Not attracted to guys but I am curious...

[Lost_Yonder]

I've been in a bit of a fog lately. Hubby is beginning to show some bi tendencies during our HW dates. I'm thinking maybe because of the close contact?

Any suggestions? Let him continue at his own pace? Nudge him? Have the date nudge him?

Not just nudge, but also communicate - let him know you think it is ok and even a desire/fantasy of your own (assuming it is). Sometimes it is just a mental block that needs someone to help us transcend it...

 

[Gelista]

Same here. I'm not attracted to guys at all. Only their cocks.

Ditto. Not interested in men in the slightest but have an attraction to cock and wouldn't mind some mutual play

 

[Gelista]

I've been in a bit of a fog lately. Hubby is beginning to show some bi tendencies during our HW dates. I'm thinking maybe because of the close contact?

Any suggestions? Let him continue at his own pace? Nudge him? Have the date nudge him?

What tendencies has he shown? Has he not got involved but looks like he wants to?

 

[LuciousLadyMary]

What tendencies has he shown? Has he not got involved but looks like he wants to?

In a nutshell from a story in the works of our early years...
Lets go back a lot of years. I was 22, him 25. 3some in our home. We'd been married less than a year. Hubby was licking me and I was kissing the guy laying next to me. All of us nude, the guy moved closer to me and his cock was laying on my upper thigh. Hubby moved away from my crotch and took him in his mouth.

I lost it. I know I could have handled it 1000% better but that's all hindsight shit.

The guy ended up leaving over my tantrum.

We continued 3somes for several years and it never happened again.

Fast forward to last year. Hubby cannot perform anymore due to diabetes.

We had our first HW 3some with him as a non performer. We've had several since.
On the last one, he was 69ing me while I was getting it doggie. Licking everywhere... it felt great. So I know he had to be licking him as he was entering me. Guy unloads 2 shots in me and hubby gets the third on his face. Facial, bigtime. He continued to clean me up and then moved up to have me lick his face clean. I did.

He's taken my dates cocks and offered them to me orally. He's inserted them into me.

Thoughts?

 

[Sclovers]

In a nutshell from a story in the works of our early years...
Lets go back a lot of years. I was 22, him 25. 3some in our home. We'd been married less than a year. Hubby was licking me and I was kissing the guy laying next to me. All of us nude, the guy moved closer to me and his cock was laying on my upper thigh. Hubby moved away from my crotch and took him in his mouth.

I lost it. I know I could have handled it 1000% better but that's all hindsight shit.

The guy ended up leaving over my tantrum.

We continued 3somes for several years and it never happened again.

Fast forward to last year. Hubby cannot perform anymore due to diabetes.

We had our first HW 3some with him as a non performer. We've had several since.
On the last one, he was 69ing me while I was getting it doggie. Licking everywhere... it felt great. So I know he had to be licking him as he was entering me. Guy unloads 2 shots in me and hubby gets the third on his face. Facial, bigtime. He continued to clean me up and then moved up to have me lick his face clean. I did.

He's taken my dates cocks and offered them to me orally. He's inserted them into me.

Thoughts?

That’s very hot!!! Do you encourage him now?

 

[LuciousLadyMary]

That’s very hot!!! Do you encourage him now?

That was my original question. Should I encourage? I don't want to force him past his boundaries.

My feelings have changed through the years and I certainly don't want to discourage him in any way. I'm almost thinking of letting the date push him some. Hubby seems to be comfortable as long as he's in a position not visible to me. Should I encourage my date to offer hubby his cock while I'm giving a bj? I'm almost sure he'd look to me for approval and do it if I nodded or smiled.

 

[Dreamer110]

That was my original question. Should I encourage? I don't want to force him past his boundaries.

My feelings have changed through the years and I certainly don't want to discourage him in any way. I'm almost thinking of letting the date push him some. Hubby seems to be comfortable as long as he's in a position not visible to me. Should I encourage my date to offer hubby his cock while I'm giving a bj? I'm almost sure he'd look to me for approval and do it if I nodded or smiled.

