info.

Goddess - strwberries huh , yeah been there done that, probably the same place we took th ekids for pumkins in Oct. thanks for the welcome