Notice of Submission

[Complaisant1]

As someone who's been trying to figure this crap out for 10 years, and has made more than her share of mistakes (online and off), my advice was spot on - just not sugar coated.

Duly noted. Thank you. Unfortunately, I have some things to learn.

 

[DeepGreenEyes]

Hey, I tried to solve this little issue earlier this year.

It soared skyward like a Corian zeppelin.

 

[Sir_Winston54]

Complaisant1, you joined Literotica five whole days ago. In that time, you've apparently found a Master who doesn't *ever* post in the BDSM fora, but only in the Fetish/Sexuality, Personals, GB, Playground, and Sexual Role Playing fora. Since 23 of your 26 total posts have been either in Talk or the Café, you might somewhat understand our confusion. Also, if you had been here a bit longer, you would have seen threads similar to this one - they seem to pop up about once a month or so - and seen our responses to them.

I'm sorry if you're wounded or offended by what some of us have said in this thread. Your first thread, "Took all I could do...," was a good start, and a good introduction to you, and hopefully to us. A number of very smart people, very experienced in our culture, responded to you with some good advice and references. Unfortunately, *this* thread, similar to so many we've seen before, just kind of triggered the cynicism and sarcasm that they generally do.

It seems that you're in the throes of the first flush of love (or lust or discovery, or whatever) and will probably hate to "hear" what I'm about to say next. Your Master blew the pooch if he ordered you to post this thread in this forum. He demonstrated a remarkable lack of knowledge of what this forum is for, and substantial disregard for the people who hang out here. Being that he spends so much time in Fetish/Sexuality, the Playground and SRP in particular, it sort of flabbergasts me that he didn't have you post it in one of those fora, where those with whom he chooses to hang out could be awed by his power. (Yes, that's sarcastic. That's me.)

The fact of the matter is, most of us who flung the arrows in this thread weren't much pissed at you, or even really making fun of you. He, on the other hand, would probably be taking his pixels in hand and risking their immortal souls were he to wander in here.

'Nuf said, really. I apologize if I unduly or terribly unfairly hurt or offended you. I'm just a grumpy old man who does that thing sometimes. Think of your favorite grouchy TV grandpa who yells at everyone to get off his lawn, but really has a heart of gold. (Hard, cold and lumpy. )

 

[Stella_Omega]

Hmmm... does a 48-year-old qualify for TTThread #6 from Gracie's School's out and the BDSM Café is Fair Game thread?

I call ageist language there. There's no reason a 48 year old can't be a student.

As I said in the post, it was a very difficult thing to do. Not only am I brand new at this (here come the judgemental comments from the workers), but I am an introvert and revealing myself in a public forum like this is one of the most difficult things to do.

I'm my own person. I process things differently than you. Maybe if the people responding to this thread would take a moment and consider that, there wouldn't be so much angst and judgement against me. Obviously no one hesitates to throw the first stone. Sad.

Nobody has offered any judgement or angst against you. Not.

One.

Person.

I want your first foray into D/s to be a great experience for you. I want you to be able to find a dominant to whom you can send a picture with no reservations. (guys DO need pictures, even the good ones)

But you know how you hear about Doms training subs? Or considering them? As a sub, you too can, and should, consider a dominant before you agree to give away your power to the dude. Your power is pretty important stuff.

For instance, being called a cum slut might be something that gets you hot, or maybe not. Obviously, you can't really demand that some Dom not do what he's gonna do. But you can make the choice that he doesn't do it to you.

Being told to write humiliating posts might not be a thing you can be okay with. If that's his style, and you can't match that style, you might want to look for a guy who's style matches yours a little bit better.

 

[eastern sun]

Is Ryexxxtoast your husband?

edited to add: if so, and this is meant to be a punishment for your failure to complete your task, then take it for what it is. He's throwing some petty humiliation your way. If you don't like where this is taking you, then you should talk to him.

if not, then who are you submitting to? do you know?

 

[Sir_Winston54]

Hmmm... does a 48-year-old qualify for TTThread #6 from Gracie's School's out and the BDSM Café is Fair Game thread?

I call ageist language there. There's no reason a 48 year old can't be a student.

Chill out the face, Stella! I specifically linked the thread to go to Gracie's first post, where she specified "Teenage Troll Thread Number" x, for a reason.

And seein' that I'm in the top ten percent here, age-wise, accusing me of age-ism is ... well, I dunno what the hell it is, but it's somethin' not good.

 

[Etoile]

I call ageist language there. There's no reason a 48 year old can't be a student.

48 year old students usually have better things to do in the summer though! Even in my late twenties I had way more to do in the summers than any of my classmates. They would sit around saying "OMG SO BORED" and I had no sympathy!

 

[Lord_Steve]

show me your titty. just one, please. no need to be excessive, or vulgar.

but seriously if you want to ditch the loser and get w/ a cruiser, my AIM is SeXXYdomSk8Rboi and my BITCH MOM might let me have the car for the weekend if u want to hook up. i've saved up for nearly seven tails of a cat o nine tails and my fav book is fifty shadows of grey HIT ME UP GURL