ok, this may be gross, but ladies, HELP

[NaiveOne]

Thinking on the positive side...


When I get stressed or worried ar nervous about something, my period tends to be late. For example, I just went through a weird roommate fiasco and just bought my first house, which must have stressed me out because I was two weeks late. And there was no way I could have been pregnant (sigh... it's been awhile).

So! Maybe your nerves will work in your favor.

Good luck!!!

 

[YellowShirt]

Wear tampons to minimize bloodiness.

Aagghh!! Tampons while having sex is a BIG no-no! Once, when I was much younger, I actually forgot that I had one in and so my boyfriend and I went to town.
Later, when I realized it, it had been pushed so far up there I couldn't even feel it with my fingers! Too embarresed to tell anyone, I just waited it out. Luckily my body worked it out but it took like three days! Very dangerous territory, Toxic Shock Syndrome is still a big deal.
I would suggest just letting him know, he should be fine with it. When I'm on my period, we've learned different positions minimize the mess. You on top will make you bleed, just as on your back with your legs up will also. Good ones are you on your back but keep your legs down, or doggy style, but stay up on your arms. It's the deeper positions that will cause more blood, so use your own judgement.
And a note about Depo-Provera (the shot), for some people, it just doesn't work. If it doesn't make you stop having your period, it WILL make you bleed the whole entire three months. If this happens sometimes you can get another shot and it will correct itself, sometimes not. And, you have to get the shot for the first time when you are on your period, so it may not even be an option for you this time around.

 

[inkydink]

Period Question

This may be gross too--but can you have sex when you're having your period? Without a condom? It wouldn't give the guy an infection or something? And will it really gross the guy out if you accidentally get blood on him (like if you're just starting or finishing your period)?

 

[rydia57]

This may be gross too--but can you have sex when you're having your period? Without a condom? It wouldn't give the guy an infection or something? And will it really gross the guy out if you accidentally get blood on him (like if you're just starting or finishing your period)?

Some guys really don't care if they get blood on them, it turns them on. Usually after the fourth day, my cramps are gone and my flow is very low, I've had a guy just ask me if I was in pain, I say no, and then we get busy. Felt great! And in the shower was great too!

 

[LadyJeanne]

This may be gross too--but can you have sex when you're having your period? Without a condom? It wouldn't give the guy an infection or something? And will it really gross the guy out if you accidentally get blood on him (like if you're just starting or finishing your period)?

Yes, of course you can have sex on your period, and without a condom (as long as you're both free of STD's in the first place, and you're on BC of some kind). Menstrual blood will not give a guy an infection or 'something' or anything.

Some guys, usually inexperienced ones, may be grossed out by the blood if your period came early...or frightened that they may have hurt you or themselves accidentally. Most men do not get grossed out - every woman has a period and if a man is having sex with her regularly, he will encounter blood accidentally.

A lot of men have no problem with intercourse during her period. Some don't have a problem with giving her oral then, either, with our without a tampon in place:

https://forum.literotica.com/showthread.php?t=311346

 

[Lust Engine]

And if all else fails, just have sex in the shower!

It's really not that gross (to me at least) but then some guys are weirded out by it and some ladies are self conscious of it as well.

 

[deluxe3000]

sorry for the late post. just found this thread.

i love having sex any way i can get it and am actually more comfortable with fooling around while my gal is having her period. i love to cuddle, fuck, and definitely lick her all the time and her period has never slowed me down or stopped me from giving her fantastic head or fucking.

 

[mrs.jeepman6]

I am one of the lucky ones who has a hubby who never cared if I was on my period or not, he still wanted me but it was me who didn't care to much for it though I did give in many times. Most of the time we just masturbated together. Watching him stroke his cock for me has always been such a turn on anyway but seemed even better during the monthly. Good luck in whatever you decide to try.

 

[bronntanas]

Kinda grody post...

This may be gross too--but can you have sex when you're having your period? Without a condom? It wouldn't give the guy an infection or something? And will it really gross the guy out if you accidentally get blood on him (like if you're just starting or finishing your period)?

Yes you can, I never do it without a condom anyway, and it doesn't gross me out if I get some on me. I do, however appreciate some warning, because of my size issues. Mine's kinda big and I was in a relationship that eventually turned sexual, and the first time we were intimate, she was due for her period, which I didn't know about. So we go at all night long, and the next morning when we wake up, she's in a pool of blood. Being kinda young and very inexperienced, I thought I'd injured her somehow as the previous evening had been rather strenuous and athletic. I totally freaked out, and she's not a morning person! I shake her awake going "OMG, are you okay? Tell me where it hurts! Where do you wanna go? (as in Urgent Care or Casuality)" and she's saying "Huh? Wha-" I continued to panic (thinking she's comotose from blood loss or something.) and she finally woke up enough to laugh her butt off at my expense. We got up, tossed the linen into the washer, and got into the shower, where she demonstrated that she was indeed, fine....

 

[eyenohow]

Don't know if anyone said it yet as I just skimmed the thread but the sponge is pretty good. No blood (since that seems to be a concern for you, though I think you should try it atleast once) and no hormones.

 

[CuriousDemo]

I always call it Instead but it is the same thing. A guy can feel it if he has his fingers deep inside you sometimes but in general they don't seem to notice. I usually tell them just in case.

If you pull an instead out wrong you can be flinging blood all over. You should practice removing them in your own bathroom before attempting it in other peoples. When I first started using them I thought about doing a pictoral on bathrooms I have flung blood in Showers are great places to practice.

Anyway, I take it out and rinse it right before sex and then again afterwards because when you come more blood seems to be expelled.

It holds about a 1/3 cup and can be worn for up to 12 hours, I love them. whoever said you only have 2 tablespoons of blood in your period was seriously deluded (and probably male).

Since I started using them I haven't used a tampon or evil pads. They don't get heavy and hurt like tampons, have that irratating string, or chafe you like pads. AND you can have sex with them in!!!!!! what more could you possible want?

Really interesting to know. I have recently started using one of these.

 

[CuriousDemo]

Yes you can, I never do it without a condom anyway, and it doesn't gross me out if I get some on me. I do, however appreciate some warning, because of my size issues. Mine's kinda big and I was in a relationship that eventually turned sexual, and the first time we were intimate, she was due for her period, which I didn't know about. So we go at all night long, and the next morning when we wake up, she's in a pool of blood. Being kinda young and very inexperienced, I thought I'd injured her somehow as the previous evening had been rather strenuous and athletic. I totally freaked out, and she's not a morning person! I shake her awake going "OMG, are you okay? Tell me where it hurts! Where do you wanna go? (as in Urgent Care or Casuality)" and she's saying "Huh? Wha-" I continued to panic (thinking she's comotose from blood loss or something.) and she finally woke up enough to laugh her butt off at my expense. We got up, tossed the linen into the washer, and got into the shower, where she demonstrated that she was indeed, fine....

This is brilliant. I would of been mortified. She is totally kickass.