If course you should. As long as he's not fighting you why not.

 

[FredTR]

That was my original question. Should I encourage? I don't want to force him past his boundaries.

My feelings have changed through the years and I certainly don't want to discourage him in any way. I'm almost thinking of letting the date push him some. Hubby seems to be comfortable as long as he's in a position not visible to me. Should I encourage my date to offer hubby his cock while I'm giving a bj? I'm almost sure he'd look to me for approval and do it if I nodded or smiled.

You should encourage him and that is an excellent way to start

 

[Sclovers]

That was my original question. Should I encourage? I don't want to force him past his boundaries.

My feelings have changed through the years and I certainly don't want to discourage him in any way. I'm almost thinking of letting the date push him some. Hubby seems to be comfortable as long as he's in a position not visible to me. Should I encourage my date to offer hubby his cock while I'm giving a bj? I'm almost sure he'd look to me for approval and do it if I nodded or smiled.

Well as long as the both of you are enjoying it together it seems perfectly fine. My wife love to watch guys suck cock. Your approval of your hubby sucking cock might lead to more sucking and who knows maybe even some anal play too!!

 

[LuciousLadyMary]

You should encourage him and that is an excellent way to start

Been doing some research...lol. Something along these lines maybe?

https://xhamster.com/videos/trio-bi-lick-cock-5624275#mlrelated

 

[blowit]

Been doing some research...lol. Something along these lines maybe?

https://xhamster.com/videos/trio-bi-lick-cock-5624275#mlrelated

Fuck yes!!!!!

 

[CuriousGuyVa]

Almost surprising how many guys here as not attracted to guys but curious... just think how many might be that we know in real life but keep t to themselves.

 

[LuciousLadyMary]

Almost surprising how many guys here as not attracted to guys but curious... just think how many might be that we know in real life but keep t to themselves.

I'd estimate that if given the chance of NEVER being outed, 90% of men would suck a cock.

I used to work with a guy who'd look at customers and say, "He might not be gay, but I bet he'd hold one in his mouth till the swelling went down." And some of them you'd never think it.

 

[blowit]

Almost surprising how many guys here as not attracted to guys but curious... just think how many might be that we know in real life but keep t to themselves.

If only there was a universal signal easily made and recognisable to those of us with the inclination. That would make life for us wannabee cock suckers to find a man so much easier. Nothing so clearly going to out you like licking your lips as you stare at his crotch whilst grasping your own lol. Something discreet that you could claim ignorance of the meaning if challenged.

 

[CuriousGuyVa]

I'd estimate that if given the chance of NEVER being outed, 90% of men would suck a cock.

I used to work with a guy who'd look at customers and say, "He might not be gay, but I bet he'd hold one in his mouth till the swelling went down." And some of them you'd never think it.

I have no baisis for a good estimate, but the feeling is that you are 90% correct.

 

[CuriousGuyVa]

If only there was a universal signal easily made and recognisable to those of us with the inclination. That would make life for us wannabee cock suckers to find a man so much easier. Nothing so clearly going to out you like licking your lips as you stare at his crotch whilst grasping your own lol. Something discreet that you could claim ignorance of the meaning if challenged.

There's always going out for a few beers with buddies and after a few have been put down, you can start a conversation by asking everyone if they ever thought about sucking a cock.... that probably wouldn't be awkward

there probably never will be a way to know unless someone "accidentally" mentioned it.. but it is an interesting wonder...

 

[tedsbeds]

There's always going out for a few beers with buddies and after a few have been put down, you can start a conversation by asking everyone if they ever thought about sucking a cock.... that probably wouldn't be awkward

there probably never will be a way to know unless someone "accidentally" mentioned it.. but it is an interesting wonder...

