OKay, who's done it?

[Curious Guy]

Twice

First time was a casual friends wife. Knowing from her actions what she wanted, I tried to avoid her in situations that could get out of hand. She got me cornered and a man can only take so much. Looking back on it in recent years, I believe her husband encouraged it or at the very least knew and approved.

Second time, well we are still married.

Guilty: nope

Do again: probably not

 

[Jaded Eyes]

I've done it before. It was with a woman who wasn't happy with her marriage. We started seeing each other...only 'cause I was under the impression that her husband didn't love her anymroe. She left him to be with me, which I was ok with...at least until I found out that her husband did still love her, and then I felt really guilty. We broke it off, and she went back to her husband and now they're finally having the happy marriage that they should have had in the first place. I would never do it again, then again I never thought I would do it in the first place.

 

[Cheyenne]

I have not, but I came close. And that's something I never thought I would do. Had my almost-partner not called the whole thing off, I would have gone through with it.

There have been other threads (long ago) discussing affairs and whether the non-married partner is "guilty" of anything. Some people feel strongly that only the married person in an affair can be "guilty." The single person has nothing to be guilty about. I don't know that I agree, unless the single person didn't KNOW the partner was married. That's a different scenario.