After 60+years of being a heterosexual male with many gay friends, still the idea of a man sucking a cock still is most unappealing

 

[blowit]

After 60+years of being a heterosexual male with many gay friends, still the idea of a man sucking a cock still is most unappealing

If I have read your comment correctly?................... it begs the question why you would be reading this thread. How very odd.

 

[blowit]

There's always going out for a few beers with buddies and after a few have been put down, you can start a conversation by asking everyone if they ever thought about sucking a cock.... that probably wouldn't be awkward

there probably never will be a way to know unless someone "accidentally" mentioned it.. but it is an interesting wonder...

Oh yes that's subtle and not likely to out you is it lol. Nor would it out the guys who reply. "oh yes. The idea of sucking cock is never off my mind"................................haha

 

[LuciousLadyMary]

Oh yes that's subtle and not likely to out you is it lol. Nor would it out the guys who reply. "oh yes. The idea of sucking cock is never off my mind"................................haha

Hubby used to mention those subtle glances in the men's room. Do those still happen?

 

[Who_Knows1]

Grear research!

Been doing some research...lol. Something along these lines maybe?

https://xhamster.com/videos/trio-bi-lick-cock-5624275#mlrelated

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Wow! Now that's really good research!!! In fact, some excellent work that literally nails my current situation to a T. Such a wonderful find and perfect analogy for my current sexual relationship. I certainly belong to the club, and perfect clip for my on and off again GF, who loves for me to rub (and bounce) the heavy head of my cock - in, up, down and around her clit area while we passionately talk about me, or us, sucking cock together, all the while playing with her ass...

Oh - I can add to this post if anyone would like to hear more detail...??? The answer definitely should be: Yes, Yes and Yessss!

 

[load69]

In a nutshell from a story in the works of our early years...
Lets go back a lot of years. I was 22, him 25. 3some in our home. We'd been married less than a year. Hubby was licking me and I was kissing the guy laying next to me. All of us nude, the guy moved closer to me and his cock was laying on my upper thigh. Hubby moved away from my crotch and took him in his mouth.

I lost it. I know I could have handled it 1000% better but that's all hindsight shit.

The guy ended up leaving over my tantrum.

We continued 3somes for several years and it never happened again.

Fast forward to last year. Hubby cannot perform anymore due to diabetes.

We had our first HW 3some with him as a non performer. We've had several since.
On the last one, he was 69ing me while I was getting it doggie. Licking everywhere... it felt great. So I know he had to be licking him as he was entering me. Guy unloads 2 shots in me and hubby gets the third on his face. Facial, bigtime. He continued to clean me up and then moved up to have me lick his face clean. I did.

He's taken my dates cocks and offered them to me orally. He's inserted them into me.

Thoughts?

He wants one in his mouth. Next time just tell him that you want him to suck it.

 

[load69]

I'd estimate that if given the chance of NEVER being outed, 90% of men would suck a cock.

I used to work with a guy who'd look at customers and say, "He might not be gay, but I bet he'd hold one in his mouth till the swelling went down." And some of them you'd never think it.

Count me in!!! I would definitely hold a cock in my mouth til the swelling went down if I wasn't outed.

 

[LuciousLadyMary]

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Wow! Now that's really good research!!! In fact, some excellent work that literally nails my current situation to a T. Such a wonderful find and perfect analogy for my current sexual relationship. I certainly belong to the club, and perfect clip for my on and off again GF, who loves for me to rub (and bounce) the heavy head of my cock - in, up, down and around her clit area while we passionately talk about me, or us, sucking cock together, all the while playing with her ass...

Oh - I can add to this post if anyone would like to hear more detail...??? The answer definitely should be: Yes, Yes and Yessss!

I was sent that link in a PM and I love it. I put it on a thumb and play it sometimes on the bedroom tv while we're pillow talking like you two do. It's one of the few I play along with our vid clips.

 

[LuciousLadyMary]

Count me in!!! I would definitely hold a cock in my mouth til the swelling went down if I wasn't outed.

LOL... I think I need to have shirts made!!!!!